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Male Submissive, 42, New Hamp., New Hampshire
Male Submissive, 33, los angeles, California
Female Submissive, 42, Birmingham, Alabama
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About tomakeyouchange

I am not a nice person.



I am a sadist, with a strong interest in both mental and physical transations.

I am completed HMIs Intro to Hypnotist course.

My ideal submissive is a woman who is ready to explore the idea of becoming a purely sexual thing, but I am willing to working any submissive or slave who feels that they need a hand in their development.

I have discovered an interest in lactation that I am starting to explore.



There is a difference between a slave and a submissive

A submissive has choice and a slave does not.

A submissive has limits and a slave does not.

A submissive receives pleasure, a slave only gives it.

A submissive is treated with respect, a slave is used for my pleasure and amusement.

A submissive wants to be controlled, a slave needs it.



It is the masters responsibility to use the power the given to him responsibly.

A wise master protects, cares for, and improves his slaves, rather than abusing them.

A slave is something valuable, and should not be sundered and discarded for nights pleasure.



I will treat everyone as a submissive, until we agree that they are a slave.



What I am looking for in a slave

Obedience, to my will

Courage, to try my ideas

Eagerness, to please me

Sensuality, to enjoy what we do together

Willingness, to change

I have an interest in extreme body modification, but will only be explored with a slave.

I enjoy protocol, and will expect you to be polite when you contact me.

I also love exhibitionism, and will encourage any interest you may have in it.



For transsexuals who are interested in my ideas I am straight, but I enjoy the process of transing a submissive trans into a of pleasure.



My interest could be summarized as Human Domestication. Anyone who has an interest in the creation of a human animal farm should speak with me.



I am not a nice person, but I try to be a good one.
Right now, What I am seeking most is for people who are willing to try and experiment with hypnosis.
Unfortunately after a series of bad experiences, I have decided to remove my interest in trans for my profile.

Which I am sure that the people that I have dealt with are a minority in the community, I haven't ever had a large interest in feminization, forced or not.

That being said, any trans with an interest in more unusual or extreme transformations, please contact me.

I'm playing around with teamviewer and I see lots of opportunities...

To those I have been conversing with, but have been late in replying to: I apoligize. Personal and work issues have been drawing my focus. Hopefully, they should clear up soon.

Moving into a new place, and the internet is hooked up yet :(

I won't be online often, so please don't be offended if it takes be a bit of time to reply to your messages.

Another family event done and over with.

At least no one had a stroke this time, even though my sister is pregnant, again.

I can't help but think that it is behaviour unbecoming of a dominant to throw a tantrum if a submissive or slave isn't interested in you.

 

My policy on such thing is simple:

Once a submissive has clearly indicated that they don't want to speak with me, I add them to my hidden list.

 

Simple, clean, polite and effective.

 

There are too many good people here to waste your time obsessing over a single one, or trying to find a way to humiliate them.

Redoing my link library:

 

It strips the p h p between the . and the ? in the bdsmlibrary links :(

 

"Cow's Bargain": http://www.mcstories.com/CowsBargain/CowsBargain.html

"Addiction": http://www.mcstories.com/Addiction/index.html

"Docile": http://www.mcstories.com/Docile/index.html

"A Dog's Life": http://www.mcstories.com/DogsLife/index.html

"Pleasure Island": http://www.mcstories.com/PleasureIsland/index.html

"Stupid, Ugly and Fat": http://www.mcstories.com/UglyStupidAndFat/index.html

My Girl Imogen "http://www.mcstories.com/MyGirlImogen/index.html"

"Carpool Tunnel Syndrome": http://www.mcstories.com/CarpoolCarnalSyndrome/index.html

"The Understanding": http://www.mcstories.com/Understanding/index.html

"Relax, We're Family": http://www.mcstories.com/RelaxWereFamily/index.html

"Teacher": http://www.mcstories.com/Teacher/index.html

"Test Subject Mom": http://www.mcstories.com/TestSubjectMom/index.html

"Herd Instinct": http://www.mcstories.com/HerdInstinct/index.html

"Zippers": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=4837

"Tammie's Training": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=680

"Kelly's Slave": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=1164

"Cheerleader Picture": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=1539

"Greed!": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=2425

"Donnie's Bitch": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=4535

"Captured Caroline": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=24

"Survival": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=918

"Cowgirl": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=2658

"Thunder and Lightning": http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=3491

