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Female Submissive, 50, NSW
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Male Submissive, 46, santa fe, New Mexico
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About unfulfillfantasy
Hello to all that read this. I am looking for locals only, prefer over the age of 30, maybe even 40 would be better (in other words, MATURE)...I am a novice to this lifestyle, but am married and not a novice to the swinging lifestyle. I am on here, however, for something that does not include my husband, but he is aware. I am not a true submissive andnormally have a more aggressive personality (not a Domme). I have this curiosity that has consumed me for way too long. Im having trouble with it sincethis lifestyle, and me being submissive, is so out of my comfort zone.I amat a point in my life I know I want to try to pursue it. Please dont send a one liner asking what is my fantasy.And NO, the reason I wont respond, isNOT because itssomething weird or taboo. I am a whole person and will share, oviously, ifI deem it ness. with the right person.
I am in search of someone that would have the patience as well as the interest to be with a true, no experience,NOVICE. A Dom or Topmale is what I think would best fit what I need, butNOT someone that is over the top with demands or into anything extreme that the lifestyle may offer. I believe trust must be present on both sides, in order to really be able to let go. So rushing into anything is not going to be my style. ImNOT looking to be trained, humiliated or have extreme pain inflicted.
I am looking for the mental aspect that the Ds lifestyle can give. Im looking for someone that can read what Im going through with my inhibitions, but help with what I may need, as well as what might be too much for me and not scare me. I guess Im saying that I am scared, but sooo curious to what my own sexuality might bring out. I am a confident, strong woman and not looking to be a full time submissive to someone. This is a journey and it is MY journey, but am interested in continuous exploration and learning, if find this is the direction I wish to continue on ..
I can understand that most experience Doms may find me boring, since I have no experience and want to go slow. I am hopeful that I can find the right man to experience what has seemed to not rest for me. Thank you for taking the time to read all of this.
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QUESTION (well maybe more observation)-- Do people believe being an alpha personality in day to day life, mean you cannot be submissive too? (Rhetorical question) Because I am getting really discouraged.. I express being a strong woman, but wanting to be submissive to a man. Then when Dom men that contact me, I am quick to discuss this. Being inexperienced in submitting, but being a strong woman personally seems to interest lots of dom men here. However, in getting to know me, meeting me, and finding I am being truthful... I seem to intimidate Dom men.. over and over. I know I'm not very informed in the lifestyle, but doesn't being Dominant mean your a dominant personality? Cant dominance handle strong woman?... or is lying just easier to get attention from subs for you Doms? I dont waste people's time, wish others that met me wouldn't waste mine... And YOU ALL know who you are. If I am not the type of sub you seek, then just say so.. Because if your not what I seek, I seem to have no problem expressing that, and definitely not leading people on for long period of times. Again, you all know who you are. But to all that have extended friendships, thank you!! |
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Hello again. Since I am very new to all this. I have a strong desire to watch a Dom man with his sub female. I only want to watch and see the true exchange between a Dom and his sub, without interference from me. Anyone interested in helping me, or knowing more, please contact me. Any subs reading this that think their Dom may enjoy this sort of thing. I hope you show him this.. Thank you so much. |
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