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About ty79
I am getting back into this site, but have been a Dom for the last 20 years. I am very different then most people on this site. Most people on this site think they know about the lifestyle, I actually live it. I go to munches. I used to go to bondage clubs here in Chicago. I go to kink educational events, conventions. I learned what I am and how I live. I do know much aspects of this lifestyle that most people fantasy about because they read the horribly written Gorean books, or they see a really bad porno movie. I am not that at all. But I do also do tons of vanilla stuff as well.
With all that being said I am a Dom. As a Dom I feel there are many aspects of this lil that the most important aspects involved in a Ds relationship are Communication, Respect, Loyalty, Honesty, and Friendship. As a Dom I will expect my submissive to listen to me, as I will strive to listen to all you have to say. In the end, as your Dom the decisions I make are those that I feel will be best for you and I in the long term. I am not a harsh Dom, I enjoy going out and having fun as long as the place you have with me is kept at all times. I will continuously push you to reach your limits and goals. As your Dom, your goals and the goals we set together are mine as well. I will enable you to feel safe and secure with in the realm of my control.I seek a submissive that is eager to please not only me, but in general life as well. I seek someone fun, someone not scared to commit, and someone that can make me proud. I need to have someone that enjoys feeling needed by her Dom and someone willing to commit and handover their control to me.If you feel you are this person I would like to chat more with you. I feel building a strong foundation is very important and I am anxiously waiting to meet my future submissive.
I am in it but I am taking a break from the community. Lot of drama in the BDSM community and need a break from all of it. Though I love and respect everyone, I think maybe a winter off from going to the munches and clubs and everything else is what I need.
I DO NOT PLAY GAMES. If you like games im not for you. |
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Dating is fucking hard. No one said it would be easy. You have douchebag guys here who make it fucking ridiculous for other guys here. They act like they are some kind of king when they know nothing.
But of course you can't blame it all on the guys, many ladies are just as bad. They scream about how they can't find guys but how many of them round? Or you have those women who read the dime store books and think it's one thing until they find out it's just a fantasy.
As I said dating is fucking hard. But here are tips that make things easier. To the men, leave your ego at the door, be somewhat respectful here, you want women at your feet then work at it so they will be at your feet. And women give the guys who are respectful a shot or at least say thank but not interested.
But respect seems to have gone away and that is really sad. |
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Male Dominant, 67, Long Beach, California
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Male Dominant, 44, Shanghai
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