Submissive's Bill of Rights

I have the right to set limits, and expect them to be respected.
I have the right to trust, providing I have earned it.
.I have the right for you to believe I am a.intelligent,
caring and loyal person.
I have the right to ask for Your attention, without having to
misbehave to get it.
I have the right to expect You to administer Your punishment on
me with care and caution.
I have the right to question your motives, should you deny my
requests, as long as I do so with the proper respect.
I have the right to speak up if I feel O/our relationship is not giving me what I need.
I have the right to tell You what I need in a respectful manner.
I have the right to expect You to understand my reasons for
doing so, and the right to expect You to listen with an open mind and heart.
I have the right to walk away from our relationship if W/we
cannot come to a common ground on these issues.
I have the right to expect tenderness, love and understanding
after a scene is completed, should it be what I desire.
I have the right to ask You for that tenderness if I've had a
bad day or if I just feel the need for closeness, I understand
that there will be times when You and I will disagree about this
when You will want a scene and I will not.
I have the right to voice my opinion, and expect You to listen
and to consider my reasoning's, I expect You to have final word,
but I expect You to wholeheartedly consider my feelings,
whatever they may happen to be.
I have the right to expect You to understand that deep trust
often brings love, and I expect You not to repel me if I tell
You that I love you. For my Master I will love You, should O/our
relationship move ahead, should O/our trust continue to grow.
I have the right to expect You to tell me, at any point, if You
do not feel You can return these feelings, so that I may decide
what I want and need, for it is Your pleasure that adds to my
own, and makes it real, and mine, that adds to Yours

A Daddy's Prayer

By: DaddysGentleHand

To the highest power I ask for wisdom
The wisdom to be understanding The wisdom to be patient The wisdom to be just
The wisdom to know when to be firm or when to be gentle The wisdom to know the truth
The wisdom to be worthy of my baby girl
The wisdom to never take my baby girl for granted
The wisdom to know that my importance to her is only equaled by her importance to me
The wisdom to love the things she loves, as much as she loves them herself
The wisdom to love and respect her for who she is, forever
The wisdom to show her my unconditional love
The wisdom to lead in a positive direction
The wisdom to learn from her
The wisdom to teach her
The wisdom to give and receive love equal to the love she gives me
The wisdom to let go of my fears
The wisdom to know when to stop
The wisdom to know when to start
The wisdom to know when she needs me the most
The wisdom to recognize when she needs her space
The wisdom to lead her, and the wisdom to follow her
The wisdom to know the trust she gives to me is the greatest gift she can ever give
The wisdom to earn her trust and keep her trust
The wisdom to trust her with the same devotion that she trusts me
The wisdom to make her laugh and smile, to feel at ease and comfortable being herself
The wisdom to encourage her positively, and help make her better in every way
The wisdom to express myself clearly and thoughtfully
The wisdom to understand her words and her actions unerringly
The wisdom to anticipate her needs and to respond to them appropriately
The wisdom to be the gentleman to her lady
To the highest power i ask for these gifts
And in this higher powers hand I give my trust
For help
For guidance
For support
And for wisdom
To be the Daddy she deserves, always and all ways

The Good Daddy by DarkLord50

Firstly, I want dispel any notions or misconceptions about the relationship between daddy dominants and their special subs. It has nothing to do with incest, age play, or any closeted desires or fetish for, or with children. It is not even about a father-daughter relations, in fact, there is nothing about this type of relationship that resembles anything about their father for these subs, whatsoever. In this dominant's opinion, a daddy dominant is the most tender of all dominants. He loves and adores his submissive with a true, eternal passion. A daddy dominant has his sub's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his own personal desires. This does not mean that he surrenders to her every demand.

There can be significant differences between the submissive's desires and her real needs. A daddy dominant has to be prepared to sacrifice for her, if needed, and yes, at times he does punish his submissive when needed, which generally hurts him just as much, if not more, than her. He will always do what is best for his submissive charge. He always helps his submissive to set and attain goals in life. He will strive diligently to help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for himself, but for her. A daddy dominant is not only looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person overall. He has many roles in her life. He is a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, and most of all, a lover.

A daddy dominant offers to his submissive what she needs most of all, which is unconditional love and acceptance. He must maintain consistency in his actions towards his sub, so that she always knows what to expect from him, and having the confident knowledge she can always depend upon him. He desires nothing more than to pull his dear submissive close and protect her from a world that seems to be bent on cruelty, however, knowing all along that he cannot. So it is up to the tender dominant to prepare his sub for whatever life may throw her direction, and to always be there for her when things go wrong, knowing that she will run to him when she becomes frightened or overwhelmed by the stresses of life. He will always listen to all his submissive's fears and concerns, and will help her face them down, thus slaying her dragons, if you please.

A tender dominant will cuddle his special submissive and show her great tenderness when it is needed. When she is unsure or uncertain of herself, he will whisper words of encouragement to her. When she feels ugly or unwanted, her dominant reinforces and reassures she is beautiful. When she feels scared or nervous, he is her safety net. For the tender dom, his submissive is the pride, joy, and main comfort of his life.

There are really no large differences between daddy dominants, as opposed to their regular or sadistic counterparts. His sub may be the twinkle of his eye, but she is definitely all woman! And he may be a daddy, but he is still, first and foremost, a dominant! He has to be able to punish and discipline his submissive when she needs it, and let his consistent actions prove that she cannot wrap her dominant around her little finger, or she will lose respect for him, thus his control over her is severely diminished or hampered. This could be pending doom for the daddy dominant/submissive relationship, or any D/s relationship.

We all realize that you cannot have the love without the respect. In that, and other ways, I may or may not have mentioned, a daddy dominant is not different from a regular or sadistic one. The only true contrast I see is how the love is given and reciprocated in this particular relationship I have discussed. I hope I have been able to bring some clarity to the notions about daddy dominants and their dear submissive relationships, and provided some insight and knowledge on the relationship itself