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toy4u2008

Thank you for stopping by and reading this. This is my 4th attempt to clarify what I am as well as what I seek. As I am sure you are already aware, that is not neccessarily a good sign.I am , above all, a decent and caring person. I am educated, have travelled somewhat and have a fairly wide range of interests. Sports, museums, music, movies, books .... all have an important place in my life.As far as the BDSM community goes, I am really more of a kinkster, or perhaps bottom. One of CMs drawbacks is the limited roles they allow for you to define yourself with. It was about the first site I found that offered me a chance to explore, shall we say, some fantasies and interests which I have had for some time. Despite what my profile says, I am not really a sub. The term switch is perhaps appplicable, but I chose asub designationdue to what my interests are, perhaps a mistake on my part, please forgive the conflicting messages.I have found many people on CM whom I consider to be fascinating and good people. This includes both males and females, subs as well as Dommes. Many have been invaluable friends to me as I have tried to learn more about the community and my place, if there is one, in it. No matter what else happens, those friendships will always be special and make my time here worthwhile.Have a great day, I hope you learn something new today. May all of your wishes come true, we all deserve sunshine in our lives as well as the inevitable rain and storms. If there is anything I can do to help you, please let me know. Take care.
8/13/2017 7:30:39 PM
Color me grateful! Patience does, at times, pay off.
6/11/2015 3:41:29 PM
I might, just might, have finally made the right connection here. It seems most on here are focused on their own agenda(color me guilty as well) and I have also encountered my own share of flakes and scammers. But persistence may pay off! Good luck to all as they pursue their own version of the lifestyle!
4/26/2015 11:50:22 AM
Just back from a short trip up to Georgia. Although I had a great time, it's always nice to get home.Lots happening down in the Historic District and on Palafox today. I think I will go mingle with the rest of society for a while.
4/2/2015 12:42:22 PM
Well, 3 weeks later and I noticed that the local community still hasn't expanded. I am really enjoying the area, love getting reacquainted with Gulf seafood, now if I can only find a really good BBQ place nearby!
3/14/2015 8:05:36 AM
I have been in the Fla Panhandle now for nearly a month. Still settling in. I relocated here from an area where the community was much larger. I admit to being a bit shocked that one's search must be widened geographically in order to "see" many fellow members whose interests and targets match yours. But all is good!
I am really as much of a kinkster as anything. I do like a very strong woman, especially a top sexually. Just as important is that she also enjoy intellectual discourse and enjoy discussing "vanilla" topics when not playing. Nothing makes me want to serve more than a strong female.
I am a huge believer in being honest and up-front about who I am, what I seek and what I can be for anyone willing to consider me for service.
boredbitch
 
 Age: 32
 LONDON, United Kingdom