UnconditionalSir


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	About UnconditionalSir A girl sincerely following direction can attain results far beyond what her own will is capable of. She can literally be remade both externally and internally and achieve a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction previously thought impossible. This is the power of submission. I firmly believe that there is very little that cannot be accomplished through discipline and focus. I provide that. I am an experienced and passionate Man who appreciates both the mental and physical aspects of a DOM/sub relationship. I have specific expectations of you. Should we have a connection, eventually meet and share a mutual attraction I will spell these out in great detail. What will get us to that point is a firm understanding of who wields the power in our relationship. You should absolutely adore men, think of pleasing them regularly and be content in that role. A good Dominant understands his sub/slave needs care and protection. A good slave/sub understands that this Dominant needs everything in return. Unconditional and insatiable seem to go hand in hand. I will tell you what to do in most things. I enjoy choosing your outfits in the bedroom and out. I will make sure you exercise as regularly as I do. This will not happen overnight, but it will happen. You will be mine and everyone we meet will know it. I am sexually curious and do not really think in terms of limits. I want to explore and I do. I should mention anything involving kids, animals or criminal acts are not really of interest. You read this and find it interesting? Send a message. That is the first order you will need to follow. I am open to meeting new people, communicating or helping with any questions you might have. Otherwise, good luck and be safe.

Another lovely day on the coast of California. Just saying Pismo makes me feel better, being blessed enough to live here is beyond belief. I'm full of gratitude and appreciate my good fortune. Of course I work hard, am still as driven as I've ever been and decided to start another business 4 years ago just before the world nearly came to an end. But I am also aware that luck plays a part in this wild life we get to live.

I was moved by a note from a new friend to update my blog. It's been so long. Ugh.

I'm putting it out to the universe that it is time to find my next slave, submissive or partner in crime. Work is amazing, pursuing the interior life is essential but sharing my insatiable libido and natural dominance needs to be more important.

I am open to most ideas in this age of zoom and Skype but ultimately we need to be together in person. Say hello and let the serendipity begin!

Andrew

Very windy today, water choppy and the waves were very uneven. Basically poor conditions. I was tired after a long day leading my team and it would have been very reasonable to pack it in. Maybe do a few reps at the gym, hit the steam room and relax. I went in. Caught a few right and a nice left and took a beating in between. The upshot is I felt better about myself afterwards. I can't always remember that in the moment so I try to just push myself whenever I feel resistance. Like most good things I do, they are simply habits. Do them enough and they become second nature. What habits do you want to cultivate?

"Under My Thumb" Under my thumb The girl who once had me down Under my thumb The girl who once pushed me around It's down to me The difference in the clothes she wears Down to me, the change has come, She's under my thumb Ain't it the truth babe? Under my thumb The squirmin' dog who's just had her day Under my thumb A girl who has just changed her ways It's down to me, yes it is The way she does just what she's told Down to me, the change has come She's under my thumb Ah, ah, say it's alright Under my thumb A siamese cat of a girl Under my thumb She's the sweetest, hmmm, pet in the world It's down to me The way she talks when she's spoken to Down to me, the change has come, She's under my thumb Ah, take it easy babe Yeah It's down to me, oh yeah The way she talks when she's spoken to Down to me, the change has come, She's under my thumb Yeah, it feels alright Under my thumb Her eyes are just kept to herself Under my thumb, well I I can still look at someone else It's down to me, oh that's what I said The way she talks when she's spoken to Down to me, the change has come, She's under my thumb Say, it's alright. Say it's all... Say it's all... Take it easy babe Take it easy babe Feels alright Take it, take it easy babe.

Life. Hard life. Only in retrospect am I able to see that my low points were actually opportunities for my greatest growth. If you are struggling, share that with another real person. Show your true self always. Isolation and pain are bearable, they can be embraced! I discovered I was an artist when my marriage ended, was so alone I could taste it and my life felt over. I was in so much pain I was willing to try anything. What are you willing to try today?

Structure and discipline are liberating. How? Imagine riding a bicycle across a high bridge. Without railings constant vigilance is required. With the structure and boundaries provided by secure limits you can truly enjoy yourself. Lean back, feel the wind, know you are safe and enjoy all that there is.

Sunshine, daydream, walking in the tall trees, going where the wind goes Blooming like a red rose, breathing more freely, Ride our singin', I'll walk you in the morning sunshine Sunshine, daydream. Sunshine, daydream. Walking in the sunshine.

So what is your plan. Have you done any "visioning"? Set aside time to actively sit and contemplate what it is you seek, want to be, where you want to end up? Next would be getting it on paper. I prefer a large sheet of heavy paper on the wall. And I put down all I want to be our do. Play piano. Take photographs. Write. Have a harem. Whatever. I see it every day. And magically they start to happen.

