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| Seeking someone who is real and understand what it means to have a Dominant/Master and be a submissive/slave! Not into exploiting or using someone just for my pleasure…Looking for someone where our pleasure is mutual in our relationship!!! Once again those who are real in the lifestyle of Dominant/Submissive Master/Slave know what I am talking about and I would love to speak. I would also like someone long term that could and would lead to possibly marriage and maybe kids. Now if you are here to play head games or see how many friends you can collect on your page I'm not the man for you.
Now for those men who can not read out there I want to make it very clear!!! I AM NOT LOOKING TO BE YOUR'RE DOMINANT OR MASTER. Not in the least bit my interest to have a man in my life no matter how much you can say you can please me. This goes for those of you who are a TS or CD. I will not answer your emails or bash you. I just ask that you respect my wishes as I respect you. Keep sending me emails and I will tell you just how I feel about you!
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*How will it be for me*
As I have been sitting at the hospital for the last five days spending time with my father who is dying of lung cancer; I wonder how it is going to be when it is my time to go. There are many of times I find myself looks at my father with tears in my eyes and I know there are tears of memories of things we have shared together and the thought of him not being there for them in the future. He has made me the man I am to date. He taught me that just because I am black I do not need to let it hold me down. He taught me to be the best at anything I decided to undertake. And when I went off the path; he provided me with discipline and direction back with love and encouragement. When I would fail at something; he would be the first to tell me that I did not fail, but just learned what to do to succeed.
So, I ask myself; will I ever find that slave/submissive that will be by my bed side with tears in her eye? Remembering and thinking of all the things I have taught her and the paths I have led her down. Will I ever find that person that is looking to create memories in and out of this lifestyle that she will cherish for the rest of her life and will bring tears of joy and sadness should I go first?
So, I ask myself; will I be the "perfect Master" for my slave/submissive? Fathers and mothers do not have kids and know they will be the perfect parent. But all they can do is their best and hope they leave a lasting memory as my father has done with me. There is so much I have to give and want to give to my slave/submissive that it hurts to think about it at time. But being an only child to my father; I understand that sometimes it only takes that one person to make your life complete. Will I look at my slave/submissive and be able to say as my father did; I did well and I need nothing else but to focus my time on this one.
So, I ask myself; will I find that slave/submissive that will looks at me with admiration, joy and pride as I looked at my father with. Will she see that she is protected more that my own life and know there is fear there for doing wrong and love for all the many right things.
So, I ask myself; when will I find her so that I will not deal with life alone and she will have everything in and out of this lifestyle that will make her MY Complete and Perfect slave!
So, ask yourself...does your Dominant/Master make you feel and you look at him the way I do my father right now.
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Be impeccable with your word - Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
Don’t take anything personally - Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
Don’t make assumptions - Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
Always do your best - Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret. |
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~Where Has Respect In This Lifestyle Gone~
I just have to write another post today as I have heard one too many times something that I have to share. And that is about how we have lost our respect for one another in this lifestyle. Without giving names I will quote "Thank you very much for such a nice reply. I really wasn't expecting that. :)". This was due to me replying to someone who wrote to me not trying to come on or anything, but just speaking after knowing she was not what I was looking for. I know there have been many times I have sent emails to other people myself not as a come on, but maybe comfort or well wishes to have them read and unanswered. I know most of the women on here get 100's of emails and most are trash from men just looking for sex and have no substance in their email. But where did the respect go when you get a genuine email from someone to not even answer. It takes just a sec to even be lazy and say "thanks".
This is a lifestyle of giving and getting respect. No matter how you want to give or receive this respect; it is still the bottom line of being in this lifestyle. You will love and respect one by giving them what they need and want no matter how others look at it being right or wrong.
So, people learn to respect others in this lifestyle and remember a little kindness and common courtesy goes a long way.
Carl
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"INTERRACIAL"
Logged onto Yahoo today and saw the below artical and found it very interesting. I sure hope that this works itself into this lifestyle. It is sickening some of the replies I get from ladies on this site when I will write them and unsolicited emails about staying with my own kind. I wish someone could tell me where in this lifestyle where mind, body and soul is the primary catalyst connection two people became a race issue!!! I understand attraction is attraction and if it is not there; you just move on. But being black here and posting that I am interested in ladies out of my race have led to a slew of racial and hate emails. This is a lifestyle about acceptance and approval of another in your life give or taking something that you are willing to give or be taken. There are wants, needs and desires from some people on this site, that no matter how real and Dominant I am, I will not be able to provide them. Do I need to stop and call them sick and twisted because it is not something that pleases me or I want in my life? Is it wrong to be a male and submissive or gay or a female Dominant or also gay? Anyone and everyone given time in this lifestyle will find someone to give and take just what they want! Think about it people and stop all the hate on this site!!!
LIVE AND LET LIVE!
Carl
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WASHINGTON – Melting pot or racial divide? The growth of interracial marriages is slowing among U.S.-born Hispanics and Asians. Still, blacks are substantially more likely than before to marry whites.
The number of interracial marriages in the U.S. has risen 20 percent since 2000 to about 4.5 million, according to the latest census figures. While still growing, that number is a marked drop-off from the 65 percent increase between 1990 and 2000.
About 8 percent of U.S. marriages are mixed-race, up from 7 percent in 2000.
The latest trend belies notions of the U.S. as a post-racial, assimilated society. Demographers cite a steady flow of recent immigration that has given Hispanics and Asians more ethnically similar partners to choose from while creating some social distance from whites due to cultural and language differences.
White wariness toward a rapidly growing U.S. minority population also may be contributing to racial divisions, experts said.
"Racial boundaries are not going to disappear anytime soon," said Daniel Lichter, a professor of sociology and public policy at Cornell University. He noted the increase in anti-immigrant sentiment in the U.S. after the Sept. 11, 2001, terror attacks as well as current tensions in Arizona over its new immigration law.
"With a white backlash toward immigrant groups, some immigrants are more likely to turn inward to each other for support," Lichter said.
Broken down by race, about 40 percent of U.S.-born Asians now marry whites — a figure unchanged since 1980. Their likelihood of marrying foreign-born Asians, meanwhile, multiplied 3 times for men and 5 times for women, to roughly 20 percent.
