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I'm currently in a committed relationship, not looking to add anyone to that relationship, and not really looking for people to play with either.
I'm creating this profile chiefly to read the forums and further my understanding of BDSM as a culture, a mental exercise, and a sexual proclivity.
I am, however, always happy to find new friends.
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Well, I changed my profile to indicate dominance rather than switchiness, and overall I'm happy to have done so. We still don't have a sub, but I'm not in a huge rush to look for another one- the right person will happen along eventually, I'm sure.
I have a good feeling about this year.
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I'm seriously considering changing my profile from 'Switch' to 'Domme'... I'm just finding it increasingly difficult to imagine a person I'd willingly submit to. NOTE: This does not mean I want the reader (hello, reader!) to try to be that one improbable person. I'm having trouble imagining it because it feels like it's not something I'd want or be comfortable with.
Maybe I have too many control issues to be anything other than a top right now.
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One reason I'm on CollarMe- the learning experience- is becoming more and more apparent as time goes by. I'm finding lately that I'm inclined much more toward the dominant side and really not keen on the idea of subbing... Which makes for interesting times, because my partner really doesn't have it in him to switch either. So while I still classify myself as a switch- I'm too easygoing and happy-to-help not to- essentially, we're a pair of doms with no sub.
This makes me a little sad, because it means I have nobody to beat or order around.
The difficulty in finding someone to fill that missing role would be that my partner and I have such a long-standing connection that integrating a third person into the relationship can be tricky... And we'd consider an arrangement with a sub acquaintance that didn't envolve romantic entanglement, only we don't have any sub friends who are looking and I feel much happier about doing this with people who are already known to me.
So yeah. We're in wait-and-see mode.
That's all for now. Good luck in your searches, readers.
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Well, I've been on CollarMe for maybe 48 hours total, and already I've got my first message. An individual several states away expressed an interest in relocating and becoming my full-time sub/houseboy.
Interesting idea- I do hate housework for the most part- but if he'd read my profile he'd know I'm not really looking for that.
In other news, I saw the profile of a really lovely pro Domme- such shiny purple hair, you wouldn't believe- but what was interesting was the photo depicted her holding a strange, somewhat spiky-looking sphere, purplish-black in color, that looked like it might light up in some way. I can't figure out what it was. I'd message her to ask, but she seemed like she was really only interested in hearing from people who wanted to book sessions. Ah well.
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