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Tobehermuse

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About Tobehermuse

To me submission is about service. It is not about what kinky thing I want my partner to do to me, but about making her life easier and more comfortable. Being a better submissive is what I strive for everyday.

To the outside world I am a regular guy with a career and family. I have a full life. My wife is the only person to whom I will ever be submissive. She is the one to whom I belong. Her happiness is my goal and I let a little more of my selfishness die daily on this journey.

I am on this site for community, friendship, and support. I do not play with others and am completely monogamous. My wife knows about this account and why I have created it and has the login to check in on me if she so desires.

While I have expressed to my wife this need and desire to submit to serving and obeying her, she has made it clear that she has no interest in anything "kinky." She will graciously allow me to do the housework and get up early with the kids so she can sleep in, but does not want an explicitly stated power exchange. This is difficult for me, but I respect her enough to not try to change her; I simply seek to be exactly the man she needs to be. There are times when I wish for more, and that is why it is good to find a place like this where I can see I am not alone.
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