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I am a widowed white male ( I say that up front, so I am not equated as some type of 'never been' loser, it has been 12 years,) , been in the lifestyle since I was 14,,long story.
Am recently coming back to it after a vanilla time period and was recently awakened to whom I was and am.
I seek one who will gift me with thier submission, whom I will respect for thier strength to do so and love them for it.
into but not limited to; spanking floggin paddling, nipple torture, clit pumpnig, roleplaying electric play ( new toy) and much more.
After some time you should know what is expected and punishment will be swift and severe, as will be the rewards for your actions,, would you like to be tied down and get a hot oil massage for an hour or two? Being a sensationalist, I like to touch you, to let you know I am there and in control of you,,
Thank you for reading this.
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One would also like to add, I am pretty much open to a lot of types of submisives, babygirls, slaves, breeders, toys, kajira,blood dolls etc i am open to it,,
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What is it about the fact that i would like to know a sub as a person, , be human, nice , joking etc with them that makes them think I am not interestd in them and only 'messing around"?
When did it become a crime to be a Gentleman when one is supposed to be? If you want to be treated like a piece of crap rather than a valued property/sub/whatever, then say so when you write me,,,
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Well Fetishcon , here in Tampa, was quite boring, at least for me,, almost fell asleep during on eof the topic discussions,, no real nice outfits or anything, was kinda bla'se event ,,
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Why are there so many new people on here who have no idea whatthis site is about, it seems a large amount of women are signing up and listing themselves without having any idea what a Dominant is or a submissive is.
Are they overseas scammers? Desperate lonely women? I mean some have semi real looking pics. but most seem oddly familiar as I do look at a lot of porn lol,,,
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I want I want I want, what do you want,, I have npo idea anymore of what I want, what I need, my wants change, I want a little girl to sit in my lap, a girl to sit in her place by my feet, a girl who will let me play with her, trst her limits, dress her up, dress her down, kniw that sometimes the play may be secual but it wont alwys end in sex.
A gorl who is puppy , a kiiten, a vampire, a pain, who likes pain, who cries, who is afraid and not afraid,,
Who does NOT cut herself, is NOT looking for a way to get away from bio mom and/or father, or husband or ex husband, master etc.
I DO NOT care if you have children , but they need to know about the life and our choices.
T help me and not make me feel helpless, to serve and do well in serving,,
A conumdrum I know, but she must be out there somewhere,,,
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is the no subbie for poor pitiful Me out there? Am I that bad a person?
Here I sit, now legaly blond after 4 operations to stabilize my wywaight, I can see but not 'see' if you can understand, I have to enlarge this to like 3 inches to see on the computer, ,,
All i want is some subbie who would be a nice little body servant, no poop wiping lol, to have, hold and tease and so on, lol, any volunteers?
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If you are over 21 and are looking for someplace to live, some friewnds are looking for a female subbie or three to place in thier house, and it is quite beautiful w a pool, jaccuzi in a secure gated gated community in exchange for like 15 hours work a month,, i can just refer you etc, the chouce is up to them, just write me and I will give you thier email,,
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well it has been some time since I was able to write here as I spent some time in the hospital being ill from seriously low blood pressure (cause unknown) that caused me to bleed into my eye interiors, called a vitreous hemmorage, and making me legally blind,, I can see but have poor depth perception.
I am not looking for sympathy or pity, just that I know several people read my profile and just wanted to let you all know I am ok lol.
Well anyhoo, I was told recently that it was 'refreshing' that I had sent a message that was not 'vulgar and disgusting' to thier mailbox here,,
so I want to know, when has such a thing become the norm? Yes we may be 'deviants' but when did we lose our courtesy?
When has vulgar become our norm? There is a time and place for everything, and as far as I know, an opening line of "Wanna ******" or such even in the animinoty of cyberspace rarely works,,
My 14 year old nephew is a gansta wanna be, and the other day he was over here and I told him to pull up his pants he said hey dog, it's my look, I said it's My house and you will respect that, this is Nowhere New Port Richey not East LA,,and if he didnt I was going to staple his pants to his waist..
he did'nt comply, I went to my library got my heavy duty stapler, came up behind him, grabbed his pants and wedgied him, and quickly stapled his to the back of his shirt, highwater style,,
My sister broke out laughing and told him you know butter than to push your luck w your uncle,, I opened up the stapler and said the hat is next" lol
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What else can go wrong in the world? I mean the announcement that Captain America will be killed off by Marvel Comics,, I know it sounds silly but he is a childhood hero of mine, he was a normal guy and did what he could to fight evil,, it really bites especially since the US needs him more than ever as an example ,,
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I dunno, i have talked to a lot of people, mostly submissives who have NO IDEA of the three rules of the Lifestyle even are,, or even knew of the concept of a safety call is,,
In case you are wondering, the Three rules are Safety, Sanity and Consentuality..
