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Divorced from a 14 year marriage to a vanilla and now I am wanting to find myself again....been away from this for far too long and need to reconnect with my roots ;-)
I would use this opportunity to have you open your mind and heart to something I learned and teach, and that is, that humans have to capacity to love unconditionally, unrestricted, more than one person at a time, and most important... ...without limits! If there is truly love, then what more could anyone ask? -Todd S.

I am a sincere dominant Male. I am looking for a SMART, mentally and sexually open, easygoing and submissive female, that wants a close friend and lover.

About Me:
I may or may not be a trend setter, but I do forge a new path in just about everything I do, when it comes to writing music, or constructing legislative drafts, developing ways to harness green energy, down to the way I run my business, I am always trying something new. I like engaging conversation that makes one think…truthful and open talks where it is easy to see ones willingness to share personal ideas and experiences are my favorite. When it comes to sex, I like things a bit spicy, I like to play using my hands a lot…then after a while everything gets a turn…lol. I guess you could say I am kinky, in the aspect that Missionary Style is simply “not my style”…lol P.S. …I like to be pursued…so keep that in mind!
What I am looking For:
I want to feel that “falling for you” feeling. One night stands are ok, but they are really not what I am looking for...if we go out at some point and I don’t hook up with you that night, I would consider that normal….(maybe I am picky, or maybe I am looking for something more than just a sexual connection….or maybe both!) not that this should scare you away…as I hope you will give me a chance to show you who and what I am…. this note is just so you will know where I stand!

Also…I will respond to emails at g mail, but you must tell me who you are and how you found me, and a picture will help to get a quick reply…

Last- I will NEVER come look at your web feed, pay-site, streaming video, or anything else like that - don't waste my time!
11/19/2012 9:34:28 PM

Divorced from a vanilla of 14 years and wanting to find myself again....been away from this for far too long and need to reconnect with my roots ;-)

5/10/2010 11:48:58 AM
here is an adult game for four or more i made up on 5.6.2010 called

“Intimacy 10”

Part 1
1. Each person playing will write out their first name with last initial, and one intimate act in order from (#1 = least intimate act) to (#10 = most intimate act) on a 3x5 card (intimacy cards). (Example: #1 Jake S. a soft caress of my bare chest –to– #10 Jake S. the most sexually intimate act Jake can think of.) (These are your ten intimate acts and you will get them all back during your turn later in the game. These acts are secret so keep quiet about them.)
2. Place all ten intimacy cards into a hat in front of you. (A Reward goes to the player who places all 10 of their intimacy cards completed into their hat first)
3. Once all players have completed filling out their intimacy cards, the game may begin.
4. The first person to draw from everyone’s hat will be the person that completed filling out their intimacy cards first. (The reward from step 2) This person is called The First Drawer.
5. The First Drawer (Reward from step 2) will start drawing from the hat on their left and will draw only one intimacy card from each hat around the room that is not covered. They must stop at their own and not continue around the room again until everyone else has had a chance to draw. (At any time a player does not want another player to draw from their hat they may cover it)(OPTIONAL RULES –“NO HARDLINE”: no player may cover their hat)
6. After the first drawer has taken one intimacy card from each hat their turn is complete and the player to the immediate left begins their turn. (This process will continue to the left until everyone’s hat is empty. This means some players may get more than one turn! The Reward from step 2)
Part 2
7. All players will secretly look at the intimacy cards they collected and count the # (1) intimacy cards they have. The person that collected the most (#1) intimacy cards will be called Player One. The person sitting to Player One’s immediate left will be called Player Two and the person sitting to the immediate left of Player Two will be called Player Three, and so on. Player One will go to the Intimacy Chamber after all players have been made aware of their Player Number.
8. Everyone will then look at the intimacy cards again to find Player One’s (#1) intimacy card. (at no time may a player reveal the act or the # that their cards contain, to any other players)
9. The person with Player One’s (#1) intimacy card, will enter the Intimacy Chamber and perform the corresponding intimacy act on Player One that was outlined on the intimacy card. Once completed they must leave the intimacy card with Player One and leave the Intimacy Chamber. Next to enter the Intimacy Chamber is the person with the (#2) intimacy card. They must perform the corresponding act outlined on the intimacy card, and must leave the intimacy card with Player One. This process will repeat until all ten intimacy cards have been performed, and left with Player One. (It may happen the some players may enter the Intimacy chamber more than once and some may not enter at all)(OPTIONAL RULES “NO HARDLINE”: every player will enter at least once)
10. Upon receiving all of their intimate acts Player One will exit the Intimacy Chamber and return to the lobby.
11. Player Two will now enter the Intimacy chamber and that same process will repeat until all of the intimacy acts have been performed and all intimacy cards have been returned to Player Two.
12. Repeat the process in order until every player has been in the intimacy chamber and received all of their intimate acts and their intimacy cards have been returned to them.


Keep in mind that the more people there are the longer this will take so no act should take longer then agreed on at the beginning of the game.

• OPTIONAL NO HARDLINE RULES this optional rule is for a group of bisexuals willing to play with both genders.
• OPTIONAL NO HARDLINE RULES it is possible to plan two or more people to enter the intimacy chamber at once. Example:
o - #1 Jake S. a soft caress of my bare chest
o - #2 Jake S. left foot massage
o - #2 Jake S. right foot massage
o - #4 long passionate kisses ECT… Notice there is not a #3…it was used at the same time as #2 so you will not be able to number a card as #3. Exception…You will NOT be able to do this with the #1 card or the #10 card


GAME By Todd Soyka
Lesslave
 
 Age: 24
 Gravesend, United Kingdom