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Male Dominant, 52, Columbia, Tennessee
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Transgender Dominant
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Male Switch, 67, NEAR LEBANON, Tennessee
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About TNtrainingneeded
Guy next door with a hidden side? That's me. It describes my life as I am partnered to a vanilla guy who understands my leather side and is allowing me to reach out and explore this.
So, I have been on various sites over the years and have yet to find what I am looking for and have decided that maybe it is a straight man, woman or who knows as learning is my primary motivation, not sex. Have I found what I was looking for over the years, well, yes and no. While I have discovered that I do have a dom side and am pretty damn good with a flogger in my hand, I am still looking for training through a concept I am calling a "dominant friend". For me, this person will embody a Trainer, a Daddy, and especially a Master but this person will also be understanding of my situation as I am not looking to explore sex play with this side of myself, just really to understand more about submission, how it feels to be bound in ______ way, or what being a dog really feels like :) I think this Man exists and have made headway in finding him as well. In addition, if I just found a kinky friendship out of it, that is just as good. A lot of men play golf as a hobby with their best buddy, I think playing "bondage" would work just as well. Don't you?
What else have I learned? I have learned that I look way better with my head shaved to a number one and that the gym is my friend and nothing to be afraid of. I have learned I must always make sure my chest is larger than my belly (maybe this dom friend idea above will "force" me to work out). I have learned that your inner needs will always pop up but that doesn't mean you have to risk what you have worked hard to get just to satisfy them as you can always put some thought into it and work it out. I have learned that I still LOVE collars and leashes and want to wear one one day. I have learned I am now fascinated by hypnosis and Master/slave relationships. I have learned that I am still not able to show a face pic due to a high level position in a small place and to also protect my partner who is in the same boat that I am not a coward for not saying "fuck it" and doing it anyway because I still have to live a regular life and earn a living (that being said, I can easily attach one or email one). Most importantly, I have learned from many, many members on this site that we should celebrate out individual fetsishes and protect each other and I want to say thank you to all of you who do because you have taught me a great deal while on this site. |
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