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Male Switch, 40, Dayton, Ohio
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About Tospanku
After a long time of thought and consideration, I decided it is time to put my feelings out there. Since it’s out there now, might as well be completely honest from the start so here it is.
I think I am a SPANKO. Meaning on a scale of enjoy it to live for it, I am closer to the live for it part. I love the visual of a woman’s bare naked ass bent over or over my knees. I love the feel and the touch and above all else, the control and power exchange is what turns me on. The idea that a woman is willing to give up control to me and submit to my wants and needs and trusting that I will not abuse this power is something that is indescribable to me the joy I get from it.
So that is it in nutshell. I am a spanko. It took me a while to get to this point. But like I said, since I am here now, might as well go on.
I am a professional type male in my late thirties. Career oriented, hence the No picture for now. I think women consider me to be handsome, well built, tall, intelligent, a good conversation, overall a gentleman. I have a successful career and a life that is enviable to most people.
What I do not have is a willing partner to share in my wants and needs to spank and to give up control. She is just not into it. I tried!
You could say what you want about this. I could be inexperienced and that is why she is not on board. You could say suck it up buddy and hang in there. You could say this is wrong and I am an asshole for doing this. I will not disagree with you. I have come to terms with it. I am here.
If this is offensive to you, I am sorry for offending you. You don’t have to read this. Thanks for stopping by and good luck to you too.
Like I said, I am here and I am giving it a try.
If you are a submissive lady that would like to get a safe discipline or fun type of spanking where your limits will be respected consider sending me a note. I have no preconceived notions or ideas about how this will all work out. All I know is that I am discrete for obvious reasons and would like to keep it this way. I know it will take you time to trust me, and you should know that I will take time to trust you. No sense in rushing things. I don’t care what your situation is. I don’t judge and I hope you won’t judge me.
Ideally this would be something that would be on-going and on a need basis. Hopefully we can have a decent conversation while we are at it too. I am not asking for too much am I?
I am trying this and not really hoping for much. I will probably not send messages of introduction. Hoping you stumble onto this and something tells you to initiate the contact. If I did send you a message, then know that there was something in your profile that interested me. But then again, who knows how truthful these things are. I could be lying about everything and doing some reverse physiology thing where I make myself to be a complete A-hole and hope this approach works.
Heck, I just re-read this thing and I do sound like an A hole.
So, that’s it. I know it’s not the best pitch, but if you need a spanking from a clean, decent looking intelligent, discrete, non-judgmental kind of guy then send me a message and say Hi and ask me anything. Also, check out my likes and dislikes. This should round things up.
Hope to be spanking you soon!!!
p.s. I am happy to provide pictures but only after we chat or email. |
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