Where to start, well I recently moved here, still sorting out things.
I still need to buy some items before I can be convincing enough to go out.
I recently started to look after a 5 year break, having lost touch with
my old domme and her sub tv partner, and since they where in London, it
wouldn't really work at the moment.
I have been mainly dom since by early 20's but always had a need to let go, especially with cp, it really set the mood for me.
Before everyone screams that that makes me a switch, I am only looking
to sub (that also includes not supervising / punishing other subs).
Yes, there are good reasons and I am experienced enough to be sure. No,
I am not going to send them by email, that is first meeting discussion.
I did find someone to play with (unfortunately looks like an occasional thing).
The session did suprise me a bit in that, I really did want a lot more
than the dom was happy with and I had a far stronger desire/response
than ever before.
What I am really looking to do is expand my experience in certain area's, as well as pushing a few old favourites.
My interests have always been fairly broad but the just keep getting broader.
To be honest in the past I mainly played with women, but I have played
with male doms at parties (sometimes as a maid), as well as a good few
male subs.
If I tick it as an interest then, yes it is a turn on, but part of
submission for me is doing things that I don't find a turn on, so
somethings are hard to do, but then that is as important as doing the
things I do get turned on by.
Anything that violates a hard limit must be agreed before any
session,(Yes, some are negotiable, and I have done some within the
right relationship, but don't hold your breath).
Other than that feel free to severely punish any reluctance.(the hard limits are listed at the end)
I am looking for real life friends and regular play partners
(male,female or a couple mf/mm/ff). Yes, tv,ts,tg is included pick the
one you are.
I am not a great fan of a long email dialogue, it always come down to
the initial meeting anyway. I could say it's about getting the right
vibe, but it is more than that, and email or phone just doesn't give
you that.
Friends can be sub/dom/switch any gender.
Playmates can be dom/switch (but I won't switch),any gender ,couple not
really worried about experience, I have no issues helping a dom / domme
outside a session.
Not really looking for 24/7 and overnights are a problem for me as I
have no car and pets, but I can accomodate.
Regular would be ideal, if you can only do occasionally then, that's
life.
If you haven't shot yourself by now, here are of the things I am looking to try / expand on.
Needle play / Sutures.
Anal play mainly fisting.
Bondage mainly suspension / prolonged.
Breath play
Hard Limits
- Animals
- Children
- Scat
- Roman
- Permanant Marks or likely to cause scares
- Face slapping, punching, kicking
- Punishment on shin, above neck, or testicles.
- Anything with high viral/bacterial load.
- Likely to need medical attention
- Unprotected sex
- Gun/knife play
