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Male Submissive, 49, Staffordshire
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About TSubChangeling
For starters, i am pre-op mtf transsexual. As noted in the basics, i am a translesbian identifed bisexual. It has been a while since i have been collared. Since then, i have been finding that i miss it a lot. It is hard to say what i am looking for in a Dominatrix, other than no active addictions. As friends have noted, i am the sub in 99.99999% of any type of social interactions, The exception being when i go into guard dog mode. i am a natural protector and guardian of those in the same pack as me. This is probablywhy the first Mistress thought it best to leash train me for being out in public. This does not bother me in the least, as i know there is a very legitimate reason for this. This is something that i cannot turn off. It is just a part of my genetic make up, just as having blue eyes is. i am very trainable and presently have few hard limits. whether this is because i have not encountered anything else that would fall into that category remains to be seen, but from periods of thought and reflection of experiences from the past, this is where i am at. |
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One of the things that strikes me as being different in a BDSM situation compared to any vanilla relationship is that communication is very often stressed, particularly in the formative stages. ? The glaringly obvious one is that after a series of relationships ( be they friendships, intimate, or even business), we focus on what we are not looking for instead of what we are looking for.? Typically, when it comes to what we are looking for, we just cop out with "I will know it when I find it."? If this was an episode of "Southpark" I would call shenanigans. ?
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Even though the quick list from the profile may seem limited, i am actually a Jill of many trades.? i have worked construction for a number of years, as an apartment super/maintenance, deckhand, cook (for up to 30 people, including planning menus and shopping), security, leo, etc.? If i was a writer, i guess i would have the typical writer's resume.? i also grew up on a small farm.? i may not be an expert at everything i have done, but i still remember how to do things properly and how to fill in the blanks that i do have.? i am not too proud to ask for advice.
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