A friend mentioned that I could and should remove some sections of what was proving to become a far too elaborate profile; it was a little on the lengthy side for sure.  I decided to put those paragraphs into a journal entry... so perhaps for those truly interested who wish to read on, please do so...thanks:

What is it that I'm looking for... I am looking for someone real first and foremost.  For me this means not just that you are also looking but that your honest intention on the one hand is to build a standard, romantic relationship with someone who on the other hand desires you as his to do with as he pleases (usual limits are acceptable as we all have them at some point).  My ideal partner would have her own aspirations, desires and goals romantically and in the exterior world, her own agenda of things to do during the day mostly, her own friends and activities as well, should that be what she wants.  Sexually, however, I want her to consider herself utterly submissive.  In this respect and in scenes, I want her to feel comfortable as an almost object for pleasure.  I truly crave the absolute along these lines; I totally love a woman who, at night, imagines herself losing control to become something nearly pornographic for him -  not just a simple slut or a common whore, but a complete cumslut, a total fuckwhore, and even a filthy fucking cumdumpster.  Third, as those names might foreshadow, I want my partner to be prepared for awesome scenes, exotic and elaborate ones in which she is placed in cool contraptions and devices, toyed with, excited, but ultimately used, turned into an object for his pleasure.  Hopefully, the things that she looked up and fantasized about from sites like kink dot com will now become reality for her.  

I have plenty of personal pictures to share and am willing to do so, but only for those who are legitimate and serious about this as I do not want to just expose myself to everyone and anyone on this site and others (I have a job where I am a public persona).  I also rarely contact anyone first so I do invite you to message me even with a brief line if you find my profile intriguing or wish to talk with me.  I'm also able to talk on the phone, IM, skype etc.  I'm completely single and do have a flexible schedule. I look forward to your comments and questions and thanks for reading.