"Amish No More": http://www.literotica.com/s/amish-no-more

"Quick trip to the Barn": http://www.literotica.com/s/quick-trip-to-the-barn

"Brooke loves to Tease": http://www.literotica.com/s/brooke-loves-to-tease

 "Two Girl Workout Predicament": http://www.literotica.com/s/two-girl-workout-predicament-ch-01

"Cage": http://www.literotica.com/s/cage

"The Ayurvedic Treatment: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/stories/story.?storyid=9235

 

Pictures:

"Female Cattle Camp": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/445051/b9cafa864d/

"Lisa & Ally": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/479187/597c097c69

"Tilt Mode": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/17463/6cf6584b95/

"Office Mascot": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/501347/3c7202528b/

"Nozzle": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/210889/cd8789cd9d/

"Black Whip": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/210890/8ea32ca312/

"Drink Up!": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/210893/d6c368b3d0/

"Dog Wife": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/493620/6cac34829f/

"Fist Crusher": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/205513/deab9a8dad/

"Human pets": https://shanachan.org/fetish/res/4037.html

"Human Cows": https://shanachan.org/fetish/res/11776.html

"Imprisonment": https://shanachan.org/fetish/res/27366.html

"Pony Girls": https://shanachan.org/fetish/res/29652.html

"Twins & Twins": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/116612/1460e9f217/

"Cow Milking Collection": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/516600/686c5770d4/ mostly good most, put a few I dislike.

"Milked Cum": https://shanachan.org/fetish/res/20074.html

"Milk Factory": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/558842/11372113bf/

"Stepford Bound": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/259562/c5dcc6d74e/

"My Mom is a Bitch": http://g.e-hentai.org/g/594044/9a04f7fde2/

 

real life human animals: http://www.aigando.com/

"pets - petgirls - ponygirls": http://extreme-board.com/humiliation-women/466844-pets-petgirls-ponygirls.html

 

 


My life has begun to return to some level of sanity.

 

Expect a higher level of activity in the coming weeks.

Update:

 

My mother's health has begun to recover.

I have made large changes in my personal situation to be more active in monitoring her care.

 

Also, I am currently very interested in hucows.

Suggested reading: http://www.mcstories.com/HerdInstinct/index.html

In summary:

Over the past 2 weeks, my mothers health has been deteriorating.

A series of increasingly severe mini-strokes has incapacitated her, and my personal stress level has been rising to match.

Review my behaviour over that period, I have been trying to use this site to reduce that stress level.

Specifically, I have treat some people in ways that they did not deserve, and I am apologizing for that.

I am also going to be spending much less time here until the situation with my mother is resolved.

-Alex

In summary: I'm back, and my easter weekend sucked.

There are reason I only see my family 3 times a year.

To the people I have been talking to, I'm going to be visit my vanilla family over easter, so I probably won't be online.

Everyone should read this:

http://g.e-hentai.org/g/479187/597c097c69

 

tldr: aside from the amazing hot sex scenes, it has one of the best illustrations of the emotional side of starting a BDSM relationship I have ever read.

I find myself being drawn to the idea of human livestock...

I'm curious:

Why are there so many profiles with photos, but no text?

 

I can understand why you would want to be shy here, but why put your face or your body without telling anyone about yourself. I know that physical attraction is important, but there is a lot of mental stuff in BDSM, not to mention how wide a field of activities the term covers.

Well, I'm back.

 

The trip went ok...

 

but nothing says "fun" like hold your friend's head above a toilet bowl while they puke :(

Just to let the people I have been talking to know, I have a short trip with some offline friends planned for next week, and may not be able to get online.

Just discovered this, and it looks every interesting: http://www.aigando.com/

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