Among U.S.-born Hispanics, marriages with whites increased modestly from roughly 30 percent to 38 percent over the past three decades. But when it came to marriages with foreign-born Hispanics, the share doubled — to 12.5 percent for men, and 17.1 percent for women.
In contrast, blacks are now three times as likely to marry whites than in 1980. About 14.4 percent of black men and 6.5 percent of black women are currently in such mixed marriages, due to higher educational attainment, a more racially integrated military and a rising black middle class that provides more interaction with other races.
The numbers reflect in part an internal struggle that Asians and Hispanics say they feel navigating two cultural worlds — the U.S. and their parents' homeland.
Hai Nguyen, 37, of Houston recalls the instant connection she felt after meeting her first Vietnamese boyfriend, Greg, in college. Nguyen says while she had to explain herself to white boyfriends, with Greg it was a feeling that "he so gets me, because we eat the same food, we like the same things, our families know each other and there is so little that needs to be said."
With the enthusiastic support of her parents, she and Greg married. But their connection soon began to fade, due partly to Nguyen's budding career as a business analyst, which clashed with more traditional expectations for her to "always have fresh food on the table." The two divorced and Nguyen is now remarried to Jon, who is white.
"My parents have prejudices, but they've accepted it," said Nguyen. She described occasionally feeling different with her parents and other single-race couples. "They know it's inevitable. My native tongue will eventually fade, and history will take its course."
The demographic shifts can complicate conventional notions of racial identity.
Due to increasing interracial marriages, multiracial Americans are a small but fast-growing demographic group, making up about 5 percent of the minority population. Together with blacks, Hispanics and Asians, the Census Bureau estimates they collectively will represent a majority of the U.S. population by mid-century.
Still, many multiracial people — particularly those who are part black — shun a "multi" label in favor of identifying as a single race.
By some estimates, two-thirds of those who checked the single box of "black" on the census form are actually mixed, including President Barack Obama, who identified himself as black in the 2010 census even though his mother was white.
Census figures also show:
Hawaii had the highest share of mixed marriages, about 32 percent. It was followed by Alaska, Oklahoma, New Mexico and Nevada, which ranged from 15 percent to 19 percent. The bottom five states were Pennsylvania, Maine, Kentucky, Mississippi and West Virginia, each ranging from 3 percent to 4 percent.
Mississippi had the fastest growth in mixed marriages from 2000-08, a sign of closer ties between blacks and whites, though it still ranked second to last in overall share of mixed marriages.
Mixed marriages jumped from 2.25 million to 3.7 million, or 65 percent, from 1990-2000, as such unions became more broadly accepted in Southern states.
Among U.S.-born whites, about 0.3 percent married blacks in 1980; that figure rose to about 1 percent in 2008. About 0.3 percent of whites married Asians in 1980 and about 1 percent in 2008. About 2 percent of whites married Hispanics in 1980, rising to about 3.6 percent in 2008.
Juan Thurman, 37, a Houston sales account manager, says both family pressure and a strong ethnic identity weighed heavily on him as a Hispanic when he was dating, even as he found himself interacting more with other races in school.
In high school and at Rice University, Thurman said, he had fewer opportunities to meet Hispanic women in his honors classes. Ultimately, he married Emily, who is white, based on shared life views of gender equity and a liberal outlook toward religion. He relishes having friends of many different backgrounds.
"Interracial marriage is not a big deal," Thurman said. "Still, from a family standpoint, I did feel culturally different and I continue to feel so."
The figures come from previous censuses as well as the 2008 American Community Survey, which surveys 3 million households. The figures for "white" refer to those whites who are not of Hispanic ethnicity. For purposes of defining interracial marriages, Hispanic is counted as a race.
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Happy Mother’s Day to all the wonderful mothers here on CM. In and outside this lifestyle you should be treated like a woman each and every day. But it is especially nice to take this day to really make our mothers feel extra special. May the man/men in your life do just that for you today! |
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No matter how strong or Dominant you are, it still amazes me how something so simple as the heart can hurt you! |
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****Interested or uninterested in a slave/submissive or Dominant/Master****
I am sure most if not all on Collar Me will agree this lifestyle is not bound by "normal" rules of relationships in the vanilla world. But those within this lifestyle not as a fad, curiosity or experimenting know and feel it is something natural to them no matter what their orientation is. Therefore age, race or other factors really do not matter as much. But more as to what a person stands for in this lifestyle and what true connecting which could be achieved with another. I truly believe there is a deeper and more lasting connection between two people in this lifestyle which is hard to find in the "vanilla" world.
Now I say all this because I am really confused about people on this site. How in the world can you make the decision that you would not connect with someone if you have not even looked at their profile? How can you approach someone when you also have not taken a look at their profile? How do you know if someone is for you or you are for someone if you do not take time out to get to know someone? That is one thing I will say about the "vanilla" world is that people at least take the time to get to know you before they make the decision if you are or are not the one they are looking for. So, ladies and gentlemen; take time to get to know someone before you just count them as you might be pleasantly surprised who you meet and even in this lifestyle you could even find the person as a friend and someone to converse with. And for goodness sake use your profile to write more about who you are as a person and what you are looking for so people have something to read and you know they are not after you just for your looks.
I wish all who is here and truly in the lifestyle all the luck and success in finding your connection and true life mate.
Master Carl |
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Yes it has been a while and I hope those who have been keeping up with my journals will forgive me.
I have been talking with someone who has prompted me to write a new journal. It has been refreshing having someone to talk with who seems to have a deep and true calling to this lifestyle and understanding of it. Too many people I have gotten to know over time being here feels it is something that falls into your lap, comes true just by saying the words or happens to you over night as long as you think it is something you want. So, it is has been good to meet and chat with someone that knows that is not how this lifestyle works.
But one thing we have talked about has bothered me as I have spoken to a few other people who seemed to be within the same situations. And that is being "trained, guided or watched over" by a Dominant/Master who they do not belong to.
Dominant's and Masters (man or woman in changing the gender case) how can you take someone under your wing who is not totally committed to you? And submissive and/or slave how can you find yourself having someone giving you guidance when you do not "belong" to someone? I know gaining knowledge from one who understands the lifestyle is a plus. But can you truly find yourself being a submissive to another when there is no commitment there? This lifestyle is not a game where it is just parts or a temporary lifestyle you can just turn off and on when you want to. And how can one feel they are properly train someone when they know there are limits to what that person can and will do for them?
