TooTuff2DIE

This is my outlook on my BDSM lifestyle...comments are welcome...

BDSM & D/s is much more than shouting out orders to a submissive female…I don‘t like to be loud and obnoxious….I‘m prefer to be soft spoken and strong…. I’m by no means an expert on the lifestyle…I’m not into some generic protocol on the way a sub should act or on the way I should act toward my sub…I believe that there has to be love in the relationship…and with love should come a great deal of respect and trust…with that we can both explore and experiment with things in BDSM that interest us…I don’t want to be a bore you so let me offer you something to think about…”What is it that you are interested in?”  “What turns you on?“ Think about it and then put it out there…let men know up front….“this is what I like” and “this is what I would like to explore”…IFor me I have found that BDSM lifestyle offers and intensity in the sexual act that you can not obtain in a vanilla lifestyle…I‘m into sensations…and feeling what she feels…reaching new heights mentally…The lifestyle contains so many mental components….All I can say is “mental orgasm…lol… .I’m a Dom because it’s just natural…I’m not into reading how I should do “this or that” with my sub….I just do what pleases us both….I have to be patient…I have to seduce….I have to prepare her mentally….I have to be strong… I must be a leader…to train a newbie requires the Dom to exercise his best leadership skills…and all things must be done with love…that’s my view…and my method….Now if you want to be treated like a whore, slut, nasty bitch that is your choice…but my sub is more than some fuck toy for me to use…she is my life and my most prized possession…..When all is said and done, I can say that “I’ve caused no harm.” I do have to admit that there is a side of me that could go further into BDSM…but I am comfortable and extremely aroused now…so if I do go further it will come in time with patience and control…the control of self…always aware of my subs limits and needs…but if she ask for more she will get what she asks for…I have no problem pleasing my sub….I have a need to please her…I want her to enjoy all we do as much as I enjoy it….I hope that I’ve made some sense…I appreciate any comments…if you would like to discuss anything…please feel free to contact me…….