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| Looking for female sub/slave. Obviously young, have 3 yrs experiences of being master. Let see if we can fit each others expectation. Contact me here:
mail: tsnfosst@gmail.com
Skype/Wechat: tsnfosst
Line: fish_ling714
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It is something talking about having a M/S 24/7 relationship. Before that, I must admit that i am young, when i say young i am really YOUNG. I am now 21 years old and has been a master for 3 yrs. If u are a age racist asshole, close it before read any.
Non kinkster or newbie always think that master is just giving order, the one has been served. Easy and a hot pussy is always waiting for your dirty order and bang. When i talk to newbie that i am a master, usually it is somehow their first impression of me. No, obviously no.
This article won't teach any badass skills on play but talk about mental interaction between master and slave. Of cause some people who we called top & bottom don't care about commitment or interaction, they play for stimulation and biological needs usually. (Of cause everything has a exception)
In normal situation, how to let the slave thinks u are good, strong and trust worthy is a real problem for master. Not every slave is a zealot and care no shit. M/S relationship is like kind of bargaining, u cannot really keep the distance too far or too close. It cause problems.
People do seeking emotion support even in a M/S relationship; caring, understanding or even love. Don't say it won't make u glad if your slave find out your hidden depression and ask if she can make your favorite cocktail for you even u didn't give her any order. Don't say it is what a slave suppose to be, u will never know if she did put effort on you. She can pretend that she knows nothing and being passive. You cannot say she is wrong but this is a tricky way that if u punish her for that, u are somehow vexatious. A good slave doesn't only suck dick good.
Master and Slave are totally different roles, a slave can just tell the master about her feeling because "keep honesty" is always a good excuse for both not to feel bad on it as we can all pretend that it is just a rule that we are following but we may all get benefit from it especially for those who just start the relationship and feel shy or uncomfortable to express herself to her master who is also a stranger. It is not easy to pass your psychological gate even u have tons of BDSM experiences.
Master is a far different story. You cannot keep telling your slave you feel bad and looking for consolation. She may think that u are not tough enough or able to handle her, slave do want a discipline and strong master. Punishment and reinforcement with good reasons, guide her for her life. Slave doesn't worship your identity but your ability, so don't always show your emotion your "weakness" or punish her simply because of your bad mood.
Sad but true, a slave can mentally depends on master but a master cannot mentally depends on his slaves. Once you two get too close, it can never go back. It is hard to be a authority again because it somehow makes the relationship too equal and makes you two in a embarrassing and awkward interdependent situation. I am not saying bullshit or some unrealistic fantasy as actually people have tons of research and data showing the truth.
It is not good to keep distance so far either. No slave want to be ignored or no chance to serve, some masters act like a living mystery ; say nothing and seldom give order either (Some even fucking disappear sometimes). I cannot figure out the reason why they want a relationship. Slave need their arena, don't limit them and force them to have a poor dance. Or you are forcing them to find a better master. You are no the only one.
We may treat a slave like shit but we do respect them. Who give a chance for you to totally override a slave will? She is the one who willing to give you this right. We treat them "bad" as we BOTH want it. Don't regret if she leaves as u will find out you are not that authority as u thought. Remember it and please keep treating her like shit as we all love to. BTW Don't forget to play some hypnosis tricks, it helps.
Thanks for watching the whole stuff. You make me glad. People did challenge me. But any criticize, share, or comment are all welcome. In the end, a little promotion here. If u are looking for a master in HK please contact me lol. (Online master is still fine) |
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