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tosinlove

thank you for taking the time to read my profile....I'm the good girl,i am independent..have a mind that i use...i can support myself ...i own a few of my own toys...i don't need a Master but i do want one...to me there is a big difference...i will not submit to you just because you say your a Master/Dom...you will have to earn that from me by getting to know the person that lives within...i will give the respect that is given to me...
i am looking for someone that is strong in mind and will...that will be able to take control and rule over the brat..but will also enjoy her as well...someone that is willing to take the time to learn my mind before trying to take my body...Someone that is willing to take the time to find my soul...to set it free within His ownership with care and compassion...i am a slave at heart...i truly need,want and desire to give over total control to the right One...

the journey of the last few years has been one of pain joy and growth....i have learned compassion tolerance and in truly giving all that i am...my heart has been broken and has mended...my eyes have been opened to things that bring joy as well as pain...i learned how to protect myself and how to share what i have been given by those before me...
i have been lucky enough to stay friends with my last Master...He helps me to continue to grow though His wisdom and kindness. He is one of my best friends and the bond between us is stronger today than it was when i met Him almost 7 years ago...he dead in a car accident..i really missed him..now i am looking for a master,who will take very care of me.

The Master that i hope to find me will be loving kind,and compassionate. He will have the wisdom to know that not only am i a slave but also that there is a human side to me,that He will respect and care for. He will command His world with a firm but genital hand. He is a sadistic one at heart, as well as sensual. He will want to take the time to build a strong foundation that has the corner stones of friendship trust honesty and transparency. He will be strong within Himself and within the world around Him...He will be my best friend lover Master Daddy owner...



i have a sarcastic sense of humor that you either get or don't. If i know you and like you, i can be very caring and supportive, but it's very hard for me to open up and even harder for me to trust people.

i failed kindergarten and never learned to share well, and so am deathly allergic to poly. If it works for you, awesome. i've tried it and it definitely does not work for me. If you are poly, want an open relationship, or have a feeling that at some point in the future you would want to entertain the idea, i am without a doubt not the girl for you.

My very strong preferences are towards straight dominant sadistic men who are within ten years of my age (up to ten years older, i don't go for younger men), geographically close to me (because i'm greedy and want physical attention), and who are at least six feet tall (i'm tall and like heels, you do the math). i'm unlikely (read: not) to waver on these preferences. Do with that what you will.

As terribly female as it is, i have a thing for shoes. Also, for fast cars and putting them through their paces. i have a soft spot for people who have a way with words. If you read the profile before sending an email, i will know and appreciate it. If you send a thoughtful email instead of just saying "hi" or telling me all the things you're going to do to me, i will *really* appreciate it and will be infinitely more likely to respond.

Much as i would like to be, and am trying to be, i am not a small person. i'm still taller than i am wide, but i'm not skinny. If that isn't your thing, i can fully respect that. Hence i'm putting it out there now so there are no surprises.

There are a few things i can't stand in a person, any person: lack of integrity, lying, rudeness, or a profound lack of intelligence. Other than that, i'm relatively accepting and open minded.

Ideally i would like to find someone with whom to have a committed relationship. Depending on the person, i might be open to finding another play-partner to have some fun with.

melikat
 
 Age: 27
 Raleigh, North Carolina