TWOBMASTERED


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	About TWOBMASTERED Another fellow kinkster has given me inspiration to NOT let the past keep me from moving forward to what I want from a Domination and submission relationship...And I thank him! :-) So! LOL! Try, try, try again...LOL! :-) However my favorite mottos still stands: " There are worst things to be than SINGLE." AND "Submitting to the WRONG DOMINANT is worse a fate...Then being a submissive with NO Dominant to submit to at all." That being said... I am a 36 yr old black submissive female who is VERY VERY SINGLE (LOL) and also a mother to one child. So if any DOMINANTS...I'll say that again: DOMINANTS!!!?Who show interest they MUST BE CHILD-FRIENDLY or there will be a problem. Single fathers are always welcomed! :-) My attraction and preference are VERY VERY SINGLE, HETEROSEXUAL (no bisexuals please)DRUG/DISEASE FREE, NON-SMOKING, light drinking (or even non-drinking), Dominant white men who reside in the United States Of America AND must also reside in the state of GEORGIA who wants a serious committed MONOGAMOUS Domination/submission relationship with a black female submissive such as myself! :-) I am not interested in a long-distance relationship because they never "go anywhere" with me at all! SO...Must be in the USA and must be HERE in Georgia, PERIOD! This potentially "Head Honkie Honcho" (Oh yeah, one of my kinks is ?Race Play and I'll touch on that ?later in my profile! LOL), must also be HONEST about who he is and what he wants. And can very well express what he wants and NEVER be "wishy-washy" about either! He must also be INTELLIGENT, SUPER FUNNY (I'm a sucker for a man who makes me laugh, LOL), RESPECTFUL, ATTENTIVE and VERY TRUSTWORTHY (As I've got to TRUST him in order to give myself over to him and I must earn his trust to show him that he'll not be disappointed by me doing so).? Fun Fact: The BEST way of earning my trust is put in the EFFORT of getting to know ME and finding out IF we are compatible as man and woman FIRST?...I know it's "hard work" to do that these days! LOL! But that IS the BEST WAY in my opinion...Okay, Fun Fact Over! :-) Any way..."Head Honkie Honcho" must also practice safe, sane and consent. And he also MUST be able to have nice, casual vanilla conversations ?WITHOUT letting "dick interference" to be an issue...Another motto of mine: "Dick does not make the Dom!" There's ALOT MORE to being a Dominant than just a dick, in fact your dick means shit to ME!? ALSO...LOL! There's alot MORE to being a Dominant than merely "being oral" THAT ALSO DOESN'T MEAN SHIT TO ME!!! Compatibility however DOES mean shit to me... :-) To the men of other shades who get offended for MY preferences, ?attractions and kinks: Being offended is YOUR PROBLEM not mine, so if you wish to insult me ASK yourself THIS question: Will insulting me change a damn thing? Answer: Fuck No!?I am 36 yrs old and I know EXACTLY who I am and what I am attracted to...It is what it is and what it will be! :-) To the white men who show interest for a black submissive woman such as myself: It takes MORE than just your skin tone for me to trust and consent to you as being the right Dominant for ME. See, I have to actually LIKE YOU as a man and as a person! LOL! I know, MORE "hard work" but it's really common sense...Right? Of course right! :-) And if you are ONLY seeking a "first black woman experience" I suggest that you seek ELSEWHERE, I am NOT interested! And good luck to YOU ;-)? Race Play and ME: I was introduced to this controversial and taboo kink nearly 5 years ago with the last Dominant that I was involved with for nearly 3 yrs. And I enjoyed the adventure immensely, and he was beautiful. He was my beloved Blue-Eyed Devil indeed...But he's in the past and what we experienced with each other is over! Race Play motto: Racism is about hate, Race Play is about love! (Therefore if you don't LOVE ME then I can NOT "play" with you!) I learned from him and other Race Players (that I've befriended over the years) that there is no one "true way" to Race Play and that "play" is the operative word. And HOW one plays must be compatible with HOW the other "plays". How I played with him it was affectionate, romantic, endearing, comical (he was a very funny man, LOL) and empowering, it was Tender Loving And Erotic Race Play. THAT'S the kind of Race Play that I enjoy!!!! There was NO dehumanizing! No "darkside"! No "bringing back the good old slavery days" nonsense! No humiliating, UNLESS I disobeyed or disappointed him WHICH I RARELY EVER DID...As I enjoyed being a "goodie-two shoes garboon" for him at all times, and for HIM ONLY! And I wish to "play" THAT WAY again with the next "Alpha Albino" who can appreciate and respect that.? Of course THIS WAY, of Race Play is not welcomed by ALL Race Players and that is fine. Your kink is your kink...But it is MY WAY (as well as others' way) and I choose to stick with it! :-) Thomas Jefferson and Sally Hemmings relationship is also an inspiration when I Race Play with the right pobucker, LOL! Theirs wasn't a relationship to be "kept secret" OR for Jefferson (or Sally) to be "ashamed of" and EVERYBODY knew about the two of them...Everybody!? I am not interested in playing or being romantically involved with ACTUAL HATE-FILLED racists or COWARDLY pussy-racists! My next Race Play motto: "Get to KNOW a nier before you call her a "nier"! " I say THIS^ often by the way, for a VERY good reason...LOL! If you send me a "hello nier" message, a bullshit Roots-wannabe-erotic fantasy 'story', or anything I deemed to be remotely horny-toad, rude and just flat out STUPID in my inbox...You will be cussed out AND blocked for your "trouble"! I am one who enjoys being a submissive, for ME it's freedom, expression and love. A very deep and profound love that would bind me to a Dominant who REALLY appreciates that about me. ? I'm NOT a " brainless doormat", as you OBVIOUSLY can tell from the "wordiness" of my profile. LOL! If a "doormat" is what you seek than by all means: Keep seeking!?** I like to think and I like voicing my opinions and I adore a Dominant who would encourage me to do so. Though I will ALWAYS REMEMBER that no matter what I say it is the word of my future "Alpha Albino" that matters! And no one else's... Have a nice day! :-) I am also VERY active on Fetlife: 2BMASTERED And I am SOMEWHAT active on OkCupid: MerryMoxie ? ? ? ? ? ?

