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Female Submissive, 27, Scotts Hill, Tennessee
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Female Dominant, 30, swiftwater, Pennsylvania
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About Uncollared1
UPDATED October 25,2011
I'm putting this sentence first, since most people don't seem to have the atttention span to be able to read this all the way through...no, I didnt do the artwork or have any part in my profile photo lol
You will notice that I have listed only my hard limits. This is to help those who might wish to contact me to know if a limit I have is something they love.
I have many things that interest me, mostly along the lines of things that broaden one's horizons. Art galleries, museums, concerts, reading historical biographies and non-fiction, cooking, eating, LOL, especially pizza and a really good, very rare (like runs away when it sees me coming) cheeseburger. I'm as comfortable at a ballgame as I am at the symphony. I love cultural and educational experiences and hope to share much more than caning and physting (wink) with whomever I come to know and trust enough to enter this journey with me.
I have met, and been guided by, many experienced Doms, Masters (yes, there's a difference) and Mentors over the past 15 or so years, though my most trusted and loved Mentor passed away a couple of years ago, so I'm feeling as if I could use some guidance, certainly some training and expanding of my tolerances and limitations. Thanks to SteamPhyst, my most recent Dom of 4 years, and from whom I am VERY HAPPY to be away, yet to whom I will be grateful until I draw my last breath, for he has taught me SO very much about the difference between a sexual/sensual wannabe Dominant and a lifestyle Master, what love truly feels like and much about my own needs and desires as well as helping to clarify what I would want and need in a future relationship. That being said and speaking about the mistakes that I acknowledge and own fully, I say to myself, why make someone a priority, when all you are to them is an option and a meal ticket. After all, we don’t value what we don’t need, and we don’t love what we don’t value. My relationship with him and knowing him as I do has inspired what some may call a "joke", yet it's quite true. Many have asked how I'm liking my new life in the woods and to this I say, "I'm loving being away from 2 dicks that don't work...the one sitting in the chair AND the one between his legs.
I am a sweet, intelligent, experienced 47 y.o., smallish BBW submissive. I'm a bit unsure of what I'm here for. Right now I guess I'm looking to make friends, though wouldn't object to a friendship turning into more in the future. I believe in getting to know one as a person first and Dom or Master second. I like to be able to converse about all manner of things, whether they involve BDSM or not, though I prefer not to discuss my sub wants, needs and desires with people I don't know relatively well.
I'm not originally from Cape Cod and know very few people, as I moved here 3+ years ago expressly to be with him. I pretty much only know the route from home to work and back, so am feeling a bit like a stranger in a strange land. I'm looking to meet new people and make some friends to chat with and hang together without feeling pressure to play (though depending on the person I can't say I'd rule it out completely).
Though I dearly miss the 24/7 W/we've had in the past, as I understand myself right now I don't believe I would want it again, as a my recently ended relationship has severely weakened my ability to trust. Ultimately I would like to find a relaxed LTR, yet given the current sitation patience and understanding are mandatory.
Please write if there's anything more you'd like to know. I prefer not to discuss too many BDSM related activities in our initial conversations, as I would like to get to know someone as a human being before discussing such things. After all, if you don't like someone as a person, there's no possibility of much more, is there? I welcome contact from those Doms, subs, males and females local to me because I seek friends first and foremost. I believe the most loving and trusting relationships begin with a connection as friends, and you never know what a friendship could become. If anything I've said intrigues you, please get in touch.
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.....it's time for a new beginning...
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Many have asked if I'm loving my new life in the woods. To this, I say yes. I love not living with 2 dicks who don't work...the one sitting in the chair and the one between his legs LOL |
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He who is a perpetual liar and fraud need not ask if another is truthful.... |
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mmmmmm...homemade marinara sauce with homemade ravioli.....yummmmmm..... |
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Mistakes I've made as His sub (and a sub in general)....yes, I own all of this....
Mistaking hot, intense chemistry for actual compatibility.
Jumping into complex situations too quickly and ignoring any warning signs along the way because addressing them would have ruined the fantasy.
Thinking I could live with serious incompatibilities long term (like the mono/poly issue (tho have reconsidered my position on this score...if only it had been brought up again before it was too late).
Believing that maintaining the dynamic was all on him and abandoning my responsibilities to the relationship.
Thinking with my c*nt instead of my head (if you knew Him, you wouldn't be surprised by this one *grin*)
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As women (nilla or sub) we tend to put so much investment in our emotional lives/relationships that we hate to see that investment of time/energy/love have been a "waste" when it's clearly over. Tho i do wish it weren't COMPLETELY over, as he's a wonderful guy and a great friend (to those he considers his friends). I love to be able to be counted among them, yet that's not up to me. It's that hard...and that simple... |
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Throw your dreams into space like a kite, and you do not know what it will bring back, a new life, a new friend, a new love, a new country.
Anais Nin
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I am now, and will be forever grateful to my former Dom for all that he has, and continues to give and to show me every single day. Thank you, my friend.
Edited June 4, 2011 |
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sweet
sweet surrender
is all that i have to give
You take me in
no questions asked
You strip away the ugliness
that surrounds me
are You an Angel
am i already that gone
i only hope
that i won't disappoint You
when i'm down here
on my knees
and sweet
sweet
sweet surrender
is all that i have to give
Edited May 5, 2011 |
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