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Just to be clear-
i do not want Your money. i do not want Your gifts. i do not want You to fly me to Paris and woo and romance me. i do not want anything from You but the suffering that You're willing to inflict.
Now... if You are into wooing, and want to, I won't necessarily refuse. ;)
That said...
i just don't get it. If you met someone nice somewhere else, would you be asking them to sleep with you after *maybe* an hour of conversation? i'm not going to sleep with you because we have similar likes and have had a good conversation or two. i'm not looking for a completely anonymous one night stand. i'm looking for something mutually gratifying, and not just a quick physical connection. i need to honestly know that when i come to visit you, i'm not going to find myself in over my head. i need to trust you enough to know that when you tie me down and violate me, i'm going to come out of it still whole and intact.
If you're looking for something that moves really quickly then i'm probably not the person you're looking for. A bit part of this dynamic for me is being able to connect deeply enough with another person to let them hold my life in their hands. And, that doesn't happen in a couple hours on yahoo. |