To The LYING Married Men: My First Ranting Journal Entry...YAY!

Just because you SAY you are an "Alpha Male" OR "a Dominant Male" (in your profile) and have the"nerve" to cheat on your wives with some another UNsuspecting woman that you have managed to LIE TO SO WELL, LOL!...Doesn't make you ALPHA (and it sure as hell doesn't make you a DOM either) it makes you a LYING BETA. POSSIBLY an even shittier THIRD-RATE OMEGA at best! Okay? LOL!

You gave up your ALPHA-tude when you said "I do" to these women long ago. And NOW they are the ALPHAS! LOL! It happens...So man up, shut the fuck up and deal with these women YOU have chosen to be with til "death do you part", okay?

Talk to them about YOUR DESIRES, YOUR FANTASIES, YOUR LIKES, YOUR DISLIKES...Communicate, Motherfuckers!
OPEN, HONEST COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY to all successful marriages! It's ALSO KEY to a healthy and successful Domination and submission relationships! Unless all you are after is "the Dom- title" and a random silly ass random "dick wetting hook up session" then CLEARLY all you are is a Top and not a Dom. Period!

Hey....Like I said before: TALK TO HER! Keep on talking to her, make sure YOU TELL HER what is on your mind! Shit! If she STILL isn't interested...Keep on TRYING! Get creative, with SHOWING HER YOUR DESIRES:

Example:

IF...Just saying IF ONE of your desires is for the wife to spank you, and she's NOT WILLING TO OBLIGE YOU.

