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11/26/2007 8:09:34 AM

Hi, my name is John. I'm a 29 year old straight single male 6' .I currently live in Mumbai. I've been involved in the BDSM scene since the year 2000. I have come to understand that I need to be in a serious preferably long term relationship with a sane woman who enjoys the role of disciplinarian but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body. I want a real relationship which domestic discipline is an important part, but not the whole relationship. I'm looking for a serious relationship with a sane woman enjoys B&D play but wants to interact with me as a person rather than just a body.

But makes me know my limits in the relationship.

 

I need a dominant who understands that it does hurt a lot and that I'll need bondage and a gag in order to take much of a beating. I believe that binding and gagging is an important part of the ritual of domestic discipline.

Beatings are for punishment not play.

 

For play I'm into humiliation,verbal abuse,torture,facesitting,begging,oral servitude,ball torture,being bound,gagged,collars.I also enjoy being face slapped. I'm open minded and am willing to try new things.I have not tried toilet servitude but am very eager to explore it and only with proper consent from the dominant partner.I am not into cuckoldry and crossdressing.

 

I'm seeking a SWF dominant woman who enjoys the role of an uncompromising disciplinarian. She will determine the seriousness of any transgressions I may commit and will employ traditional modes of discipline such as paddles, hairbrushes, straps, canes, birches or simply smacking me around as she deems appropriate for correction.She should be an educated, intelligent, soft spoken, gentle lady whom I can respect and who understands that through that respect she earns her right to judge my behavior and apply discipline. I prefer dominant women who are aggressive.I like a woman who'll grab me by the scruff of the neck and make me do what she wants when I'm difficult. I like a woman who's not afraid to touch me. So many dominants only seem to see submissive men as pieces of meat that they can beat on. I looking for a woman who wants to do B&D 'with' me, as opposed to 'to' me. If I sound like someone you'd be interested in interacting with for mutual enjoyment.
JanaD
 
 Age: 48
  New York