I always considered myself a vanilla kind of girl with a few kinks. Then I releasied over the years my kinks were never vanilla and firmly lay within the domain of the lifestyle.
Maybe it's my vanilla background that makes unwilling to submit to those who don't see a slave/master relaqtionship as a two way street. Like anyone else I am in a relationship for whaty I get out of it; I just receive more pleasure knowinig I am serving another. Not getting taken advangtage of. It's a very small difference, but like shotting a rocket at the moon.. if your off even alittle bit you don't end up where you want to be. |