Surprise her when she's coming out of the shower, you are buck nekkid laying face down with a belt draped over your ass, with a note tapped to your right/left cheek (it REALLY doesn't matter which cheek, LOL) that says:

"Honey,

PLEASE!!!"

LOL! Yes, Alphas can have fantasies of having their asses spanked by the hands of the women that they love...Honest truth they do! LOL! And I have met a few of them in real-life and of COURSE these couples' marriages/relationships were VERY OPEN, LOTS OF OPEN HONEST COMMUNICATION between these lovely people.
They don't have to LIE, they don't have to "sneak around" behind each other's backs. They ALREADY KNOW what one another is doing with someone else! :-)

Hey!

And if she's still NOT interested...TRY AGAIN! Wear her down, be fucking "ALPHA" with her! I'm telling you, it beats LYING AND CHEATING! IT REALLY DOES! :-)

Also keep in mind that these women ALSO chose to be with YOU "til death do you part" as well...SO show them a little respect and show the marriage some respect.

Stop the lying and stop the cheating...Stop giving genuine Alphas a bad name!

And hell if ALL ELSE FAILS...Divorce is ALWAYS an option. Hell, that's what I did in the end. I learned a lot from my marriage, I ALSO learned to NEVER, EVER marry again. LOL! Well, I DID learn that! LOL!

Also by ME typing this rant with a HINT OF HUMOR...LOL!

It DOES NOT mean that I am "interested in subbing" to couples or couples in OPEN MARRIAGES and/or Poly Relationships/Households either!
I am STILL MONOGAMOUS and I STILL want a MONOGAMOUS D/s Relationship with a VERY VERY SINGLE Dominant Male.

That is all!

-katota :-)

I have read about how many women get stood up or (they're messages) get ignored by most men on this site. Here's my sentiment for those women: "If you're having guy trouble? I feel bad for you, Hon! I got 99 problems but a dick ain't one..." LOL!

Hang in there ladies, there are worst things to be than single! And as for a man ignoring your messages, that's just God's way of removing someone out of your path that HE KNOWS isn't worth your time.

So just keep it moving ladies...Just keep it moving! :-)

If anyone else wonders what a pussy-racist is, look it up on Urban Dictionary. There's a VERY ACCURATE definition for that word, there's also a word AND definition for it's " black female counter-part" as well:

"Vanilla dipper"

LOL! It's hilarious but BOTH words and definitions fit...

To ME, a pussy-racist is a cowardly white man who STILL doesn't know what he wants (regardless of his AGE) and isn't viewed as being "strong leader" in my opinion (or in my eyes). He would very well be a "teasing Top" that I'll get bored with soon, but NOT a "Great White Alpha", LOL!

Those Alphas follow the beat to their own drums, they are not ashamed or "guilty" about being who they are. They are not embarrassed to be seen with their "classy coon" out in public (in front of their friends or family). They could care less, and that coon would be delighted to hang lovingly on his arm...Adoring him as IF he's ALL THAT MATTERS! Sighs...

It's like Cesar (the lead Ape from Dawn Of The Planet Of The Apes) said:

"Ape will always choose strongest branch."

*I don't mean the "ape" reference either, LOL*

But JUST THE WORDS ITSELF, I want a White Master who is strong, capable and SANE enough to lead ME...Not just "in the bedroom", please that's mere "Top Mentality". I want more than that! I want a STRONG BRANCH to swing on, LOL!

Hey, I'm "big gurl" so it's GOT TO BE STRONG ENOUGH to hold ME for always... :-)

-katota

9/11/15

I love knowing how much I've grown and learned throughout my submissive journey:

One thing I've learned is:

As a Dom if you can't control yourself, HOW can you control and take responsibility of another (and another's life)?

Especially, if you can't have a nice, casual conversation with someone (who may be sub/slave potential) without "dick interference" being a problem! LOL!

Just saying... :-)

Have a nice and kinky day!

-katota :-)

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