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Tobry -  Dominant Couple, Melbourne | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Tobry

OK, I know a lot of women here must get a little jaded dealing with jerks. I'd like to think I could develop a few friendships, online or otherwise, with like mided people here, starting with a friendly HI! and whatever comes to mind. All quite polite.

If you have to be rude, understand that you're exposing the hideous personality lies behind it.

We're real, honest people with modest lives looking for something real. We're not desperate for sex either. And friendship with people who understand this and we can talk to about it means a lot.

So, if anyone's interested in what we have to offer. Great friendship and a safe place to explore it in. They can contact us because I'm sick of the rudeness and fakeness of what we've delt with so far.

I'm not a sadist, but I can swing a whip. I love bondage too, and am quite good at it. I just love what a D/s relationship can achieve for all involved.

We're more than happy with anything from an online chat, to a coffee, to whatever level this thing takes us. There is always something wonderful to be gained from people willing to share thier thoughts and experiences.


If you want to be, or want to know if you can be, loved by two people, and love two people in a D/s style relationship. Or if you want to spend time in one to explore a D/s relationship with someone who will look after you, rather than just use and abuse (outside of play) then we'd love to meet you.

(Sorry for the photo, but there are professional reasons I can't show my face here. I'm happy to send a pic' to anyone I trust.)


I've been a dominant as long as I can remember, even before I knew what it was. My wife discovered her submission though me.



A few years ago a woman came into our lives and discovered her submissive nature through me. It was a great, though sometimes trying experience for all of us, and she now lives in a TPE 24/7 relationship with a dominant she met here.


While the three of us living together was hard, it was also one of the most rewarding things we've experienced.

We'd like to explore this again. Not necessarily as a live in situation, but within whatever capacity suits all of us.
As profound as the experience we had sharing our lives with someone, there was a lot of pain too, and we don't want to make the same mistakes.
Friendship, transparency, trust and patience mean a lot to us, and we will take the time to develop that.

If someone just wants to just be a toy now and then, that's fine too, but we still need to know that respect is there.
Getting to know someone that deeply is an incredible experience, which is why we are wanting to do this again.








What we want, is to be able to share, explore, grow and learn with someone again. Not just the mindless satisfaction of desires. If we get it right, there'll be plenty of that.







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