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Female Submissive, 41
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Male Submissive, 49, DFW, Texas
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Male Dominant, 53, Austin, Texas
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About Txgent40
I am 42 year old male Dom, middle income professional that?s been divorced for nearly two years. I am seeking a woman between 30-53 years old that wants to embrace a 24/7 D/s long-term relationship That will eventually lead to her earning her collar. As a working professional and coming from a traditional family, I do not want to be extremely open in the inner workings of our relationship and seek discretion.?
In a partner, I am open to someone who is either new or experienced in a D/s relationship. If you?re new, I am very willing to take things slow, educate you (both written literature and from my own experience) and see what you and I are comfortable with.?
For an experienced sub, I would look forward to learning from your previous experiences/knowledge and sharing mine and finding what will work for us to be happy and fulfilled in a potential relationship.?
Dom experience:
I had a female friend (experienced sub) who introduced me to BDSM over a year ago and was my first and only sub relationship. That?s said I?ve had a few D/s play partners since then. Due to our careers/life and individual goals we did not fully commit and remain together. My previous sub would be more than willing to provide a reference when the time is appropriate.?
Between literature from both the Dom & sub perspective, in depth discussion and extermination with my previous sub I learned quite a bit about about the 24/7 BDSM relationships. Open, honest communication and trust must be absolute. I strongly believe in frequent online journal writing and timeouts were both the Dom and sub can communicate as equals face to face to address any concerns, questions, expectations or desires. I believe in a well written contract that both parties sit down to draft and amend as needed to define expectations of both parties, reward/punishment, daily routine, hygiene/daily wear, desires and hard/soft limits in and out of the bedroom.?
Part of that communication is understanding the others love language and how they want to feel loved/affection and how they show love/affection.?
As a Dom, I never dole out any corrective action when angry or upset and will only do so after explaining to my sub and where she has come short in meeting my expectations. I believe a Dom must be mature and control of their emotions. A Dom that isn?t risks crossing the line and becoming abusive.?
I believe strongly in showering my sub daily with feedback, encouragement, praise, adoration and rewards when she is meeting and exceeding expectations and being a good girl.?
If you?ve read everything thus far, thank you for your time and I look forward to hearing from you.
?From there we can then possibly exchange either phone numbers or neutral social media apps to communicate until we decide to meet in person.
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