ukcypher

Having had a couple of bdsm relationships I am now looking to establish, ideally, something long term with a sub. I am looking for a woman who sees a BDSM relationship as part of an equal and loving relationship.

Communication is very important to me - so I am looking for someone sensible, sane and intelligent who believes that the mind is the most important thing in bdsm. Someone who outside of the scene enjoys things like cinema, theatre, gigs, and candlelight dinners.

Within the scene I am looking for a woman who will submit to me, who is eager to please and wants to experiment in all aspects of the scene, to push both of our boundaries - who when she has done well will be cherished and protected and told how much she is loved, but when she does wrong will be punished. A woman who will look up to me with longing and turst as she is bound and gagged and kneeling in front of me, but is then happy to head off for a coffee and cake and laugh about it all afterwards. (And for a dom I make a bloody good chocolate cake!)