I've been away for a while and I've changed, so I'm updating this.

It's never happened that I didn't enjoy meeting and conversation and am open to demarking a line of friendship. After a few basics, phone and meeting gets right to seeing what might be next.

I love controlling you, love your obedience, and love owning you. Yes that includes the orgasms you have for me.

So, what kind of relationship? How about real? Real communication and real submission in real life. Loving? Of course you will love me. Mutual and caring? Yes, that's why you love me. Do I love you? How can I not, you are so adorable when you beg, so appreciative of your orgasm, so happy when you please me.

There is nothing for you to decide. When you discover you are mine it will not have had a beginning, it will just be.

But I enjoy taking you out, our philosophical conversations, our shared esthetic sense, and making you laugh.

Mutuality. Workability in vanilla life. In the world knowing you are owned and accepted just the way you obediently are.

Being trained. Need and intensely desire something? Good. I like that. Don't? Then you need more training.