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Female Switch, 23, Rochester, New York
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Dominant Couple, 38
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Female Dominant, 26, Dayton, Ohio
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About torisetobow
Hi there. Chat me up, or be chatted up by me...either way we can figure out what we want from one another.
Check out my profile, if you do not meet my criterion, or think you don't, I wouldn't fret. Just because I won't be sexual with you, does not mean I will not dialogue with you. Bear in mind, civility is key to any type of productive interaction with me.
Do not mistake my kindness for passivity.
That being said, most courses of action are up to you. I am here, and that is all. |
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torture is that which we do not like or enjoy. asking me to torture you for your pleasure...this does not work. |
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it seems like there are many reasons why someone is attracted to specific applications of pleasure. from what I understand, with my painfully limited experience, the exchange of release and control between two people in an intimate fashion is a mode of sublimating the internal inadequacies of the individual into pleasurable activity. It looks like the activity, be it of the BDSM persuasion or not, is an internal projection of how the practitioner(s) relate to people.
It would help me better understand these exchanges if I related it to something I am more familiar with...which at the moment I will relegate to the chinese elemental cycle. the five elements are fire, earth, metal, water, and wood. on a cursory level, the balance of the elements relies on destructive and creative interactions between each one. BDSM practices, physical and mental, seem to rely upon a delicate balance of these kinds of ideas as well. Rather, release or destroy control, in order to later establish within yourself some kind of order. Or to affect control as a dominant force, so that you are free within the lack of constraint you find with your partner.
Though, a decisive factor in all of this is what the individual decides to do. The most beautiful thing about BDSM is that we aim to achieve balance and create these contemporarily unconventional comfort zones by our own free will.
Just thoughts...any feedback? |
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