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Hetero Male Dominant, 39,  Melbourne, Australia
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I enjoy the mental side of Domination; exposing the unconscious motives that drive others, and eroding the veneer of self-deceit that overlays them. Facilitating real self-knowledge and the greater satisfaction that results, and appreciating the gratitude of those I have guided. For me, the process of breaking down a psyche is only the first step towards making something better from the shards that remain.

I find most of the the physical tropes tedious; whips & chains do not excite me.
Those facts mean that most of my activity is conversational. Your profile is my starting point, but it's only the beginning of a discussion of your principles, the beliefs that you have extracted from the process of becoming who you are now... and the inconsistent, incoherent and incomplete nature of the ideology they make up as a whole.

That doesn't mean it's necessarily a process of psychoanalysis or debate, though. Humans experience much of their reality through stories, and a shared story can reveal a great deal about the symbols and meaningful associations in the minds of the participants. Roleplaying can be for both fun and profit...

I don't have a self image for reasons that should be obvious. When we establish trust I'll share photos.










 Dominant Male








Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Female

 Lives For:

 Philosophy (Expert)

 Psychology (Expert)



 Flea Markets







 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Being Massaged

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control

 Role Playing

 You wearing stockings



 Historical Shows

 Horror Movies

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Biology (Expert)


 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics



 Alternative Music

 Eighties Music

 Industrial Music

 Punk Rock Music



 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining

 Garage Sales





 Martial Arts



 Blindfolding you

 You wearing my collar

 Corner Time


 Domestic Service

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Foot Worship


 Hair Pulling

 Housework Service


 Medical fetish play

 Obedience Training


 Selecting the clothes you wear

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you

 Speech Restrictions

 Arcade Games

 Board Games


 Comedy Shows


 Online Chatrooms

 Role Playing Games

 Simulation Games

 Body Art







 Astronomy (Beginner)

 Chemistry (Expert)

 Mathematics (Expert)


 Paranormal Phenomena


 The Occult

 Blue Grass


 Electronica / EDM


 Nineties Music

 Rock Music

 Seventies Music


 Modern Paganism



 Coffee Shops



 Canes and Crops

 Rear End Play


 Sensation Play

 Card Games


 Heavy Metal Music






 Feng Shui





 Latter-day Saints



 Curious About:

 Renaissance Faires






 Electrical Play


 Suspension Bondage



 Going to the Opera


 Conservative Politics


 Female Sovereignty


 EMO Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Opera Music

 Pop Music





 Musical Theater

 Alternative Medicine


 Libertarian Politics

 Hard Limits:

 TV Sports

 Auto Racing





 Ice Hockey




 Computer Expert

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Journal Entries:
9/7/2010 3:45:04 AM
Obviously you have permission to contact me - I would hardly be here if I wasn´t interested in meeting people - but don´t expect a response if you have no content on your profile. I want to have some idea of who I´m talking to.

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