I mean think about it. Would that do anyone any good in this lifestyle to have that type of relationship? How can you teach or show someone what it is truly like to give your complete self to another to be loved, cared for, protected or trained when you can only have parts of them or know that they can walk out the door/your life for the real thing at anytime. Yes we are there to enlighten, guide, lead, and share with someone who is seeking. But as a friend or mentor we should never try and take a submissive/slave to a place that should be only reserved for the ONE they should be with or they are willing to say "here I am for you to do as I wish and desire for the ONE I want to give my all to".
Now I know I will get loads of grief from some Doms/Dommes out there who believe a submissive/slave is there for them no matter if they have their complete attention so they can break them and mold them into being a better submissive/slave for someone else. And there are some submissives/slaves out there who will say and think it is the job of a Dom/Domme to take them or break them even if they do not want to be taken or broken. But this Dom/Master can only say 'woe is you' as you completely miss what this lifestyle is all about.
Master Carl |
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09/09/09....Some things comes only once in a lifetime! Think about it; you might see something simular, but never quite the same. So, what are you going to do when that once in a lifetime comes in your life?
Master Carl |
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Happy Mother's Day to all the blessed and wonderful mom's out there!!!
Master Carl |
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Love....
They say love hurts...Well love does not hurt at all!!!
What hurts is rejection, not being the one you wanted to be, not being accepted for whom you are and what you have to offer to a person and not being able to let someone get to know you as much as you want to get to know them to know what true love is.
When you have all this in place you might find yourself in love and that part does not hurt.
You might find yourself in this lifestyle as a submissive/slave or as a Dominant/Master. But in either/or, you need to find yourself as a person in the beginning to get to know someone as to who they are and what makes them tick. Finding the right person in or out of this lifestyle you will run into things they might not like about you or you might not like about them. Maybe you will find out and know things they want which you want to be able to fulfill, but find yourself pulling away as you fill you are not the one for them. But all along it is just a desire and not as important to them as you are and if you truly want to find out if they are the One for you; you must be willing to just be human and get to know the person before you "dive" into the lifestyle.
I have spoken with and read so many submissive/slave profiles on here who are just looking for a Dominant/Master and feel it is just a free for all for the right one that comes and tells them all that they want to hear at the beginning; and that is what makes them the one for them. And I have also spoken and read dominant/master profiles on here that believe and think what makes you a Dominant is how quickly you can take over a person without them having a say in what they want or need.
Men and women on here...we/you do have a choice as to what you do or do not want in a partner!!! A lasting and loving relationship in this lifestyle is only achieved be getting to know your partner and seeing if he/she is willing to do what it takes to make you happy in your relationship as you are willing and wanting to make them happy! It does not happen over night or at the snap of the finger! It is and will be work for the one you seek. This is what is going to give you 1, 2, 5, 10 or life memories with your partner and in the end you will be the best Dominant/Master for them as they will be the best submissive/slave for you. There will be full trust and understanding between the two of you as you know your security, pleasure and happiness if foremost in the relationship over their own!
I pray and hope each and every one of you have a wonderful and successful 2009 and going forward! May those who are looking find that love does not hurt, but it is the best thing on earth!!!
~Master Carl~ |
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A few weeks ago I got a wonderful message from someone till now really makes a whole lot of sense to me. And on the eve of my birthday I am glad I understand what it really means.
One of these days you will find a Dominant/Master where being and talking with him is not a process of elimination, but complete and total dedications to Him till you are sure it is not Him.
Read and feel her words as one day you will find someone who will make you feel like her words or make someone feel this way with Your words.
"Sound of his Voice"...
"A man's voice can drive a girl crazy.
It can make me squirm and squeal,
and it can make me hot inside and out.
It can make me want to peel off all my clothes.
It makes me want to give a little show, to all the gentlemen I do -- and don't -- know.
It makes me want to straddle a thick pair of thighs,
a man who can calm my excited sighs.
A man who can play with me,
who can make me feel easy.
I have no choice.
That's what a man's voice can do for me." |
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The Master's Creed
Above all else He cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives Him is the greatest of all.
He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
He is in control of Himself first and foremost, so that he may control others. As a stern and demanding Dominant, He can cause his sub to cry real tears.
As the consummate lover, He will then kiss the tears away, without ever stepping out of character.
In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner,
never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and responsibility.
He would never ask a submissive to put Him before her career, or family, just to satisfy His own pleasure.
To win His submissive's mind, body and soul, He knows He must first win her trust. He will show his submissive humour, kindness, and warmth.
He must also show her that His guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a man she can learn from, and trust His direction.
He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous.
When called upon, He will fight for His ladies' honour.
He proves to her that He is someone she can lean on, and depend on.
He is old-fashioned enough to be a bit of a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect his little one.
Quick to point out the differences between them, He also knows there is no inferiority in those differences.
When it comes time to teach His submissive her lessons of obedience, He is a strong and unyielding professor.
He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from his student.
Never does he use discipline without good reason.
When He does, it is always with acknowledgeable and careful hand.
He is a careful guide, with safety always his main concern.
He knows how to use pain to extend the bounds of pleasure.
He is a mentor who can bring her to the edge of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights.
He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs.
He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of him grows, so will they.
He never has to demand ritual behaviour by her. She responds to Him out the want of pleasing Him.
Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment.
He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to Him.
He is secure enough to laugh at Himself and the absurdities of life.
Courageous enough to accept assistance.
Open minded enough to learn new things.
Strong enough to grow.
His tools are mind, body, spirit and soul with a little help from rope, crop, paddle and blindfold.
He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other.
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The submissive's Creed
I will not try to manipulate my Dominant.
I will not push. I realise that my actions and behaviour reflects upon His skills as a Teacher and a Dominant.
I will not intentionally embarrass my Dominant.
I wear the honour of being His submissive
I take pride in who and what I am and will never portray myself In a negative way.
I will keep an open mind and try new things In an attempt to expand my Limits.
I will continue to grow as a submissive and as a human being.
