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Male Dominant, 37, Den Haag
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Male Submissive, 38
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Male Submissive, 23, Southampton
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About toolatefornames
As the son of a fetish photographer, my steps into the BDSM world were not particularly difficult ones to adjust to. I've spent a degree of my life surrounded by it and if I'm honest.. I knew I was interested even before I found out about my dad's extra-curricular photography.
There's obviously a lot more to me than just the whole D/s thing - but it's a great place to start on a website like this..
I'm a Dom through and through and I like to place a lot of emphasis on the respect dynamic between Dom and sub (This is obviously a two way street because both parties need to respect each other for a successful experience). I'm very much into the whole psychological aspect of Domming and find that conditioning, training and humiliation can be extremely effective (and satisfying) tools to use during play. With that said, I still keep a traditional sense of discipline close at hand too.. wink, wink.
I'd like to think I'm pretty intelligent, extremely creative, resourceful, careful, Domminant (well, duh).. but also considerate, gentlemanly and genuine. Hopefully this all combines nicely to cut the shape of a good authority figure (or at least, I've had no complaints so far).
My philosophy is pretty simple. The idea of being firm but fair. The rules are all set out and if they're broken.. well mistakes become regrets. This goes nicely in hand with my interest specifically in the whole training/conditioning thing. But I think I'm starting to repeat myself and ramble a little bit so I'll leave that there. In short, ask me... and I'll tell you.
Things I'm into include: bondage/rope play, humiliation, spanking, sensory deprivation, finding interesting non-fetish objects that might cause some discomfort, roleplay, posture training, tit play, etc.. it's a long, long list.
As for the vanilla aspect of me...
I'm a freelance graphic designer (mostly fashion ecommerce) in London, having lived here for over 10 years after moving down from the sunny climates of the midlands. A quick personal summary.. Whisky / Dogs / Running / Fashion / Video Games / Double Denim / Bad Movies / Bands with Obnoxious Names / Comic Books / People Watching in Coffee Shops
Feel free to say hello. |
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