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Female Dominant, 23, jersey city, New Jersey
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Well its been awhile since i've wrote so...
The other day a friend and I were talking about how almost every relationship can be broken down into dom/sub roles. Wheather your at work, home, or just chillin somewhere. For instance when I am at work I am in the Dominant role. Being a boss I hold that role, and my employees fall into the sub role. Sometimes thier may be a power battle, but we all no the boss will win. Also it amazes me how if u watch certain relationships you'll see people obtain thier role, and if noone assumes the role the more natural dominant will step up even if they dont want to.
My kinda sorta ex dom contacted me, and for about 3 days i was so excited. Of course my hopes fell and shattered into jagged lil pieces. but hey thats how sometimes life is i guess.I'm the type of person that if you do something out of the blue, you had to of thought about it.. and then acted. well, atleast most ppl do neways.
So untill i write again |
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Well i havent wrote a journal in quiet sometime. Mainly because i was with Dom , who i really adored. He was everything i expected a Dom to be.. (He was the first one i kinda had a relationship with) To get to the point.. i dont think he knew what he wanted..on one hand i was to young, to far away yet in the next breath i was what he wanted. It was lik eplaying tug of war. Dont get me wrong though he was a great guy. I still think about him occasionaly and its probaly been like a year. So I thought i would try to look for a DOm closer to my own age.. which turned out to be a bust , because younger ones have no clue what they are doing, what the lifestyle is about or anything. So I definatly think atleast older doms are more mature and genuine,
neways ranting aside life is ok.. i work more than i do anything else. until i write agin i bid You farewell |
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Went to my first play party in Detroit... had a lotta fun! Actually alot more than i expected.
Even got up on the cross! It was great! Even some knife play!
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put a lot of thought into the idea of a24/7 relationship... it doesnt have to be like ou are His pet... but more you are His. After much analyzation.. it dawned on me that most of relationships are like that ... i give Him my submission w/o realizeing it. subtley He is always in charge... well just thought i'd write down what i've been thinking
wicked dreams |
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One gift to give
Unwilling to recieve
Unfortunate events
Swell slowly around
Emotions run rampet
unchecked and outpowered
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on bended knees
at His side
long raven mane dances accross pale skin
dark pools lower
shoulders back and stomach taut
soft pink lips curl into a smile
large callused hand drift slowly over dark tresses
shivers move accross soft flesh in sensual wave
looks to Him
silently asking Him His need
a silent nod
with out knowing she fullfils it
and with out knowing He fulfills her's
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a gentle caress
a firm grasp
a quick smack
intake of breath
long dark tresses fall caressingly against soft skin
large hands lost in boundless raven mane.
a quick tug forces small moans from ful lips.
a dark collar gleams around a slender neck.
deep voice whispers quietly " you are mine."
deep pools gleam lovingly in the darkness.
waves of emotions beat accross your heart
on all fours, at His side, You know You are His.
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Can someone be a true r/t 24/7 slave? could it actually work in the real world? I really wonder this ... in my point of view i dont think so. its kinda hard to fathom.. of having completly no control.. being more of a pet than anythign else. Most of us know what happens to ppls pets.. thier owners are irresponsible in some way so they die... |
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Just thought i'd throw in some quotes and stuff i like.. since my knight hasnt been fighting off these dragons and im still stuck in my tower! lmao j/k
"Some people are so ungrateful to be alive, but not you, no not anymore" From the movie Saw
"You love me but You dont know who I am torn between this life i lead and where t stand" 3Doors Down, Let me go.
Do not go softly into that good night! rage rage against the dieing of the light
"Do not ask for whom the bell tolls it tolls for thee"
"A man will lie even when he doesnt have to"
"A slave/sub must be open to thier Master at all times and in all ways"
"And I wonder day to day
I don't like you anyway
I don't need your shit today
You're pathetic in your own way
I feel for you
Better fuckin' go away
I will behave
I'm doing the best I ever did
I'm doing the best that I can
Now go away
I don't need to fantasize
You are my pets all the time
I don't mind if you go blind
You get what you get
Until you're through with my life "
Godsmack, Whatever
Remember youth as you pass by, As you was once, so once was I, As I am now, you soon will be, Prepare to die and follow me.
Without order nothing can exist - without chaos nothing can evolve
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please dont misunderstansd me i do enjoy carassing and loving part of a relationship.. its just that i want to be dominated... in the true since of the word! not just in the bedroom.
last thing i promise. what is the allure of the chase the hunt of relationships vanilla or otherwise? though when you have one that coveted prize.. you find out its not so improtant.
in a last note... there is a big difference between taking control..and it being given to you. |
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well i guess ill use this as a journal of experiences i've had in bdsm. which are not a lot. The whole reason i even discovered this was when i was 18 a bf got a lil rough with me and to my astonishment it turned me on! i thought i was wierd or crazy... until i did researh and found the term bdsm..
though i have been with a few self proclaimed doms.. i have found that they are not exactly what i thought id would be like... more loving than a vanilla relationship... treated me more like a lil girl than anythign else.. like theyd break me... which i think was because they were much older than me. but theer was no roughness, no pain .. just caressing and loving... wich truthfully confused me more... because it wanst exactly what i craved! well i will leave it at this for the moment ..
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Well I'm pretty new to this, actually compared to most of you guys on here i'm "vanilla" lol. 
Though i dont think so... Anyway.. i guess as strange as it sounds i eventually want my 
knight in shining armor *smirk* 
as if thats asking for alot... on top of it i just want them to be intelectual, intresting, fun, oh and heres one most men fall far short of... Dominant! Oh, and dont get me wrong i am submissive. I just dont want to give a person control. They should already have it. In the way they present them self, thier confidence, and overall attitude. A man does not have to wield a whip to demand respect nor does a woman have to couer to give it. Well anway in parting heres a quote that i find quite intriugeing. 