TIPS FOR THOSE SEEKING A SLAVE!!!
Note: This slave is owned and is not seeking a new owner, or a sister.
My Owner has instructed me to create this profile to offer tips to people who are using Collarme to find a slave. During the months it took me to find a Master here on Collarme, I learned a lot about what a prospective should and should not do to attract a slave and am offering my experience to help others who are having trouble finding their little fucktoy, painslut, or whatever.
1. When sending a message to a prospective slave make the message long enough to provide real information to that person. Also, do not repeat exactly what your profile already says. Show the slave that you are interested enough to provide additional and new information.
2. A lot of slave seekers tell prospects to “Read my profile and if you are interested, get back to me.” In my search, I took this to mean that this Owner is not worth the effort.
3. Make your messages long enough to truly tell the prospect something, but not so long as to be boring. In my view if a message was not at least a screen or two long, I would not follow up. At the same time, some messages were so long that it took too long to read it all. Now, after I became interested, the longer messages were very helpful and the short messages did not turn me off.
4. Photos is a very big deal. All male owners are handsome and all female owners are beautiful and we know that. However, all men and women are not attractive to this slave, but may be to the next slave. Some slaves prefer tall while others prefer short. If you want to get the attention of a slave, include a photo with you message at least for the first four of five messages. Do this even if you have photos on your profile. As for me, I got so many messages that I only looked at the ones with photos attached if I did not know the person by name. Do this even if you attach the same photo that is on your profile.
5. Telling a slave that you will provide a photo only after a serious interest is established is just about the same as telling a slave prospect to go to hell. By doing that, you have more than likely lost all hope of landing that slave.
6. We all know there are a lot of fakes here in Collarme. Both slaves and Owners. However, if you are really interested in the slave, be patient about seeking proof. I had prospects that seemed nice, but wanted phone contact after the second message or else. In all of those cases I became the “Or else” and dropped that prospect from my list. I and most real slave will agree to phone contact in their own good time and only after establishing a high level of trust in the prospective owner. That level of trust in not likely to happen in less than 10 to 20 messages or so.
7. The same is true of prospective owners asking for special photos too soon. You know, one with me wearing “blue panties holding a rope with my right hand that is draped over my left shoulder. As far as that goes, I never agreed to do any special photos. While I see the logic in making the request, I did not have a camera that I could set up and take the picture without asking someone to help me and there was no way I would ask my mother to take such a photo. She may not like what I am doing, but I surely was not going to rub her nose in it.
8. Don’t waste time asking a slave what city they live in. If it’s on their profile, fine, but if it’s not, there may be a reason they did not include it. As for me, until I got to know someone, I was not about to tell them.
9. Never, never send a prospect a one line message and even think you might get a reply. Why waste your time and theirs?
10. Be honest with the slave you are seeking. If you intend to keep them chained in a dark basement during the day, tell me. While I would not reply to your message, I would appreciate your honesty. Let the slave prospect know how they will be used, they do have a right to know. It's not possible for an Owner to provide a day by day account of everything for the first six months, but it is reasonable for an Owner to provide a very good idea of what life will be like for the slave and it should be provided.
11. Some slave say they don’t like “cut & paste” messages, but in truth for the number of contacts that a potential Owner has to make to find that right slave, I have no problem with “cut & paste” if it’s done carefully. In fact, if done correctly few people will even notice it. By that I mean that Dom/Domme MUST read the slave’s profile and address issues and information the slave provided. In other words blend information tailored for the slave to whom you are writing with your stock “cut & paste” that applies to all slaves. Good slaves prospects are receiving hundreds or thousands of messages and it’s the Dom/Dommes who are creating these messages. Hopefully, good messages that are neither too short or too long will reduce the number of messages us slaves receive and the number the Dom/Dommes are having to send. Just be sure your original text blends well with your cut & paste parts. And READ what you plan to send, BEFORE you send it. Please!!!
Other slaves are invited to let me know of other things that Owners should avoid and I will add them to this post.
