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Male Dominant, 48, New Hope, Pennsylvania
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About TorqueMint1
Friends First *** And please do not send me a picture of you naked (unless I request one) it is just sad for everyone involved.
I am looking for real time partnerships/collaboration. I enjoy online activity but if you can't or won't meet in real life within a timely matter I would rather you not waste my time. If you describe yourself to me know that when we meet I will know if you have lied, as I am not blind nor too forgiving about embelishments.
You should be under the age of 36 and unmarried. I don't need the drama.
Friends first. Safety always. D & D and I expect it as well. |
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Woot, I am totally going to run a 5K with a friend. So if you are a runner hit me with info. |
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This is a rant, pass it up if you aren't interested in ranting...
Okay - lets get this straight. I don't owe you anything, nothing. Beyond the duty to let you breathe the same air in public venues we are separate and complete entities with little to no ties and certainly no obligation. Do NOT tell me that I "should" be interested in you, that I "have" to check out your profile, or that I have to listen to or cater to anything you want.
That is not how it works - not just BDSM, but life. If you walk up to me an start a conversation in the store and I ignore you or walk away don't get loud or if you do know that my only response is to ignore you while you make a scene.
Just because you call me beautiful does not in ANY way require that I return any sort of that compliment nor does it get you a smile or eye contact. I have enough of an ego that I can walk away from that as if it is par of my due (lol it is). Telling me to message you is a quick way to ensure that I will not talk to you.
Don't think you are the only man to email me or message me or for the love of god email me on collarme.com - you aren't ps.telling me you are SUB______ (fill in the blank as a name doesn't do much either. I get upwards of ten emails a day (excluding the 30 or so a day when I first popped on collarme) most of whom are subman sub mighty, submarine, subtrue, subzero or other varitations of sub prefixes so be specfic - for example: I am Mike from collarme who is a fisherman with a hook for an arm and a pantyhose fetish will trigger a bell of recognition.
Don't tell me I am a bitch or if you do know that I have heard it before and frankly if you can't come up with anyhing more orginal that could be why I deleted you.
Don't whine if I am not just dying to meet you. I am busy and looking for friends only so you desperate need to get fucked in the ass is YOUR ISSUE not mine. If you listen to me when I speak or pay attention to what I write I don't make any promises that I don't keep. When I tell you I am not interested in going to a fetish convention with you don't give me shit about it. I have mad skillz when it comes to ignoring you. And if I chose to got to the fetish convention and you see me there don't make me embarass you. Don't come up to me as say " I thought you weren't going to this convention" because what I said was "I am not interested in going with YOU."
This has been a rant, a notice if you will for people to listen and to man-up a a bit (i.e. don't be such a whiny bitch).
So now that the rant is over let me just say you have fair warning.
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I think I am going to head to Louisville, KY for a munch! Join me to say hello. |
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WOOT! My taxes are done like a done thing! I am talking SE 1099s and 1040s and Educational deductions all banked. Yep I am totally grooving on my own tax filing on time bad ass. |
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Totally craving good "convince porn" you know where someone just doesn't think they should and then in convinced step by step. Or even the semi-unsure or unwillingish but gets with the program guy porn. Prefer women dominating men or women dominating women - also the less talking done is better. Or if you have that happening in real time sign me up as a watcher, lol. |
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I am interested in just meeting fo lunch with some people. I think some guys just need to get out and meet in real time to feel more comfortable (women as well). Just to meet and discuss their interests and concerns - I am all about meeting in real time and I do generally have lunch so I think the two together would be amazing, lol. Send me a message if you are interested in lunch sometime - again friends/discussion only- all sexes welcome, hit me up via email and be prepared to schedule. |
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So I am interested in setting up a scene (I have already started looking for a player but so far I have had 2 applicants that I know in real time - big hell no - and three guys trying to make their own stipulations - which a personal hell no. I just thought I would have better luck here...
I am looking for a canvas (although not a good artist -or even a fair to milding one my kink (one of many) is to draw on people. You should be male or female, age 20-29, in good shape or at least broad with no excess of skin. although I am of course planning to pre meet with a scene contract you should know that I will be fully clothed (in work clothing due to paints or markers) I will not be naked or be sexual with you at any point. I fully intend that you be an object. No speaking (there will be breaks) and when I move you, well you are flexible enough to move. I intend to write on every part of you - there are no limitations on where safe material (body ink or paint) can go although I will not visit interiors - surface space only. If you are hairy I may ask you to shave before hand and I may bathe you when you show up depending on my mood and your skin type. You will not be given release during or after from me. I may be interested in follow up or another scene with you -I will let you know. Ps. you don't have to be local for this get together but all other rules apply -...quick note this does not mean I want to date you or see you on the regular either. |
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Just a note for trying to talk to me...I don't do exceptions! If you are 48 and married take the time to comprehend the utter waste of my time (and yours) when you write me. I don't care if your wife doesn't get the kinky you.
Nor do I care if you are "young looking" or "really in shape for my age" (note the for my age bullshit --you are still 50 right?). At nearly twice my age with baggage that would choke a horse you are totally off the list. Not only that but what the do you think I plan to do with you if you are married? I own, I don't rent toys. Barring kids, I am always first! If you are both legally and emotionally commited to some woman then just disappear -- we are just not going to play.
(Ps. it is so lame to chat for about a week-ish then tell someone you are married- get a job jerk like I don't run a criminal background check on everyone I take home anyway. Moral of the story = Don't waste my time I will just delete you.
I had to edit like a mother to get the cussing down, lol. |
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There is a guy who writes a blog about his interest in chastity and submission. He did an intereview with a woman recently this is just a small part of that interview but so clear and true of the submissive men I have met online.
His blog: http://submissivemale.blogspot.com/
I have highlighted the most common issues I have experienced.
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What common mistakes do submissive men you have met make?
Common mistakes of submissive men petitioning to be in my service:
-vulgar, obscene or disturbing emails or phone messages.
-sending vulgar, obscene or disturbing photographs.
-being unable to conduct a platonic and pressure-free first meeting.
-showing up dressed badly, in poor taste or like a bum.
-not paying for the first date.
-talking back.
- being late, a no-show or unreliable.
-answering my questions with a question.
-not being sweet to me or saying something nice about how I look.
-talking too much about himself.
-chewing with his mouth open or bad table manners.
-balking at a preliminary task.
-displaying a sense of guilt or shame over his own submissive nature.
-trying to initiate any conversations about sexuality without waiting for me to bring it up first.
-not giving me my personal space or trying to create a false sense of intimacy.
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Take heed it is a fair warning for those who wish to contact me. |
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