This is the first time I've ever sought out a D/s relationship. I am in my day to day life not submissive and have no intention of becoming so. However vanilla relationships can't satisfy me. I want to be dominated and controlled in the bedroom.
I have a busy and happy life, I'm not looking for anything 24/7. I would either want something completely sexual or a relationship where it's understood that outside of the bedroom I will not submit at the snap of fingers.
In the bedroom I love force and pain and am willing to fully comply.
