How Enthusiastic are you??

I'm going to respond to you the same way you respond to me. As a general rule of thumb, if you send me one line messages, I'm going to respond with one line messages. Its always a good thing to start your message with a comment on something I have written on my profile, and then we keep going from there. Hint hint. So yeah. starting your message with "Let me be your master you dirty slut" isn't gonna have me wet my crotch. Maybe it works for some people, but hey power to them.

Offering to have me come live with you and we haven't even said 'hi' yet, is also one of those things... Would you see a stranger in the supermarket and randomly approach them to live in your home? I doubt it. Much less someone on the internet. Like, I just can't take you seriously from that. 

I know I'm new to this, but isn't the point of a BDSM relationship to have complete trust in the person, and to also respect each other? 

Isn't it imperative then, even on a site like this, to establish a more 'vanilla' type of friendship/ relationship to build the trust and respect necessary to then explore the kinks and BDSM side of the relationship? 

Maybe it's just me, but I can't be submissive to a man I just met. I don't know your name, I don't even know if I like you as a person yet. I don't even know if I'm attracted to you. Therefore, the thought of you being my master doesn't turn me on yet. Give it a little time and I might soon be begging you to be my master.