I will not allow myself to be harmed or abused.
By giving my "gift of submission" only to those that can responsibly accept It.
I know that submissive does not equal "Doormat".
I will continue to educate myself, because a submissives safety is always a concern.
I will be respectful to my fellow submissives.
I will help those new to the lifestyle to start out on the correct path.
I will be responsive to my Dominant.
I will communicate with complete honesty my needs, desires, limits, and experience.
"I will not hide what my mind and body are feeling"
I will not expect my Dominant to know my thoughts or the feelings which i do not share.
I will gracefully accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad.
I will not place blame on my Dominant if it is not warranted. Nor will i disrespect His Character in front of others, just because i am angry or jealous.
I realize that circumstances may not work out as planned, and shall strive to put it behind me and gracefully move on.
I will be respectful to my Dominant even in disagreements.
I realise my Dominant has my best interests at heart, and shall guide me with the best of His knowledge.
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I got a pretty interesting email from a member here which prompted me to write a new journal.
"I said real men...not domaneering, abusive men. Maybe you just don't know what I mean by real men."
This was an interesting statement to come from this person and it made me think a little about what both men and women have to deal with in this lifestyle and how so many get stereotyped in the lifestyle.
I was say there are many people within this lifestyle who have dealt with an abusive and unsatisfying relationship. But does that not hold true in any relationship? So, should you have been in a bad relationship are you going to judge and compare everyone after as the same? Yes we do learn and become a little wiser and quicker to the recognize a pattern than before. But do we climb into a box and cut ourselves off from the world.
So, for someone to write me an email like that who did not even know me bothered me. You have people into this lifestyle who enjoy and crave to be abused and/or humiliated and they are not a match for everyone. Therefore, if you are going to join a site like CollarMe make sure you know the difference between an abusive man and someone who is an Dominant!
Never judge a book by it's cover or claim you know what it is about when you have not read it!!! |
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Happy Thanksgiving to all the wonderful people here and their families! |
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****What is going on with journal entries from time to time not letting you create new paragraphs??? Well know I have them here but shows as just one long paragraph****
As we approach another Thanksgiving, I ask myself what am I truly thankful for? There have been so many things which are up and down in my life that I wonder am I truly thankful! Then by chance I run into someone who I see have a lot going on in their life and I realized I have so much I need to be thankful for. As whatever is going on in my life can be fixed, but there are those out there who do not just have problems in finding their right mate, but real life problems. And for those I will like to say keep your head up and things can and will get better. What does not kill you only makes you stronger!
What really stood out to me today was a young lady who stated "i'm not focused on finding the 'right one' because i'm more focused on being the right one." How profound is that statement. Yes I am lonely and would love to meet a woman who is wanting and committed in this lifestyle. Then I see this statement and realized I only need to be who I am to be the right one for who is looking for me! Thank you very much for opening my eyes on what I should focus on in this lifestyle. I know I am a true and real Dominant and Master and when the right woman comes along we will know each other and will be able to spend a long and lasting life together fulfilling each others desires and needs.
So, in closing I would like to say Happy Thanksgiving to everyone. Remember what you might not be thankful for someone else would gladly trade you for what you have in your life. Look at a complete stranger, smile and wish them a Happy Thanksgiving! And maybe that one kind act will get them thinking as to what they are truly thankful for.
Master Carl |
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Greetings...
I sit here with a nice Scotch, roaring fire in the fireplace and thinking about my life. I know what I am and what I want. But I also wonder why I sit here alone when I wish someone of this lifestyle was here to share the mood with me. Even as a Dominant/Master I desire someone to spend quiet and romantic times with. I can pick up the phone and make a call to a few people I know who wishes to be with me, but they are ladies who I have told about myself in the lifestyle and do not wish to have any part of it.
So, I ask myself can I deal with a vanilla relationship in hopes the person might understand and come around to what it is to be a slave/submissive. I have always said to myself ignorance is a lack of understanding, but is a lake of desire considered to be ignorance? At one point most of us have been within a vanilla relationship and did not really know what our calling was within this lifestyle, but was that because someone show them the way or was a understanding and desire that I felt? Yes it is my desire to find someone who is true to the lifestyle to be by my side. But I have found more and more ladies within the lifestyle not looking at me as a Dominant/Master, but more at the color of my skin. Which really perplexes me as the color of a person’s skin should be the last thing we should worry about in this lifestyle. On the other hand I do understand as it is an attraction thing and we all have that.
So, again I ask myself if since I find more “normal” woman attracted to me as a black man, should I just accept that attraction and try and lead them to the way. This is a huge problem for me as I have always believe that you do not “train” or convince someone to want to be a submissive or slave, but it is a feeling and desire that one has from their heart just as well as their choice sexuality! I’m so confused and at an impasse with my feelings and desires I have right now; which is a big deal for me as I am use to always being in control and know what I want and feel.
Any input from those of you who read this journal would be greatly appreciated as I also believe that there are times that a teacher needs to be taught and given advice and direction.
Master Carl |
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*Trust**Trust**Trust**Trust**Trust*
I had an interesting conversation with a wonder woman tonight that prompted me to write another journal. And if you have not guessed it by now; it is about trust.
How can you be in any relationship in this lifestyle or a vanilla one? But I will say in this lifestyle it is even more important!!! Why is that? Because as a Dominant/Master who has a True Submissive/Slave there is a persons life on both ends responsible for! How can a Dominant/Master commit to his Sub/Slave if he can not trust them or be trusted? And how can a Sub/Slave give their selves completely to their Dominant/Master when they know they are not trusted or they do not trust?
As a Master I have to make sure the woman I am with is taken care of; her life and happiness is my responsibility in this lifestyle as she is there to please me pleasing her! Too many people in this lifestyle are me conscious! How do you expect your Sub/Slave to want to do things with you or let you do things with/for them if they can not trust you? Your words on both ends should hold more meaning than anything else. If you are into pain, bondage, sharing or any other pleasure in this lifestyle you should know when your Sub/Slave utters the safe word or if they say no, yes or any other variable of communication or action they will be listened to! We do, tell and respond to things in this lifestyle that DAMANDS nothing but trust all around as a couple or group!!!
