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i'm not new to the lifestyle - but not old hat or jaded either :) seeking a male Dom with experience. experience is subjective i realize, but would prefer someone who's been around more than five years. One who understands, most importantly, the mental aspect as much as physical control and pain. am i into pain - yes. am still exploring this area. my hard limits are scarring, burns, needles, and knives. (there are a couple of others outside of pain) i've been subjected to caning, crops, flogging, clamps, slapping, and otk spanking. i enjoy humor, good conversation, reading, travel, and a host of other things outside of kink. i find it necessary for work purposes to maintain a vanilla exterior in public. finding someone who understands this and shares the same needs/concerns would be optimal. i know my place and i know that i have a lot to learn. i'm not perfect nor do i pretend to be - what i am though is always willing to try. sorry, i am not interested in relocation or a dedicated poly relationship.
punkermistress
 
 Age: 28
  Illinois