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Male Dominant, 29, Germany
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Male Switch, 30, new york, Indiana
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About uLoveMe
A question for you....
Did you ever have a guy who had a crush on you?
You knew he was in love with you,
that you could get him to do anything you asked?
Maybe, he didn’t tell you, but it was obvious,
Or perhaps he professed his love, how he was crazy about you
And you explained to him that you just wanted to be friends
And you meant it, you really liked him, his company, his companionship
He was fun to be around…
But he just wasn’t the one you fell in love with.
And he was OK with it,
I mean, sure he had a crush,
But he didn’t bug you,
He accepted it…
He wasn’t whiny, or clingy…
he was genuinely happy to be around you on your terms,
Even if he had feeling for you, he was also glad to be just your friend.
You might even ask his advice on guys you liked, or use him to get a “guys opinion” regarding your own affairs.
Oh course, sometimes you might even use him a little
Knowing he liked you, would do whatever you asked was fun for you
You suspected even that he liked being “used” by you
Maybe you even felt guilty at first about using him
But he seemed so genuinely eager to help out
And it seemed so easy, and comfortable for both of you
For you to make him do things for you
And you felt safe around him….
You liked having a guy around, without having to worry he would try anything
Taking advantage of his good nature,
Perhaps you might make him take you out, or help you around the house
Be your “date” (in a non-sexual way of course), when you didn’t want to be alone, but stilled needed an attractive guy accompany you somewhere.
And since you both knew where he stood, you knew he would stay in line, and not try anything.
Perhaps when you needed your apartment painted, and your friends who promised to help were nowhere to be found, he would be the one who would come over and do it
(perhaps not even letting you help, but insisting you just relax and let him do it).
Or drive you somewhere,
or
When you wanted someone to listen to you
Maybe if you had a million things to do, and you would have felt strange asking one of your regular friends, to come over and help with the cleaning, or do your laundry,
You would call him.
Have you ever had a friend like this?
Someone platonic, but cool
Someone you might have taken advantage, but it was ok ….
Because you knew that just being around you was enough for him
That he woulodnt ask for more, and was willing to be super sweet and helpful to you.
Maybe not your dream man, not the Alpha male that got your motor revving,
But that sweet, dependable man who would be there for you when you needed him.
I have been in this type of situation several times, with really awesome, beautiful
Naturally dominant women.
Not as their “sex slaves”, but just as their friend,
A friend who was devoted to them
The power in the relationship was clearly tipped in their balance,
And that was actually something that we both liked.
We didn’t need to play any dramtic roles,
I just was myself, and things flowed from there.
Oh course, I have been in situations and relationships where things are more balanced, more equal… or even when the control shifts to my side.
….but I have learned, from time and experience,
that I am happiest, when I am just that admiring, devoted man
the one you said to “lets just be friends”
the one you use to your advantage,
but still like…
I like being that devoted friend., the one who will be there for you, the one who will drop everything, just because you need something, the one who loves being able to help you in your goals and successes, and in the pursuit of your dreams. The one you can talk to, of feel comfortable enough to just call and ask to clean your apartment because it’s a mess, and you cant deal…..
or the one to pick you up from the club because your date was a jerk.
Oh, by the way…
I am fit, very stylish…
Tall, with a lean, muscular build
Handsome,
I am even often told I am very charming,
I just feel more comfortable being the friend
I am open to other aspects of BDSM, and service,
But I seek someone who understands the dynamic I talk about above.
As a basic for the type of relationship I seek
If you understand it, and it strikes a chord in you,
I would love to hear from you.
Because a few people have asked
If I have pics
I just tend to be a private person at times
And being a rather social being, am known by a fair number of people
So I prefer to remain anonymous as far as my submissive tendencies go, in regard to the public at large.
But yes,
I have pics
So, just ask and I will be glad to send.
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Male Dominant, 48, knoxville, Tennessee
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Female Dominant, 30, Cebu
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Male Submissive, 44, indian trail, North Carolina
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Male Submissive, 44, Matthews, North Carolina
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Male Switch, 49, B.C.
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Male Dominant, 20, miami, Florida
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Male Submissive, 46, BUffalo, New York
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