So, I will leave all who read this journal with this advice. Trust your partner as much as you trust them! You CANNOT be in this lifestyle if you can not have that! No matter how hard you try you will find yourself at a point where proving your commitment on both ends becomes overwhelming! If they do not trust you; they do not deserve yours. And if you do not trust them; you can not fully commit to them! Trusting and being trusted is the building block of any relationship or you will be looking over your back or proving yourself day in and day out when you should be focusing on other things in the relationship!
Master Carl
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***I do not know why my post will not let me create new paragraphs...so, please keep in mind they are there and I am not uneducated and created on long paragraph!***
Hello to all my fellow Masters/Slave Dominant/Slave!!! I hope all is well with everyone and your lives have been a joy and pleasure thus far. Thanks to a good friend Alicia on here I have found my way back. I would like to publicly thank her for caring enough about me to check on me. You will always be a good friend and have someone to talk with when you need an ear and advice.
Well if you have read my journals you would know I just moved to Austin four months ago. I have been fighting moving for eight months before I moved here and now that I am here wonder what drugs I was on! I have loved it here so much and remember just what I loved about this place more and more each day. Things were pretty hard at first as I could not find a place to live which was to my total liking to commit to. But after staying in a hotel and looking and looking I find a beautiful apartment in the hills. I have a breathtaking view and as always on the top floor which gives me the freedom to have all my windows open. My new position has been wonderful and the more and more I work the more I enjoy my job. I have gotten to do for pretty fun and interesting things thus far.
Unfortunately since I have been back on Collarme I have ran into some things I think needs to be addressed already. That is I am not looking for any type of online relationship!!! I seek and want a person in my life where we can spend time together learning about what draws us together. You do not have to live down the block, but you should at least be close enough whereas we can see each other every once in a while without having to get on a plane. Next, if you have not read through my journals you might have caught that I only interracially date. If you have an issue with this, just move on. As I do not have an issue with anyone that chooses to be a switch, dominant, slave, etc., etc! In this lifestyle and in real life we have a CHOICE of what we want. It is my choice of interracially dating and more so I require for you to be in shape. That does not mean you have to be a stick...but be HWP. Finally if you are interested in me and be prepared to at some point prove you are who you say you are; even more important for couples who contact me. I know if you are in this lifestyle the chances of you be camera shy is slim to none!!! Trust me I am not going to ask for nude or dirty pictures, but do not expect me to take your word to trust you. A few bad apples in this world have ruined it for the good ones. That is my rule and be prepared to live by them as I would not ask anyone to do anything I am not prepared to do myself.
Well I hope you have read my profile before contacting me. But do not feel that you have to meet everything I am looking for to contact me. But know if you do not it will take more for me to see how we could benefit each other as again I'm not here to get off online. I am always open to just having friends and someone to talk with and hang out with in you are local without needing to have more.
Take care and I will update more on my journals as time permits.
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Austin is awesome!!!
Well after a few weeks of preparing to move to Austin and all the paperwork I had to do for the new promotion I am now in Austin. So far I love my new position and all the new people who I will be working with and for me seem to be great crew! This is a great relief for me as it is sometimes hard to move into a new position and group of people. At this rate and the caliber of people I seem to have by this time next year I will have my boat again. It is really strange to be in Austin again as I was here long time ago at University of Texas and even contemplating going back there for my Masters. But all in all I love the how outdoorsy and kicked back Austin is and can not wait to have some time to explore all the newness I see since the last time I have been here. For all my friends I have here I will apologize in advance for not having the time to keep in touch like I have had before, but as soon as things settle I will be sure to get back to everyone as you have all made it worth knowing you and having both deep and humorous conversations. All take care and keep all those vanilla eyebrows raised!
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Moving to Austin...
Over the past few weeks I have had some wonderful new acquaintances’ here on CM come into my life and some I look forward to becoming great friends with both near and afar. Over time I found someone who I was wishing to enter into more than just a friendship with and she with me; and it might have been a lifelong beautiful thing. But in this lifestyle you do not just want; you act, you commit and you submit on both ends or you will not find yourself in a mutually rewarding and properly trained relationship; and this takes time and attention.
Therefore, I would like all to know I am in the process of moving to Austin Texas because of a huge promotion I have received within my company. Because of this I have been extremely busy with Human Resources, brokers, retailers and everything else involved with a major move. So, with that said, my time is very limited right now in speaking with anyone and will not be looking for or considering anyone to be in my life other than as a friends at this time. And those of you who have expressed interest before; even though I am free now to accept another in my life, I still will not have the time and devotion which would be needed. But if you truly have a heart felt desire and need there and would like to keep in touch, future consideration is possible once the dust has settled and I am set in my new office.
Thanks to all of you who have touch my mind in one way, shape or form and my not replying to emails does not mean I have left, just busier than expected and I will reply as time permits me. I wish you ALL a great weekend and summer and my extreme desire is that you meet the ONE that makes you COMPLETE in who you are as a person TOGETHER.
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Strong willed submissive…
I have seen and spoken with a few people here on CM who calls themselves a very strong willed submissive/slave (anytime I say submissive within this post take it as I am talking about both submissive and a slave). And the general consensus I have read or heard is they are looking to get out of the lifestyle because they hear over and over again that they are fakes because they do not just bow down when a Dominate/Master tell them to or submit to their wishes right off the bat!!!
Well men and woman stand by your guns and do not give up or give in. Stop questioning whether or not this lifestyle or your feelings are for you. And start questioning more if the Dominate or Master who has contacted you is real or not. You and myself have seen time and time again here online there are many fake and wannabe Dominates, Masters, sub-missives and slaves. Does that change you from what you feel and want to be???
I feel there is a fine line between being a Dominate and a bully! And in my observation there are more bullies in this lifestyle who have never really had control over anything in their personal life and they discovered a lifestyle where they could bully that control from the weak in a “relationship” for their own sexual gratification. Do not get me wrong just because you meet the right Dominate/Master and you give in quickly does not make you weak. But I will say when you give up your wants, needs and desires because a Dominate/Master says it right off the bat; you could be perceived as weak.
So, what do I call a strong willed submissive? I perceive them as one that knows what they want from their Dominate/Master and will not sell their selves short in getting what they want. Because they know when this Dominate/Master is found they are willing and wanting to give complete and utter control over to this person with heart felt devotion that their life would be looked as the most important thing in the Dominate/Master life!!! Just because you are a submissive does not mean you want to be walked over or misused.
