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Male Dominant, 50
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Male Submissive, 50
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Male Submissive, 38, Central, Virginia
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About totaldom78
If you are seeking an educated, eloquent, clean, loving, happy, sane, safe, and also (somehow with all that) a kinky, caring, respectful, brutal, degrading fuck, please please let me hear from you!
I have years of experience and am interested in BD&SM, power exchange, and the use of a chest full of toys to enhance the erotic experience. I started learning about BDSM when I was 18 and continue to learn, there is always something new to learn and the learning process never stops.
I am what may be considered a type A achiever, I have an advanced college degree and a well paying job that also gives me enough time off to appreciate life.
I also enjoy giving and receiving massages and kissing - is there anything more sexy than a great kiss? I don't think there is.
For beginner subs reading this: if you are interested, send me a message. I have experience training new subs and it is something I enjoy. I will not rush you into any situation or make you uncomfortable, nor do I have unreasonably high expectations that I expect you to meet but rather I will go at a pace that you will find both exciting and comforting. That doesn't mean that I won't try and push you and make you grow, but I always remember that everyone, including myself, was new at some point.
I'm not looking for cyber. I want a relationship with a real person, not a computer screen. You should be: a natural born female, curious, adventurous and intelligent. I have no requirements in terms of height, weight, age, hair color, eye color, music taste, ethnicity or anything else. As long as you are curious, adventurous and intelligent and we have chemistry between us, everything else will work itself out. yes, you may IM me in chat or on yahoo messenger under total_dom78 but I'm rarely on so it's best to message me here. See my comment about cyber above.
I'm 6' ~180 lbs, dirty blond/light brown hair and have blue eyes. I'm also athletic (run, rock climb etc) and hope that you keep yourself in shape as well.
I do not have children, do not smoke or do drugs nor have I ever had an STD. However, I do drink socially. My tumblr filled with things I find interesting: http://storyofoyeah.tumblr.com/
ps - http://www.okcupid.com/t?aEd
my results for the test:
Story of O yeah!
You scored 86 knowledge and 100 Interest!
You are deeply interested in every aspect of bondage and know quite a bit about it. You love to experiment with various bindings, positions, and how much you can move during each one. Not only that, but you know quite a bit about bondage and would be a safe partner to play with. |
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One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question. Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your status and see what people ask you!... My dare done! Now I dare you. |
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No idea where it's from or who said it, but I saw this somewhere and loved it
"The universe governed by two laws, in fact it is one of the two parts of the same law: the law of patronage, and the law of ministry. If someone serves you , you must protect, if someone receives your protection, then that person is obliged to service you." |
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Please, no more one line emails, I'll just delete it. I'm glad that you want to say hi and get to know each other - but say more than "Hi, how are you?"
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off traveling, be back in the new year
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by popular demand I have filled out my okcupid profile, or at least parts of it. Send me a message or take my matchme test if you think we're compatible.
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I should clarify that while I am ideally looking for a LT relationship, I am not expecting an instant commitment and am open to more casual play sessions with select people if there is an energy between us.
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I've been asked what a sub can expect if she gives herself to me. Here is a very brief overview. She will experiance tight, erotic bondage and various forms of torture - but it will always be done in a loving manner, never out of anget. She will also be used well and often, I don't like my toys to gather dust or a sub to go unused. Idealy this would evolve into a live in relationship.
This does not mean that she is deaf, dumb and mute, she will have an opinion on what is going on in the world and be able to express herself.
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my newest interest is in suspension play, it has so many possibilities for exquisite fun
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Yoga makes me better at bdsm. Through yoga I have gained and continue to gain a better understanding how just how much you can push the human body - both pysically and mentally.?
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To further punish and push my body I have started taking yoga. I may be sore, but I'm not dead - so it must be making me stronger right? we'll see....
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My couples play has ended and while I enjoyed the experiance and it was a lot of fun it wasn't ment to be.
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After a break in play, I have recently started to play with a couple in the area. I think I may have forgot just how much I enjoy restraining someone, inflicting various types of erotic pain on them and then bringing them to a massive orgasm. mmmm, so much fun... I love playing with those two.
My ultimate goal is still to have a sub to call my own though, I don't think I will be complete until I find my special sub.
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