I think lack of discipline is not necessarily a result of one being lazy, but from lacking direction. The lack of direction leads to the nefarious habit of inaction. What is your direction for today?

Unsolicited advice is always taken as criticism. One must always ask when they are ready to hear another's input.

Some might say they don't believe in heaven
Go and tell it to the man who lives in hell
Some might say you get what you've been given
If you don't get yours I won't get mine as well

Some might say we will find a brighter day
Some might say we will find a brighter day

Regular exercise followed by long hot Epsom salt baths has a very satisfying and detoxifying result. Combine this with a good read (love my Kindle) or interesting story (the latest new yorker has a great story about the film maker Richard Linklater) and magically I feel much more at peace and whole. A nice side effect is getting in better shape and generally feeling better about myself. What estimable act have you done today? Do it for a few days and you have a trend. Right? Would it be easier for you if I developed a schedule and held you to it?

Soaking in a very nice Kohler tub with very hot water and Epsom salts added. This helps with the soreness from my long hike after work and also detoxifies your system. Reading profiles and offering encouraging words. My take away? We are all the same: we want love and acceptance, to be told we are OK and doing well and that's it's OK to be they way we feel inside. So go for it!!!!

A girl sincerely following direction can attain results far beyond what her own will is capable of. She can literally be remade both externally and internally and achieve a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction previously thought impossible. This is the power of submission.

My keyboard always fills in poison when I am trying to spell passion. Me thinks Freud would have much to say on this.

To know compassion and understanding we have to know suffering. A lotus will not grow on marble, it needs mud. So when I am struggling and life is difficult I have to remember that this is what makes life beautiful. The struggle.

How is your struggle today? What is not right in your world?

Just by changing our attitude towards a situation it can turn from bleak to necessary.

If you were climbing a great mountain, one you had secretly coveted your whole life, and found yourself with sore feet and an aching back would you be discouraged and simply give up? Of course not, you would have happy sore feet and a great aching back.

Coming to terms with who we truly are and manifesting that in real life is just such a struggle.

Smile and have a great struggle!

Judgment comes in many forms. Whatever it looks like it is merely a reflection of how we feel about ourselves. CM has a great deal of judgement, especially from men. (As my female friends report) This is about not getting some approval or affirmation that they cannot give themselves or did not get at an important time in their life. This is not about dominance. It is not about submission. Hostility to this truth from wherever it may come is a warning sign. Avoid this person. Today I hope to be able to see my own judgements, especially those I most resist looking at.

Happy day of thanks! Know your dream so you can make it true!

The whole place is dark
Every light on this side of the town
Suddenly it all went down
Now well all be brothers of the fossil fire of the sun
Now we will all be sisters of the fossil blood of the moon
Someone must have set us up
Now theyll be working in the cold grey rock, in the hot mill steam in the concrete
In the sirens and the silences now all the great set up hearts - all at once start to beat
After tonight if you dont want us to be a secret out of the past
I will resurrect it, Ill have a good go at it
Ill streak his blood across my beak and dust my feathers with his ashes
I can feel his ghost breathing down my back
I will try and know whatever I try, I will be gone but not forever
The real truth about it is no one gets it right
The real truth about it is were all supposed to try
There aint no end to the sands Ive been trying to cross
The real truth about it is my kind of lifes no better off
If Ive got the maps or if Im lost
The real truth about it is there aint no end to the desert Ill cross
Ive really known that all along
Mama here comes midnight with the dead moon in its jaws
Must be the big star about to fall
Long dark blues
Will o the wisp
The big star is falling
Through the static and distance
A farewell transmission
Listen

-Jason Molina - Farewell Transmission

Labor Day is the traditional end of summer. Remember, no more wearing white after today! Also a celebration of all the hard work that made our great country what it is. What do you need to work on? Commit to? Sweat for? Work is very underrated today, just look around at the mall. Consume, want, complain is our hallmark. Who can you be of service to? What can you look at in yourself? The possibilities are endless. Today I will continue to push myself and to help my fellows. These are the keys to a true sense of purpose and wellbeing.

I am a long time fan of professional hockey. Of course I enjoy the speed, skill and toughness that separates it from other sports. I also appreciate that the men who play it are generally well mannered, educated and respectful of other players, fans, coaches and people.

One can be extremely tough and a true mans man, and also a gentleman. This resonates for me. Raised in the country, we repaired our own houses, cars and equipment. When someone picked on my brother, or a woman or someone who was smaller than them then there was a fight. I often won. I was a scout. Dad left when I was very young, so I was the man of the house. It came naturally to me.

I also collected every Penthouse and Playboy I could and can remember discovering the Penthouse forum when I was a boy. That was the good stuff!

My life of kink had begun.

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