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Present oneself so as to leave a lasting impression
instead of a bad taste!


I have been told that I need to clarify something on my profile. So I say proudy that I am a slut. However, I am more than just a slut. I have a smart ass sense of humor. I am happiest when I'm taking care of others. I am easy going and can get along with almost anyone. I am kind hearted and try to treat others as I wish to be treated. This all is just a small part of who I am.
This is my definition of a slut: "A person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you. A person who is accepting of their enjoyment of sex and the pleasure of intimacy." However, I prefer to be a slut to just ONE instead of with many. I know some will disagree that you cannot be a slut if you're not interested in being with others. But as I stated in my first sentence....this is MY definition. Everybody doesn't have to agree with my definition. As for me... I only need one!

10/17/2012 5:48:44 AM

The saying goes that "When one door of happiness closes, another opens."  I want to know who hid all the flashlights?  Because it's darned hard to find anything in darkness!  8~/

10/6/2012 6:37:28 PM

Do you ever want to just throw your hands up and say fuck it?   Undecided

8/31/2012 6:49:53 PM

I have posted this before, but I feel the need to say this again... 

Wait for the one who will be your best friend, who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what.

Wait for the one who makes you smile like no other, and when he smiles you know he needs you too.

Wait for the one who wants to show you off when you are in sweats and have no makeup on, but appreciates it when you get all dolled up for him.

Most of all, wait for the one who will put you at the center of his universe, because obviously, he's at the center of yours.

Some things truly are worth waiting for!

8/24/2012 11:54:09 AM

I never complain about how some guys act on here, but I feel the need to say that some guys should learn how to pull up their big boy panties.  Jumping up and down and acting like a spoiled little boy when you don't get your way isn't going to help you get what you want!  And as for questioning what kind of sub I am....I'm the kind of sub who has a good head on her shoulders and who doesn't make rash decisions about anything.  You just proved why it's smart to get to know someone before getting too friendly!!!

8/22/2012 7:13:11 PM

Vacation!!!!!  Woooo hoooo!  I so need time off!  

8/14/2012 8:45:59 PM

kar·ma/ˈkärmə/

 Noun:     
  1. (in Hinduism and Buddhism) The sum of a person's actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in...
  2. Destiny or fate, following as effect from cause.
 Maybe we should think before we act?!
3/21/2012 6:38:04 AM
It has been a rough week! sighs
3/5/2012 7:28:37 PM

“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you."

5/24/2011 7:04:26 PM

“Whether I shall be unfortunate depends also on others; whether I shall be unhappy depends only on myself.”  --  Ivan Panin

5/20/2011 7:09:26 PM

If you don't know what you want,

you end up with a lot you don't!

4/23/2011 9:01:55 PM

Happy Easter!!!!  {#}

4/8/2011 8:37:49 PM

Just tired! 

4/1/2011 8:00:27 PM

Happy birthday to me, I'm a little bit tipsy!  LOL  {#}

1/24/2011 6:01:52 PM

i received a few comments on my last journal entry.  It seems several don't believe there is such a thing as happily ever after.

 

Why is that?  Is it because we have forgotten what happiness is?  Is it because our expectations of what happiness is are far more than is possible?

 

Merriam-Webster defines Happiness as...

 

a : a state of well-being and contentment : joy

.
b : a pleasurable or satisfying experience.
 
So, in reading these definitions, can every one of us not think of at least one thing in their lives that makes them happy?
1/23/2011 12:24:10 PM

A smart girl doesn't expect a knight in shining armour to whisk her away, but is a little peace, love and happiness too much to hope for?

 

Is there such a thing as happily ever after?

 

How does one know when it's time to take a chance on love and a possible happily ever after?

1/15/2011 4:36:36 PM

What goes around, comes around.  How you treat others will come back to bite you in the ass eventually!

10/30/2010 8:40:58 PM

Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.

10/28/2010 7:53:34 PM

Some people think it's holding on that makes one strong.
Sometimes it's letting go!

10/27/2010 5:23:57 PM

It takes more courage to reveal insecurities than to hide them, more strength to relate to people than to dominate them, more 'manhood' to abide by thought-out principles rather than blind reflex. Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles and an immature mind.” ~ Alex Karras

10/25/2010 9:39:22 PM

Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.

