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Hetero Male Submissive, 52,  Pompano Beach, Florida
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Ideally, i hope to meet a naturally dominant women. i want a friend as well as a Mistress, in the way of FLR, Female Led Relationship.... i am a lion on the outside but a kitten when it comes to my submission... i am a servant/sub, but, a manly man...

i am very sensual, love experimentation, witty, humorous, flirtatious, edge play, humiliation, obedience, control, ownership, and am finding allowing this part of nature to emerge very freeing. i am a gentlemen in or out of this vanilla lifestyle...
My service style is best described as: i am an invitation to pleasure and comfort, i am a dream-chaser, lifter of veils, hedonist, adventure seeker and mischief's muse...I'm a service-oriented adrenalin junkie who is still perfecting the art of patience, enjoys fine living and the pursuit of pleasures, and finally understands the value of listening...i have a penchant for sharp, shiny objects, good manners, intellectual discourse, the sensation of absolute fear pulsing through my veins, and all things epicurean...
Highly sensual, i crave carnal delights, and as many breathtaking moments of awe that i can experience in my life...i want to live fearlessly and passionately—and with as few regrets as possible...The concept of quarry particularly resonates with me, and I've been known to bare my neck as an invitation to charming predators..."The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." -Friedrich Nietzsch

i'm domestically inclined, the distinction to me is where my motivation comes from... i am passionately devoted to the pursuit of sensual pleasures, sensuous and luxurious living, and the enjoyment of good food and comforts; i enjoy living well and being able to provide a similar experience to someone i serve...

I'm a golfer, and watch it on TV, as well as football, i am TV buff, and i like to paint, dancing, play chess, capture pictures, go by the pool, bicycle riding, the beach, go to Church, fishing, travel, boating, theater, waking i do 3 miles every day...So if that's not a problem with You, the breaks that i take, that's OK by me...Unless, there is a shit load of work for me to do...:-)~
i enjoy all aspects to servant/sub, from simple domestic service to the most bizarre and extreme sexual activities, including guest, but i am not a follower...{Unless it comes from a Strong Dominate Woman}...

My interest are more geared toward making You happy, obediently by your knees...Cleaning (what a good job i can do), washing, ironing, mirrors and window washing, bathrooms, floor boards, the kitchen i scrub clean, especially the appliances, the whole nine yards...You could call me a "house-wife", but no sissy-sissy....yuk
i owned about 7-8 houses, my gardening skills are appreciated, i can paint in side or out, i am the fixer-upper...
i am good looking, sexual, i want to love my Mistress. i am into Worship, foot worship, mild to severe pain, CBT, role playing, personal service: by that i mean picking up your clothes, bathing You, take care of combing your hair, putting cream all over You, painting your toe nails, giving that Great Deep Massage, etc...
In other aspects of life, i am 53 years old, was into real estate; am retired but stay busy still with a variety of activities. i had a stroke 13 years ago, it was an 12 hr operation, i had to go to speech therapy for 9 years, but i am normal, i forget words, then i remember them: 10-15 minutes out of the conversation, (that's good for a Mistress-shut up sub...) Haha i play a lot of golf, at the pool or beach too many times, play chess (what a game), paint, i cook (great cook) and clean my condo...and would be glade to do yours as well and many other things:-)
Respectfully Humbly Your servant/sub
tony PS: People with no pix. No balls. We live in a visual society. Get a clue. The picture of me was taken on 12/12...i didn't know how to set the date, i got it now...Haha












Last Online:


 Submissive Male

 Pompano Beach 


 Willing to Relocate

 6' 0"

 189 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Switch Women


A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Bicycling (Expert)

 Horseback Riding

 Scuba Diving

 Snorkeling (Expert)

 Walking (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Genital Punishment (Expert)

 Foot Worship (Expert)

 Housework Service (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training


 Serving as a Butler

 Public Play


 Role Playing (Expert)

 Spanking (Expert)


 Watersports (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)


 Historical Shows

 Role Playing Games

 Science Fiction (Expert)

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing

 Cooking (Expert)

 Gardening (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse


 Female Supremacy



 Golf (Expert)

 Horse Racing



 Art Galleries (Beginner)


 Coffee Shops

 Fishing (Expert)

 Garage Sales


 Musical Theater (Expert)

 Dancing (Expert)


 Rafting (Beginner)


 Ultimate Frisbee (Beginner)


 Corner Time

 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Hair Pulling


 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Rubber Fetish


 Theatrical Scenes

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows


 True Crime

 Art Collecting









 Liberal Politics


 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM











 Bar Hopping


 Going to the Opera (Beginner)



 Aerobics (Beginner)


 Climbing (Beginner)

 Gymnastics (Beginner)





 Domestic Service (Expert)

 Massage (Getting)

 Medical Play


 Orgasm Denial (Beginner)

 Pantyhose Fetish

 Sensory Deprivation

 Speech Restrictions


 Wax play


 Puzzle Games

 Simulation Games

 TV News

 Alternative Medicine







 Old Guard



 Body Building





 Amusement Parks

 Antique Shows

 Bird Watching

 Flea Markets


 Renaissance Faires







 Horror Movies

 Curious About:


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Shopping (Expert)

 Bondage (Beginner)





 Masks (Wearing)

 Hard Limits:


 Fire Play


 Gas Masks


 Knife Play

 Masks (On Partner)

 Needle Play

 Plastic Wrap

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Journal Entries:
8/13/2013 5:34:34 PM

A Cleaning Wife, that's what i feel like, i am anal, i am concessive compulsive...That's who i am, the one thing that stops me, is i have no Female Led Relationship ;o,(

That's who i am, but theres is more, i can sweep a Domme off Her feet...

Always Beneath You...



7/6/2013 4:26:32 PM

OK, boys, i am NOT INTERESTED.....

i not an ATM, or a PIG, so girls especially the young ones...NOT INTERESTED...

7/3/2013 6:18:01 PM


It was another "sub zone day", i was cleaning the glass today, right after i came back from golf, it started there, because i talking to a nice Mistress and i wanted to do the stuff that i normally do...

i was wondering if she can check the appliances, etc, in great detail....That one always gives me a hard-on;o)~

My day started when i watched the news, then i was browsing, then i went golfing, then cleaning, then take a shower, (Woman, massage your feet and lightly scrub them, and put cream on your whole body....) Oh ya, most definitely...

Now i am lying on the bed naked, with my 3 inch ball stretcher on:-')~

Wondering what am i going to do, but i feel this "sub zone"...

6/30/2013 6:43:35 PM


It's funny how i go into a sub zone, not always, but tonight i had the sub zone when i was cleaning in the kitchen, (i know how to cook), It was an awesome feeling to know that i want to be dominated by a strong women, with a who or what i am i am, please doesn't the Woman with that FLR want me?

Please come...  


5/6/2013 1:18:28 PM

i found some Femdom Stories, that are good for woman and men...Tell me what you think...

12/27/2012 9:39:32 AM

While pursing i found this these words of songs...Please listen...

and this, it's so what i feel & do...


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