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| I seek a submissive woman who is not afraid to be everything she has always wanted to be, but could not achieve without the right partner. Yes, I said "partner", for I seek a partner, not a doormat, or even a doorknob!
At the heart of every successful relationship, there is an essential equality. This is true for a D/s relationship as well. Before engaging, and joining, we must agree of shared objectives as well as the way we want to live our lives together. No spinning, only honesty!
I have lived a long (yep, that's my age) life and achieved a variety of objectives. In fact, I have achieved every objective and aspiration on my long list. Now, what is left is a need for peace with one who shares my need for a D/s partnership. I have saved enough money to provide a fairly opulent lifestyle for us, and in exchange for your covenant to "love, honor and obey" me, you will cherished and held in security and happiness.
I desire a woman of slender proportions, perhaps slim, perhaps petite, but certainly never outside of the HWP category. You will have to enjoy physical exercise because I enjoy working out every day. You will also have to enjoy travel, as I do this for about 5 months every year (usually during the Florida hurricane season).
I am an extremely adaptable person who can find pleasure in doing many things. However, on the bdsm side I am a very conservative person. I do not "scene", nor do I get involved with anything that would either harm my sub, nor anything that could have me lose my self-respect. It is all about a "power exchange" for me and we would live a life that "lightly" represents this on a day to day basis. We would discuss the "rules" of our lives together so that we both agree to them.
Finally, I believe that we must both be happy, and this must be reflected in our day to day lives for our union to be successful.
I would be happy to provide a picture to anyone that is sincerely interested in my profile.
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I am amused to note that many submissive profiles indicate a need to qualify a Dom's sadistic needs. Often, they use code words like "strict", "demanding" or "unbending". They miss the point of a D/s dynamic. In every successful relationship the Dom and sub/slave must negotiate the physical parameters. Each party needs to be satisfied that their fantasy is being met naturally and without contrivance. These negotiations must be very deliberate, or the relationship, if it ever begins, will be short and unsatisfying. My own desire is to exercise my will over my sub is through temperance and persuasion (never create an environment of terror!), and provide a "painful conclusion" only when required by the dynamic of our relationship. |
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I have often been accused of being "intellectual". Perhaps this is due to many years of higher education and a couple of graduate degrees. I hate the term! Most intellectuals are loaded with pretense and have little common sense. Yet, my tastes tend towards "thought" rather then impulse. I don't care about my submissive's formal education, but I do want her to have curiosity towards life so that we can enjoy the "voyage of discovery" together as we live our lives in the future. |
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