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About UalwaysWill4Me
I really need to rewrite this!
I consider what I want to be lifestyle... in that it would permeate our lives. Id prefer for someonewho comes across as normal but knows inher heart that shes meant to beher masters, and wants to learn, to love, to serve, to be useful, and finds her value in that.She shouldwant this journey, wherever it may take her, but its not necessary toknow where the journey might lead (ideas and preferences are OK, as is no idea or preference). She will want to be His and His alone.
I have a strong tendency to protection, and will give that toyou - protection from the world, in whatever that takes - it means different things to different people, so its something for us to discuss to find if were compatible.
Ideally, wed appearmostly vanilla in public (we all have to work, eat, sleep, etc.),butat home, you will willingly submit. It would be lifestyle, it would just be obfuscated in public. Exactly howwhatetc. is to be worked out. My methods tend to develop out of the interactions of our personalities. Rather than you will become x, I tend to develop and grow the potential I see in you, both as a sub and as a person.
I am yet to see a hetero MDfs kink which I would say no to, but different women will inspire different kinks (as will my mood at the time, etc.). But overall, it is the willing submission that is what makes it good - Im not that interested in brats (though... from time to time P ). Submission is a state of mind, and it can be done with something as simpleas making me a cup of coffee, or it could be going into a (planned) period of deprivationbondageetc.
While I will talk toconsider just about anyone, the moreuniqueyou can be, the better, and I have a definite preference for shortthinpetite. Its not a deal breaker if youre not - there is always the X-factor, and I will at least consider each person who messages me.
I dont mind if you dont have pictures, but Ill want to see some at some stage, andI can show you pics after you show me yours, if you ask. Its easy to write words, and I am sure if youve been on here, youve had many promise you things with empty words, but I can tell you this with all sincerity you will not find someone more trustworthy than me with your pics. I am a private person and I take my privacy seriously, and will do the same with yours.
Im not big into pubicexhibitionism as I think its too risky these days, and is... incompatible... with my job. Its possible we can work out something for you if you are into it (I do have ideas).
If you need to relocate, we would have to discus the hows and whys. While I can be a daddy, I am not a sugar-daddy. You will needfunction in ordinary lifeto be with me - Im not going to keep you caged 247 as some seem to want.
I can be supportive andmake your life pleasantwhen youre good, but can also make your life hell when youre bad. I can and will be different things at different times, depending on how I feel, and what I think you need, but you will find a developing consistency in that over times, as things develop between us.
One sub on here summed it up best when she said, He her master is my everything and I the sub is His anything. You should be looking for me to become your everything.
You should contact me if this sparks an interest.
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Hmmmm... what I want seems to confuse people... it doesn't seem to fit with the simplified definitions... or is it just that I recognise that people on here often use the same words, but have different meanings for them? Take, for example, 'lifestyle' bdsm.... what does it mean to you? |
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Since it seems to help some people... results from bsdmtest.org:
93% Master/Mistress
92% Owner
91% Dominant
88% Voyeur
80% Daddy/Mommy
78% Sadist
77% Rigger
77% Vanilla
71% Primal (Hunter)
70% Ageplayer
70% Degrader
59% Brat tamer
50% Experimentalist
46% Switch
22% Non-monogamist
18% Girl/Boy
16% Submissive
15% Pet
15% Exhibitionist
10% Masochist
7% Brat
6% Primal (Prey)
4% Degradee
4% Slave
1% Rope bunny |
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Back after a few months as a very hopeful interaction with a sub just went "quiet" for no apparent reason (if you - you know who you are - reads this, yes I know things went wonky, but they seemed to have picked up... were getting even better, then YOU just stopped... no explanation, no nothing... very disappointing). |
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Still amazed by the lack of common decency. If you have a profile that says "I like stuff", well, of course I'm not going to have much to say in a first message... and I wrote a profile for a reason, so I don't have to write it all in a message to you. Get over yourselves, and realise that someone who is hugely articulate in a first message is probably just 'running the numbers', not creating something unique to you. |
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I find it interesting that so many subs/slaves on here say things like "I'm a sub, but don't call me slut/bitch/cunt in the first message" and "don't write one-liners saying you're mine - I decide", which is totally fine and I agree with, yet, when they do receive a proper message from me, they don't bother replying anyway. |
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