10/15/2010 9:10:44 PM
You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.  ~James D. Miles
10/10/2010 9:30:41 PM
Your dreams may not turn out as you had hoped, but keep your head held high, for you still have value.
9/19/2010 12:17:53 AM

Knowing others is intelligence;
 knowing yourself is true wisdom.
Mastering others is strength;
 mastering yourself is true power.

9/11/2010 8:12:12 AM

Sometimes you meet someone,
and before you know their name,
before you know where they're from,
you know that sometime in the future,
this person is going to mean something to you.

9/8/2010 4:27:03 PM
So Wednesday comes and goes.  :-(
9/7/2010 8:21:15 AM

I've learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances. -- Martha Washington

9/6/2010 9:13:39 PM

"The strongest oak of the forest is not the one that is protected from the storm and hidden from the sun.  It’s the one that stands in the open where it is compelled to struggle for its existence against the wind and rains and the scorching sun." -- Napoleon Hill


Looking forward to Wednesday's sun!

9/5/2010 9:55:58 AM

Happy & hopeful...yet nervous!  What great combination of emotions. 

9/4/2010 10:03:06 PM

Wait for the one who will be your best friend, who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what.

Wait for the one who makes you smile like no other, and when he smiles you know he needs you too.

Wait for the one who wants to show you off when you are in sweats and have no makeup on, but appreciates it when you get all dolled up for him.

Most of all, wait for the one who will put you at the center of his universe, because obviously, he's at the center of yours.

9/3/2010 11:14:30 PM

“Self-acceptance comes from meeting life’s challenges vigorously.  Don’t numb yourself to your trials and difficulties, nor build mental walls to exclude pain from your life.  You will find peace not by trying to escape your problems, but by confronting them courageously.  You will find peace not in denial, but in victory.”
--  J. Donald Walters (Romanian author, lecturer, and composer)

8/31/2010 8:48:22 PM

i miss it! 

8/31/2010 6:02:08 PM

"Words - so innocent and powerless as they are, as standing in a dictionary, how potent for good and evil they become in the hands of one who knows how to combine them."  --  Nathaniel Hawthorne

8/30/2010 8:04:23 PM

Never get in a battle of wits
without ammunition. 
-- American Proverb

8/29/2010 12:21:21 PM

I will prepare and some day my chance will come.
  --
Abraham Lincoln

8/28/2010 4:47:29 PM

An ounce of discretion is worth a pound of learning.  ;-)

8/26/2010 2:54:14 PM

"Change is the essence of life. 
Be willing to surrender
what you are
for what you could become."

8/25/2010 4:54:34 PM

Life is change. 
Growth is optional. 
Choose wisely.

8/24/2010 5:58:09 PM

“Don't lower your expectations to meet your performance. Raise your level of performance to meet your expectations. Expect the best of yourself, and then do what is necessary to make it a reality.”  --  Ralph Marston

8/23/2010 4:41:30 PM
What I am looking for is not out there, it is in me. --  Helen Keller
8/22/2010 8:04:41 PM

Life:
It is about the gift
not the package it comes in.

8/21/2010 7:02:42 AM
Living is like licking honey off a thorn.
8/20/2010 6:03:43 PM

The grand essentials of  happiness are: 
 something to do,
 something to love, and
 something to hope for.

8/16/2010 8:30:08 PM

"Only as high as I reach can I grow, only as far as I seek can I go, only as deep as I look can I see, only as much as I dream can I be."  --  Karen Ravn

8/15/2010 8:03:06 PM
Discouraged not by difficulties without, or the anguish of ages within, the heart listens to a secret voice that whispers: "Be not dismayed; in the future lies the Promised Land."  -  Helen Keller
8/14/2010 8:13:10 PM

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot seen nor touched. They are felt with the heart. 
 
--  Helen Keller

8/13/2010 10:04:21 PM
sur·ren·der - to yield to the power, control, or possession of another upon compulsion or demand. 
8/12/2010 7:11:19 PM
The most splendid future will always depend upon the necessity to release the past; you cannot move forward in life unless you can learn from your past mistakes and move on. 
8/10/2010 7:14:33 PM

     Pure love is a willingness to give without a thought of receiving anything in return.   

misstressvola
 
 Age: 25
  Alabama