Safety: a aafety call when you first meet,, meet in a public place,,safety words for during sceneing to stop or advise of your limits,,
Sanity: hopefully self explanotory,,
Consentuality: if YOU ARE NOT comfortable with something, SAY SO, it is YOUR body and health!! If the Dom says 'no',, you need another Dom as this person has no r4espect for you or your life.
There are WAAAY TO MANY horror stories out there of subs being killed, almost killed , mained and more because the did not follow any of the Three Rules.
Broken toys are not easily repaired sometimes,,,
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How insecure are some people here? Only to be followed by how desperate some peo0ple here are too,, I dont mean to criticize but I have gotten cussed out by someone because I was being 'slow', as in not offering a collar after a 10 min conversation,, lol
Collar to me is a wedding ring,, once offered not declined or just passed on, what I am looking for is a partnership (with ownership lol) to last beyond the 'new' wearing off...
So understand if I want to chat a while, then talk awhile,then meet (and ya better have a safety call!) before ofering anything beyond friendship, we have all been burned, and I am trying to avoid as much self destructive behavior as possible lol,,
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Been a whilre since I have been able to write ,,and I have a lot to vent lol,,
I do not know what it is with some of these Dom-bees, some guy IM'd me out the blue and we were just shooting the breeze and he just talks trash about any submissive or lave ,, like they were just disposible pieces of filth,, just to be used and not cared for etc,, what he said was that he always sexed subs slaves etc bareback ( no condom) and he did not care if the sub got something or pregnant, as it "was thier responsibilty,," whosa pal, it is the 21st century not cave man days,, and then he had the idiocy or audacity to share a sub or slave if I got one!!
Why would I spend my hard earned time investing in a sub to loan it to an ass who wont listen to my or her rules? I mean if you had a car and loaned it to someone, would you not expect it used properly? Car, tools, subs etc no way!!!
The same goes for these Domsbees who take thier subs out dressed like they should be on street corner,, and get upset when people look ! If I had a fancy car (sub) that I spent all the time restoring/training, why throw mud on it and then display it?
To me, my sub would be a thing of beauty, shaped sculpted etc to her utmost hieghts,, respected for her gift of submission and loved for it,, as a DaddyDom who would not want to see thier beautiful babygirl at her best and show her off?
I have a low sex drive, yes I enjpoy it but it is NOT the end all be all of our relationship,, yes relatiuonship , we both give and take, talk to each other and work together,,
yes I will control you, punish or rewrd you w orgasms, but that is YOURs not mine lol,,
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I am a Dominant, not Domoneering or a "Dhombie" as I call them,, wandering around whip in hand glazed look muttering "Ssssubmmmmittt"
It is not about sex for me, I am very diabetic and on heart med so I do have a fair to lot of ED, and because of the meds I cant take Viagra or the others,,
What I want is Daddy's little girl, to love and spoil and correct, to sit in my lap, play w my beard and to spank or whatever she needs,,to relish in the control she has given me and explore things and scenes together,,
is that so bad?
Apparently so, since do try to talk to people here and get intermitent responses if any to my intro message,,
later
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I do not know what is wrong w me or my profile as I get few answers back to anything I send out,,, am I that hideous?
I could really use a little girl to come home to and have her scratch my back lol,,
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I do know what has happened w my profile, but please note I am ex SCA but do like it, and am involved with another medieval group called the Realms of Avalon where I fight live steel,, "once you go steel, ya never go back to thye stick" lol
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I wish people here, not all but some, please think before they post, especially when thery think they are being creative, poetry etc is fine, but please please do not write in a medium color font on a black background,, you cant read it sometimes,,,
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| Age: 40 |
| Fargo,
North Dakota |
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