The spirit absorbs the body contrary to the belief that the spirit resides inside the body.

We all search for the balance between pain and pleasure both can be exhilarating.

When power is exchanged the experience can be transcending, two spirits merging 

through mutual trust and power.  

The flesh is fascinating, it's the largest organ of the human body, it"s flexible, it protects us and gives us pleasure. A Dom Master must be a protector, like the flesh but he must also be flexible and he must be large. You who want to be owned by a protector please know what you want. You have to understand there is hole that a needs to be filled and you must visualize what that is, it makes things easier.

I was a dom and I didn't even know it, I look back on some old relationships the ladies always told me they liked that I didn't take their shit. They loved the fact that I put them in their place.... At that time I thought maybe I was just attracted to those type of women or maybe they were attracted to me. I have learned over the past few years it was much more complicated. I am fascinated we people who find life partners on these type of sites.

A lot of people are here to play, some are looking for something they haven't been able to find for whatever reason and others just looking to feel something, pain, humiliation giving and receiving. I'm looking to find the balance between domination and submission.  I want that to grow into something stimulating and meaningful.

The relationship between a master and a slave has two dimensions,devotion and trust. Devotion of the master to probe test and push the limits. Trust the trust of the slave enough to be painfully honest.