Sorry about the analogy; but if someone was a horse wild trainer to domesticate them to be rode by even the amateur of riders and this trainer breaks only one horse; would you call him a trainer or an apprentice??? Would you hire this person to train all of your wild stallions or look for someone that has more experience and knows how to treat and respect that horse from the get go; to break its spirit through time, love, devotion and sometime discipline to be one of the best in your stable to be rode by all with little effort? In this lifestyle you should look and want the type of Dominate/Master and submissive in the analogy above. Because when you have a Dominate/Master who is willing to take the time, love, devotion and discipline to break you, you will be the best submissive in his life to return the time, love, devotion and submit to them!
So, again I say stay strong and keep your will and wait for the right Dominate/Master in your life who is willing to break you to be the best person you can be for them!!!
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Sunday May 11, 2008,
Mother's Day in the United States was first conceived around 1870 in Boston, Massachusetts. Following her experiences in the Civil War, Julia Ward Howe attempted to publish a push for peace at international peace conferences. In 1872 she began promoting her new idea for a Day of Peace for Mothers. She issued her "Mother's Day Proclamation" in an attempt to gather women together for the cause. In 1873, eighteen cities in America participated in this Day of Peace. It was most often a group of women whose families were affected by the Civil War that gathered to discuss the preference for peace. Now how much do we need to push this concept now in the 20th century!!!
I just wanted to take this time to wish each and every one of the Mother’s on CM a very Happy and Special Mother’s Day. Even more so for those of you who have children who are serving in the military to keep what they say is peace and freedom in the United States and abroad (I’m a veteran myself within “Special” duties, so I will not go into my views on why we are at war; but I was trained that you resolved and neutralized the threat quickly through speed, might and force. The United States has one of the most technologically advanced and trained military in the world and we can not still resolve this war? Hmmmm; I’m sure you all can draw your own conclusions. Before when the United Sates or any other country went to war there became a better way of living within the country in some way, shape or form; well over the years I have not seen things get better for us, as a matter of fact see that we are suffering even more as a nation.) I will say briefly being of a third generation military family I would not want or push for my child to join the military, but would support them should it be their choice!!! Therefore, God Bless and keep each and every one of the Mother’s, Father’s, Son’s and Daughter’s who made the choice in serving in the military.
The second Sunday of May is a recognized national holiday to honor our Mother’s, but lets not just make this day a day to honor our Mother’s and women! Everyday should be a day to honor them and let them know and understand they hold a very important roll in each and every one of our lives. Let’s face it, if it was not for them there would not be any new human life on earth! I have no kids, but know plenty of Mothers and have had health class and I will tell you I would not be the first man to step forward to try and have a baby!!!
HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY LADIES
Master Carl |
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Submissive/Slave...
Just feel I would like to give my point of view as a Master about being a submissive and/or a slave. Had an interesting “conversation” with someone who is looking to enter into lifestyle and was given an explanation that she felt her calling was more towards a submissive and not a slave according to what she has been told. In asking why I was then told because she does not want to have to deal with the pain and having to be subjected to unwanted sexual acts. So, let me try and approach this subject from a different angle than most Masters.
This newbie was very correct as to what a slave could be subjected to in this lifestyle; as a matter of fact I do see more and more Masters pushing their slaves into personal sexual party favors and other needs which only services Him. Do I say this is right or wrong? I say that is what this lifestyle is all about; there is no right or wrong. But I will also say a true slave can find a true Master which in her servitude will be subjected to things which she will enjoy and feel free to explore. And a true Master will know his slave and what He could and would do to have her grow on a level together that He is not looked on as a Hitler by His slave but as a Master. In being her Master He would have gotten to know the ins and outs of her and will be there to coincide her needs with His. And should those needs lean her towards being a “party favor” than He will know those needs and direct her in path, but should her needs lean towards being His property and only His, He will guide her in the direction.
So, for all those who read this journal and have felt and know they are pushed towards wanting to be a submissive than a slave there is a choice. And in that choice there is also a choice to who you serve. Just because you say you are a slave or want to be a slave does not mean if you get a message from a “Master” that says bow down I will own you, and you have a slave nature, you have to comply. It is a very strict lifestyle which is filled with rules and regulations, but you are not bound by rules and regulations just from anyone. You can still show and give respect to a “Master”, but sorry I’m not your Master till you say I am or I take your life into my hands. A slave can and will find the Master that is right for her and in that choice you will come across a Master that was not suited for you or you will come across a Master that is perfect for you.
For my fellow Masters who should read this journal, I would like to say should any of my words be your lifestyle or offend You; I apologize, but I am free to say what I want to say and want to get across that not all Masters are the same in this lifestyle. We as Masters should show those in this lifestyle that it is about guidance, teaching and nourishment of the mind, body and soul to bring mutual happiness!!! And We as a whole should show a little more respect to people in this lifestyle as We demand respect from those in Our lives. Should You be in communication with someone on this site with the possibility for entering into a deeper relationship, I’m sure you would not like the fact that I contacted her demanding things which should be only done by you at this point. Just because someone is not collard or is owned yet by You or another Master does not mean they are not on the edge of commitment. Or even worse interested in the lifestyle, but because of many actions of “Master” have been pushed them away.
“A Master can tell you what he expects of you. A Master Teacher, though, awakens your own expectations.”
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Presents of who you are…
As most will find I write in my journals not only to express who I am as a person, Master, issues I have experienced or dealt with in the lifestyle, but also food for thought for the unsure or new comers in all aspects of the lifestyle. So, today I have an issue that has been not only pointed out to me in the lifestyle, but also is a big pet peeve in my relationships…And that is personal appearance and who you are as a person in a whole.
Things I have heard and also been attacked by within this lifestyle from those who do not understand nor are a part of the lifestyle is; those involved are the unwanted, socially unacceptable, unattractive, uneducated, unemployed and those who just could not function if it was not for someone keeping their heads above the water both as a Dominate or submissive. Even in interracially dating I have been attacked with the presents of the woman I was with.
