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Successful BDSM does happen. Still with Master and still happy.
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I don't come here much anymore. My life is rooted with Master and I have other outlets for the kink community. Every so often I think I want to be more involved here, but it takes so much time to get to know people and maintain those relationships. I think my life is full right now, but every so often... |
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Life is good. Master and I hit our two year mark this weekend. Gods, I love him!
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Hi everyone!!
Just dropping off a hello and how do. I am still with Master and still very,very happy. I love that he and I mesh so perfectly in both the BDSM and mundane worlds. As far as looking for a sub? I think I am putting that off. If I mentioned that already,oops. What I really want are friends in the lifestyle. I want to be able to hang out and be slavey in "public". I don't have that outlet now and never realized how much I wanted it. Anywho, that is all for now. Much love, tyger. |
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On the additions to my life:
So far none. I am not finding the meeting and getting to know the submissive part frustrating. I rather enjoy meeting new people. What I am finding upsetting is the rudeness of the sudden disappearance. I know while I was looking for a Master, I always told the potential I was not interested before I ran off. Even if it was an e-mail that I didn't want a response to. I know many have experienced this and I should not be surprised, but I find it makes the submissive look bad. I know odd circumstances can happen and maybe one or two of the women I spoke dropped off known cyberspace for a good reason and are unable to tell me they are not interested. But I am talking about more than one or two. Anyway,bitchfest over and a note to any one who contacts me. If you find I am not for you a simple, no thank will suffice. ~Tyg
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Hi there,
I am in a point in my relationship with Master where I feel I can include another person in my life. Master and I are stable and in agreement on this. I have told him that I think this will be hard because I am asking a female to submit to me and possibly become a life long lover. I wonder how many bisexual women want a female as thier primary relationship and how many lesbians will accept my bisexuality? One? Two? Maybe none.
There are many factors at play here and I will have to be patient. I will find the right girl when it is time. I am no hurry. She is out there and someday I will make her happy. ~Tyg |
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I wanted to check in, everything is going well. I am incredibly happy with Master. I cannot imagine that I was made for anyone else than he. I am stupid in love.  |
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Hi Everyone,
I am still with the same Master and things are still going well if not better. I know him better now as a real person. I have seen his strengths and they make him a thing of beauty. I have seen his flaws and they do not mar him. I know that he is strong despite them and he can care for and take care of me no matter what may come. I have fallen deeply in love and wonder if it is real. Can it be this good? The cynic cries out "No!" But my heart says "yes, yes, yes!" I don't look at the possibility of being hurt anymore. I see an opportunity to love with abandon, to love completely, and most importantly to love without fear. I have decided he will have all of me. For once in my life I will give one man everything and love the fact that I can. That is freedom. He has given me freedom in a way that I have never be able to taste. I savour his gift to me and my gift to him is me. Complete. Absolute. Resolute. I cry it into the wind Master,let it take the words to your ears. "I am yours. I am yours. I am yours." ~ tyger |
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I am happy to say that I found a unique man. As Master and slave we resonante perfectly and outside of these roles we have the potential for a long lasting loving relationship. I want nothing more than to submit to him completely. We are taking things as slow we can, but the chemistry and communication has moved us along at greater speeds than has been expected. We have tempered the relationship by having real time with eachother. It's hard sometimes because submittting to him feels so natural that I want it all the time we are together. But I know better So ,we just hang out sometimes as ourselves even though we are always a step from Master and slave. I am happy to say that the transitions to and fro are smooth. Like I said, this has great potential. BTW, the relationship a couple of months old. We were not Master/slave instantly. In fact it was Master/sub at first. But the term slave seems to fit better. *kisses* |
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I have gone through many men in the past few months, be it online or real time. It does seem a blur and only a few months have passed and I feel that it has been years. Our world, the BDSM world. can bite harshly if one is not careful. I know that many of us seek the pain, but I speak not of whips and chains. Nor do I speak of that wonderful mindfuck. I mean, there are politics, beliefs and arrogance all around. I have learned much and experienced much and I like the bite even when it's bad. They are afterall, lessons learned.
I am on a new journey, I have come across one that is compatible with me and we are taking it slow as is should be. It's hard, but the greatest lesson in patience I have ever experienced. But it is good, if nothing comes of it, I will know better what to do next time and have some experience under my belt making me a better sub than I was before. Strength, and knowing one's self are the key ingredients of a good sub. Time only adds to these traits. Goodnight all, I wish you well. ~tyg
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Hello and how do....I am good, attending local munches and getting to know the scene and the people of the local BDSM community. I am finding this venue much safer and warmer than the online connections. I have made many good friends via the internet and I am happy for that, but I think real time is the best. I really suggest that all the newbies sink thier teeth into some local groups before wandering aimlessly. You think you know what you want. You think you know what BDSM is all about. You don't. You have only tasted a hint of it. There is much to learn and tangibility goes a long. long way. Oh, I do not condemn the online world for it's existence. It is a great tool in learning. I am just saying there is only so far you can go before you need something solid to hold on to. Anywho, do as you do. I only speak of my path and the lessons I have learned from it. ~tyg |
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It is so late. I need to go to bed, but I am here needing to say something. I wish I knew what that was. I am longing for something, longing for someone and hiding myself in a shell. I crave so much and want so much from a Dominant. Is perfection too much to ask? I have no preconcieved notions of what perfection is. I will know it when I see it. Won't I? I have seen sites of beauty as of late. I have seen flames that I want to dance in and waters I hope to drown in and yet they all seem so far away. I know you see me, for my light shines as brightly as yours. I know you hear me;my whispers resonate and trickle the water against the shore. Come dance with me. Cool my heat. Satiate.Invigorate.Cultivate. MMmmm.Something wicked walks this way. Succulent,sublime,sinisterly sweet against my tongue. Goodnight. Heaven is closed for the moment,but the jasmine never seems to fade... |
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I am laughing at myself because I keep saying slow down take your time. I don't really want to. I want to jump into and find out that it is wrong later. However, we can't always do what we want.
I do believe that the current pool of Doms will aid in slowing things down for me. I am either too big or too far away.
I can live without the ones I am too big for. I don't want to deal with that type of mentality. It's harder to deal with the ones that are too far away. I like you guys and one of you a lot. I am just not ready to make that kind of change for a lifestyle that has a higher turnover rate than McDonald's. It is easier to take the chance for the guy next door. If it doesn't work out we go back to life as usual. For those of you that are far away, it will take more time than perhaps either is willing to give to make that kind of change. I wish it were different. I wish I didn't have anything to lose. By the same token, if I had no life, would you be interested? I think not.
It is the way of things. I understand and I am learning patience, in more ways than I want to. |
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I want to thank the jerks out there. I used to rant about how you aren't real and the negative way your portray the lifestyle. I realize now that however distasteful I may find you, you are needed.
Without you I wouldn't see the right about someone. Without you I would not know the presence of true dominance.
It is white that makes black look dark and deep. It is the night, that shows me the glory of the day. It is the loud screeching noise that makes me long for the stillness of silence. Fire and Ice. Motion and Stillness. Top and Bottom. Dominance and Submission.
One is needed to recognize the other. One is needed to appreciate the other. Though I hate the smell of rotting meat, it does make the roses smell sweeter.
Happy New Year. |
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