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Male Submissive, 48, StockholmNY
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Male Submissive, 36
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About TPEchastesub
I am a 22 year old submissive male, and I have accepted a job in San Francisco and will be moving there on in June.
I have known for a long time now about my desire to submit to a powerful woman. I experimented throughout high school, college, and grad school as a submissive, usually on a short term basis, but now I know that I want this long term. It has taken time for me to figure out for myself what I enjoy about bdsm and the submissive lifestlye and what aspects of it I crave. To be perfectly honest, I am still learning and figuring it out, but I have made some excellent progress in the past couple years. Here is what I have discovered:
I am a service oriented masochist who craves discipline, structure, and the opportunity to serve. What I'm ideally looking for is a woman with interests and passions that complement my own for a mutually beneficial TPE relationship based on trust.
I do not mean for what follows to be a laundry list of things I must have in a relationship, rather I intend for what follows to paint a picture of the type of relationship I am looking for. My primary interests include:
Chastity- I have worn several different chastity devices for periods ranging from a couple of days to a couple of weeks. I recently ordered the Queen's Keep chastity device with the added security screw (I have attached a picture in my profile of what it should look like when it arrives). I am looking for a strict keyholder who will have full control of the device, and will determine whether or not I receive orgasm at any point. What I have found in my experience with chastity is that it increases my desire to serve and increases my devotion in psychological and indeed physical way to my domme. When I am locked up, my ability to empathize with my domme increases dramatically. Her pleasure gives me pleasure, and it is a pleasure I crave. This leads me to the next item.
Service- Locked or unlocked but particularly locked, I love serving a domme. And this is by no means restricted to any form of sexual or physical service. While I would love providing oral sex on frequent basis for as long as she desires and I would love to provide all the foot rubs, back rubs, full body massages she could ever desire, I crave serving a domme in other ways as well. I want to take care of the chores around the home: Make the bed, do the laundry, do the dishes, vaccuum, etc. I want to cook for her, make her coffee or a smoothie in the mornings, bring her breakfast in bed, anything I can do to make her happy. And while it would be perfectly natural to create an arrangement where my release from chastity is dependent upon the quality of my service, that would be unnecessary as I wouldn't be doing it for the sake of release, but rather for the enjoyment I get out of knowing you enjoy it.
Pain- This is what has taken me the longest to understand. It was not easy for me to figure out whether I am someone who likes pain or likes the threat of pain. I have a very high tolerance, having been caned, paddled, and belted many times in the past by strict dommes. So it took time to figure out if I would still enjoy it when I got past my tolerance. And it's still unclear. I understand it, but I have trouble communicating it. When I get past my tolerance for pain, and a spanking begins to really hurt, I want it to stop. I want beg and plea and bargain my way out of it whatever the cost, but getting to that point- the point where I can't stand it anymore, but then I must stand it because my domme isn't finished yet, I love that more than anything. I am looking for a domme who will make frequent use of the cane, paddle, or whip. A sadist who will beat because she enjoys it, and derives pleasure knowing that I am getting what I want.
Anal- I have discovered that in chastity, when I know that I have no option to cum, I begin to crave prostate stimulation. I want to be milked. I want a domme who would enjoy bending a sub over or lying him on his back with a chastity device around his dick and pegging him with a strap-on. She can be slow and rhythmic allowing me to feel pleasure from it or she can be fast and relentless making me suffer. Pegging, plugs, enemas, milking, I love and crave it all.
Cuckolding- If my domme wanted to take a lover, I would be enthusiastically support that. She would be free to (safely) sleep with other men with me in the room or not. I would remain chaste and devoted to her, but she would be free to take on male or female lovers, subs, or doms, as she chose.
I plan to add more to this profile, but I feel like I have gone on long enough for now. If certain questions recur, I will take note and be sure to answer it somewhere in the profile.
Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I hope to hear from you. |
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