For those of you who might fall within the mentioned categories please do not take anything I write as a personal attack on who you are as a person or your life. There is nothing I say in my journals which is there to tear down or belittle a person, but all is said to feed ones mind and make them think.
Every person should take care of who they are as a person first, before they look for someone to take care of them or take on another’s life to be responsible for.
What do I mean about the above statement?
How are you to train and guide someone if you are not trained or educated yourself? How are you to expect someone to look good and be healthy if you do not look good or are healthy yourself? How are you to take care of and look after someone if you can not take care and look after yourself? How can you be a father or mother figure if you are not a good father or mother yourself? How are you going to demand and expect respect if you can not show and give it yourself? Do not get me wrong that many can learn or better themselves with the help of someone else, but you need to know that you have given your all and educated yourself to the best of your ability before you expect someone to give their all and be educated (i.e. practice what you preach). There are many aspects of this lifestyle where you explore and learn to become better, but do not operate on me unless you can tell me you went to medical school! LOL
So, what am I saying? Let me speak as who I am as a parson and Master and you take what you need from it.
I have dated people in my life who have been overweight and single parents, but as I looked back I also wished they looked better or was not a multiple single parent. Also have dated people who could fit in, in every social setting and those I would who would embarrass me. Therefore, if you know you did, could or should look better; than do it and offer the best you have. If you want be part of a social setting, then learn the applicable setting and etiquette. The way a person looks reflects on who they are as a person and the way you speak and what you say shows your intelligence.
(Previously I had someone in my life who even from the day we started a relationship would tell me how she did not like the way she looked and missed the way she was before. Out of curiosity I asked her why does she not do anything about it? As in many things in life, her excuse was she just did not have the time or the energy as before. It was at that point I pointed out to her how could she expect to be committed to me if she could not commit to herself. A very quizzical look came across her face and she said “I do not know”. It took me to point out to her if she put her mind to something she wanted, she would get it. Long story short she took what little time she had to workout even in the day to day things she did. She got up five or ten minutes earlier and did sit-ups and push-ups till it was natural and desired by her body. And in the end she found she had more energy and even looked the way she wanted to look (wanted gym time was incorporated at this point). Instead of looking at something that she thought was cute and would never fit her, she was then able to buy it. Therefore, she was proud to be around me as in her noticing people looking at me, she noticed people looked at her even more -then the questions started to be asked “what are you doing with him instead of what are you doing with her”. (NEW PARAGRAPH)
I am not saying that every woman is a size 2 nor should be a size 2!!! But ladies and gentlemen when you want someone and want them to want you, you should look the best of your ability for that person (physically, hygienically and dress the part - time and place for everything). If you want to impress someone in going to an opera or nice restaurant, then study and learn about what you want to do before you attempt it. In all this you will better yourself and the person you are with and have more to enjoy and share with each other. Trust me the jealousy issues will become far and few in between unless you are with someone that is a flake in the first place. (NEW PARAGRAPH)
Now for the statement of single parenting; it would always get me when a man or a woman says they want a serious relationship and kids with someone and they have 1, 2 or more kids with different people and do not take care of them (if you dress better, look better, have more than your kid/s or spend more time on the computer or with friends when they are awake; this is YOU). Do not get me wrong, for the most part women get the short end of the stick in having to try and juggle being a woman with a personal life and being a mother after being with a man that thinks having babies is what makes him a man. Just make sure your priorities are straight! Men and women not all relationships work out in today’s society, but show you have given your all to make it work before you jump into another and another till it works out. (I DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THIS PARAGRAPH AS IT REALLY IS THREE, BUT FOR SOME REASON SHOWS AS ONLY ONE NO MATTER HOW MANY SPACES I PUT BETWEEN EACH...SO NOT ME, BUT THE POST)
I personally have never been married nor do I have kids; even though I have wanted them both for the most part of my life. But I will say in my dating life and in this lifestyle I look for the best that someone can offer me and I can offer them. I’m not patting myself on the back or saying that I am better than others; I write what I write to say, offer the best you can in this lifestyle to your partner. You do that and meet the right person there is the unimaginable you can offer each other in this vanilla world of rules and regulations!
For those of you who have read this journal to this point, I leave you with this thought which was basis of this post. Break the chain of how people look at those who are in this lifestyle. Do not have someone say you are a submissive or slave because you could not even do better if you wanted too! Do not say you are a Dominate/Master/Mistress in this lifestyle because you have no control of anything else in your life! Start with yourself showing that you can have and be what you want to have or be without the help of anyone else. That you are in the lifestyle because your have control and have a heart felt desire to be who you are. Again I will say to those who find themselves on the other spectrum of all I said; I am not saying that you are wrong or giving the lifestyle a bad name, just give yourself a good name as to why you are here in being able to counter any issue or question which is presented to you.
I wish joy and happiness to all in or out of this lifestyle with the man, woman or couple in a world full of hate and deception.
Master Carl
Knowledge is of two kinds: we know a subject ourselves, or we know where we can find information upon it.
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Food for Thought
I had an interesting conversation with an aspiring submissive/slave who has lost her Master due to complications and personal reason in the relationship. This was not the first time I had spoken with this person and I truly feel that it’s in her heart to become a true submissive/slave and is not part of the vanilla world and never will be a part of it. Well in seeking companionship and time filler, she opened herself to joining a local dating service to meet people to enjoy her time with. Not that this person is unattractive by any means; just her time and lifestyle is not too open to meeting gentlemen in her life.
Here is the catch...Very recently she also met a Dominate/Master who she found a connection with and admits that if there could be a chance she would be interested in this person. But yet in still she went out on a date with someone from this web site because she already made a commitment to the person before she met the connecting Dominate/Master.
Now I post this journal as a Master/Dominate for all submissive/slaves out there to get some insight into the mind of a possible seeking Dominate/Master; also for the seeking submissive/slaves to understand they have a part in the process too.
A true Master/Dominate does not feel that he must own or try and own any and every person who says they are a submissive/slave. There is and will be a true connection between a Master/Dominate and a submissive/slave. Therefore, when you meet someone online that says they will own you or for you to give yourself to them and you have not spoken with them in any way, shape or form, chances are they are not a true Master/Dominate or if they are, it is only about sexual dominance and slavery and not about the mind, body and soul. I am not saying that will not come later, but from what I have seen it will be far later if at all.
