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Perhaps its time to come back out of my shell. More to come...
I have not watched much network TV since Seinfeld. All of the Survivor type shows, the American Idle type shows all totally missed me. I watched some of the crime dramas, CSI and SVU type shows but after my sisters unsolved murder I just couldn't watch them any longer. I was never offended by any of those shows. I get that network tv is about selling commercials and I get that I am a very tough person to market too. Those shows are not for me and that's ok. I was never offended that they where not making shows for me I just did something else. Read a book, watched a movie, fired up the xbox, maybe just go outside and enjoy nature. Tonight that changed, while watching the NBA finals, ABC had a commercial about their new show 'How to get away with murder'. I am just stunned. I don't know where to begin. Is this TV? Is this what people want to watch? I don't even care what this show is about. I am never going to watch it, I hope I never accidently come across ABC while its on. I am still trying to decide if I should write ABC but I know its just going to turn into a profanity laced rant that probably wont make sense. I guess I am going to sleep on it and hopefully my mind will clear. Right now all I can see is red. I am just stunned. Its been six years now, I really hope these feelings will pass, and I hope they find the person who took her from us. Stunned.

Several years ago I had a female friend, we meet on CL (yeah real people actually post on there).  She would come over and I would please her.  Sometimes with a toy, sometimes with my tongue, sometimes with just my fingers.  Sometimes we would just cuddle and kiss.  It wasn't really a bdsm thing it was just about 2 people with needs.  My penis never once came out of my boxers.  She never touched it once. 

I have talked to a few other women about an arrangement like this but mostly I always get accused of just looking for sex.  I guess I don't understand that train of thought.  If I would go to that much trouble to look for an arrangement like that why would anyone accuse me of something different? 

I mean really if I tried to take my cock out or suggest anything than call it off.  Just walk away? 

Sorry rant over. 

Ugh... Just had a "Domme" on this site after talking for 20 minutes and hitting it off quite well I thought tell me that her fee is 3,000 dollars up front and must be sent Western Union prior to any additional contact.

Yeah I guess I am less stupid than I am lonely.  lol

Ladies I hope you can understand when a male on this site or any site really is a little leery due to all the fakes out there. 

And yes I know the number of fake males has to be quite high as well. 

My views on Female Supremacy...

Ok this has come up a few times so I figured I would explain myself.  I put Female Supremacy down as a "dislike" and I have been told that me being a male submissive and having that down is contradictory to me being a submissive.  Well I disagree, while I would like to find a woman to serve, please, and make happy both in and out of the bedroom, I don't believe that ALL women are superior to men.  Sorry I simply don't.  I personally know several different women that could never be happy serving a male.  Are totally submissive if not slaves to their men and they love it.  Nothing makes them happier than serving.  I don't find these women any more or less deserving of respect. 

I also don't believe in Male Supremacy or anyone supremacy.  I don't believe that submissive women are just females that have never had a chance to be in control, never been taught how, or have just had their position in society so beat in their heads they THINK they should be submissive.  Just not buying it. 

Odd the more a woman professes to be real the less I believe her.

What exactly is a "real time financial Domme" that only does cam shows?  Seems there are a ton of them popping up on CM lately.

 

Is that sort of like driving on parkways and parking on driveways? 

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