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| It seems people think if you are Dominant. You need to act a certain way, Be mean, not listen, understand. I disagree 100%. To judge someone, to say you need to act like this, or that,,, Is b.s. at best. Each person has there own way, style, needs, as does a Submissive, slave, switch.
I have ben around enough to know,,, Talking, listening, being open. Not judging. Reaching in deep to bare our thoughts, mind, soul. This is when we can reach the level we seek. Some want extreme, some only during sex, some 24/7. To say there wrong, he/she is right. Is sad at best.
This is not how I act. I didn't just click Dominant and became one. This Is me. It was the way I was born. I have tried to turn my back on myself. ( be vanilla 100% ) Only to turn and face me. And realized we have to be who we are and not judge others.
This Is not to say I'm not a loving, caring man.. This Is where I think people misunderstand this lifestyle.
If you think a Submissive/slave does this because she has low self-esteem, had family problems, is not smart, strong, a great woman. You do not understand, in my view. It Is who they are. And a submissive, slave, switch, or any woman for that matter is a gift.
You Dominants can flex your chest and say, I pick, I'm the man, I'm in charge. But a submissive picks as much as the Dominant. MORE in the start of a relationship. Ok I will get off my soap box,, LOL.... PLEASE be safe,,,,,
I'm a white sane, safe, open, d/d free male looking for direct communication,,,,,
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