So, for you true submissive/slaves when you find someone that you feel a connection with and if everything was perfect you could see yourself being the persons submissive/slave you also have a choice to choose and speak out. There are few of us true Masters/Dominates out there who might meet a perspective submissive/slave who will sit back and observe a person to see what they will say, do or act. I am not saying that my friend did anything wrong in going out on her date, but she never knew if the Master/Dominate she found herself having a connection with might have felt the same and was observing her actions to see if she really was going to take baby steps in showing that she wants to submit to him. Sometimes it could and would be better for a submissive/slave to submit to a Master/Dominate even before you are told just to show you’re interested and could commit to the person and let them make the choice to make it official (now watch the fine line of stalking LOL). And those of us who are true in this lifestyle know it is not a want or a desire, but more of a need and calling.
Again not saying that my friend was wrong at all, but if it was me and she was someone I was interested in as a submissive/slave and I was observing her knowing there was mutual interest I would have wanted to see her tell me that she had a previous date that was set and because of the type of person she is; when she gives her word she would like to keep it, and if she could have my permission to keep the date. Trust me when there is a cultivating interest there is leeway that is given and understood. And when you have someone that is a true submissive/slave you would not have to worry if you can trust them when they are out of your sight.
Hope all who reads this will get some food from it. Know who you are, asking for what you need and take what you want as life is too short to live in a vanilla world!
Master Carl
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It's Friday and what a beautiful day it is. I was able to fall asleep to a beautiful rain storm last night and the only thing that would have made it better would have been a beautiful woman by my side who I loved and adored! Maybe even lay in the back yard as the day we were brought into the world enjoying the cleansing stinging effect of the rain hitting our bodies. One of the many things I do love about being back in Texas, are the warm summer rain storms that we get.
Just wanted to share my peace and contentment today with everyone and wish you all a wonderful day and weekend! I hope you find the joy I seek and those who have that joy already, enjoy the weekend with the one that makes them complete. And for those who are unsure about this lifestyle and just here to learn and observe, finds themselves one more step closer to understanding.
I have been here for a while and when I first join I was also unsure what I wanted. I just knew there was something in my life that was unfulfilled. Seemed like everything I did I had to be the best and for the most part did it better than others. I would get a job starting out answering to someone to end up having them and everyone answering to me. I would succeed in everything but my relationships, all the while having everyone saying what a great guy I was and how was I single. As I contemplated this, I was always brought back to the one person I was with for 7 ½ years. Amazing enough she was a Japanese lady who I met and dated when I was flying for the Navy in Japan for 4 years. Now that I know and understand who I am I remembered just how submissive of a girlfriend she was; not only to me, but also to everyone that knew me. At the time I would tell her to “sit down”; if they want something to drink or eat they know where the kitchen is as they have been here enough times. I am not saying that a person is only there to cook, clean or look after you, but interesting enough it was in her heart to do it for me and please me. And that was not the only things she did to please me and it was her nature being a Japanese woman. Knowing and understanding these things now I remember just how much I would do for her that would just make her eyes light up and bring a smile to her face! It was an unknowing Dominate and Submissive relationship.
I say all this because in becoming active in the lifestyle again I have ran across a few profiles and people who have stated that they have had a “bad” Dominate or Master previously and now they are just here to observe or keep up with old friends. Also there are people who are here who have a Dominate or Master who was like I was when I was with my ex. Until you truly know who you are as a person you can not and will not be able to please someone else; be that as a Dominate or as a submissive. And once you realize who you are, there is nothing that will complete you till those needs are met. You have so called Dominates out there who are only out there for themselves and can make the life seem not worth it; when you find that person you will know it! They will not only have and own your body, but that is the last thing they would want to own as the mind and soul would be first and the body will follow. You can have and give your body to someone and that will only last for a moment. Take or give your mind and soul and it will last for a lifetime!!! So, do not let someone that wants to talk and not act change you from who you are.
Thanks for the people I have spoken with on here and those who have given me encouragement and hope. All of you guys are the best and I hope those who are looking find what they want and those who have what they want enjoy a long life of happiness.
Master Carl
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Ok looks like I need to get something straight here! I am a single black man who was brought up in private schools which were predominately all white. Because of my upbringing and environment I have a different outlook on color and race. I am in no way, shape or form a black man that feels or believe that the white race owes me anything!!! I am not into interracial dating to get back at the “white man”!!! I am not into interracial dating because I believe that black men are better than white men!!! And most importantly I am not into the Master/Dominate lifestyle because I feel the need to degrade or belittle a white woman!!! It is a shame that you can be of the same race or not black and it is ok to enjoy and seek such a lifestyle and nothing is said, but when you are black and seek the same people feel that you are out to “Prove” something!!! So, please do not attack that I am a black man who has lived a life of attraction and dating outside of my race and interest in the same thing that everyone else is on here for as me trying to “beat down” a white woman. Therefore, if you are interested in me be interested in me as a person and not as a race, because I look at you in that way. And just because I am attracted to women outside of my race I am not going to belittle or ignore someone that is of my race or nor does it mean that just because you are outside of my race I am going to be interested in you! Let’s grow up a little people and realize that we are of a human nature and not us against them, you against me or me against you. We are people who are unique and have our own likes or dislikes, attractions or turn-offs and most of all desires in life!!!
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I have been asked and also seen that there are quiet a few people on this site that thinks it is a place to meet people to hook up for sadistic sex. There is so much to the lifestyle for me other than sex. Don’t get me wrong that it is not a part of a relationship, but I am not some dirty old man that is looking for a woman to use as a sex toy!!! It is my dream and desires to find the right woman to settle down with to enjoy a mutually rewarding Master/slave Dominate/submissive lifestyle with kids and a true family. So, please stop thinking or asking if I am into this life to find a woman to share with all my friends, have multiple partners to father children with or someone to be my personal maid. And should anything of this nature transpire in my life (outside of kids with other women) it will be with a wanting and willing partner where it will be her wishes in our lifestyle. Therefore, if that is what you are seeking from your Master/Dominate please move on as I have not gone this long in my life in not seeking or accepting this in someone for you to waste your time on me!!!
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