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“Seek freedom and become captive of your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty.” Frank Herbert.
I am a mature professional positive male and an experienced dominant.
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I am considerate, understanding and caring, yet a very strict and firm Alpha Dominant male.
I know only to well, the value a woman puts on her submission,and I respect and appreciate it dearly.At all times I will encourage her to stretch her limits,leading and guiding her to better herself,to become that very special woman. I have trained a few submissive women over the past years, and I'm looking for another now,to train mentally and physically,for short or long term,on-line or real time.Are you willing to take a journey with me, to make you even more special than you already are?
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Very willing to chat with you. I will tease and please you. Cum and explore your fantasies with me. I am a professional and an experienced dominant male. I am a healthy, single, well mannered, professional gentleman,with great authority and some arrogance, creative,53, very clean, muscular, fit and strong and with a six pack stomach and a very sexy bum for your pleasure!! I can accommodate or travel to yours. I can assure you of complete discretion and will move forward at your pace. I am not pushy. I am a genuine guy. I will let you have a photo when I know you better.
TRUST,TRUTH and HONESTY are paramount!!
I am looking for someone who wishes to explore or expand her submissive needs, with a Dom who is strict but very fair, patient, understanding, with a sharp wit and a great sense of humour.Age or shape are of no particular importance to me.It is what is in your mind that matters. I am a 'passionate' person about many things/subjects. You might be experienced already - which is fine, but obviously some adjustment would be required as everyone is different. Or...... you might be new and inexperienced - in which case you will learn how to express your submissiveness, to serve and please your Master/Sir/Dom, and hopefully experience the rewards of a Dom/sub/slave relationship.
You must be prepared to be disciplined for any disobedience! I can be a kind and caring Master when deserved, but equally I can deliver a very hard spanking for any misbehaviour, and administer the cane, whip, or crop with determined accuracy. You have been warned!!
.. but pain can also bring its own erotic rewards..!! - which will be explored with you fully over time.
You in turn, will find me to be warm, very tactile, good humoured (unless you misbehave! ), honest and straight-talking. So if you deserve verbal chastisement - you'll get it !!
I am not into endless emails, cyber stuff, 'camming' or any other unreal things (although a little chatting etc. is OK). If you are interested at all, then do actually have the nerve to meet up for a drink and a chat. That is the only way you will ever know if we are compatible. I will not leap on you at a first meeting, so don't worry!!
Honesty is high on my list of expectations from you, so that there is no deception on either side of the relationship. Neither am I looking for a "door-mat" - I'd like you to have a mind of your own, feel able to discuss your needs, to engage in lively debates with me and explore possibilities or ideas. I like a sub who is challenging.
All limits will of course be mutually discussed and acknowledged.... and you will be able to relax in the safe and sane (well, sometimes sane!!) comfort of my company.
So............ if you're now interested..... then take the next step.... don't wait for me to find you...write to me and let me know you're there...... Life is too short not to pursue your hidden desires and make them a reality. Do it now. Thanks for reading this lenghty profile.
PS. I have recently found this definition of a dominant that sums me up perfectly. It is long but well worth reading.
The Dominant... Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift. He is in control of himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, he can cause his sub to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, he will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character. In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put him before her career, or family, just to satisfy his own pleasure. To win his submissive's mind, body and soul, he knows he must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humor, kindness, and warmth. He must also show her that his guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust his direction. He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, he will fight for his ladies' honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on. He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his woman. Quick to point out the differences between them, he also knows there is no inferiority in those differences. When it comes time to teach his submissive her lessons of obedience, he is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student. Never does he use discipline without good reason. When he does, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand. He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern. He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights. He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they. He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to him out the want of pleasing him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to him. He is secure enough to laugh at himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, paddle and blindfold. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love is the only binding that truly holds. (screw the roses give me the thorns, Molly Deven)
The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything. (Friedrich Neitzsche)
What I want from my sub.
"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding." — Anaïs Nin
Here are some more words to make you rejoice in your submissiveness.
I stare into the abyss, I am afraid, afraid I may fall, can feel myself wanting to descend into the enveloping arms of darkness, I long to surrender myself to my own guilty pleasures, desire is almost all consuming, the darkness calls to me, I close my eyes and let myself fall, into the dark, plunge myself into the unknown, as I feel the cold warmth of blackness surrounding me, I smile, I welcome it, and know I am lost forever, I have come home...
I want to be everything and nothing both at the same time, a lady and a slut, worshipped and adored then slapped down and spat on, broken then re-built, pushed to the very edge then brought back again safely, I seek it all, I want it all. I want passion, desire, intensity, lust, need, a meeting of minds, a connection, electricity, friendship, love, trust.
Life is made up of moments, I seek that perfect moment, frozen in time, where everything ceases to exist, I'm lost to the moment, drowning in a sea of guilty pleasures and need, my need for him, his voice fills my head, burns my soul, leaving his footmarks there forever, a look, a touch sets me on fire with a thirsty need, unquenchable, wanting more, always wanting more, I beg, I plead, I cry, I offer the very essence of me to this moment, which I pray will go on forever, claimed by the dark side, past the point of no return, taken, possessed, claimed, owned, by my own tainted desire.
My A - Z : Attractive, Bubbly. Charming, Delightful, Engaging, Fashionable, Gracious, Humorous, Intelligent, Jovial, Kindly, Loving, Mindful, Naughty, Ordinary, Personable, Questioning, Really Smart, Traveler, Understanding, Virtuous, Winsome, 'Xtraordinary, Youthful, Zealous that's me . What is your A-Z ???
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