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TinkinSTL

Male Submissive, 37, london
Female Submissive, 21, monroeville, Alabama
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TinkinSTL - Female Submissive, St Louis Missouri | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

Friends:
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About TinkinSTL

I have found what I seek......................

>Mainly here out of couriosity and a dare from a friend.? I am? very active in my area and attend events and groups that are Lifestyle related.? ?I am not a fan of online relationships and LDR are not something that I believe ever works.? Fully independent and not looking for any man to "take care of me".? I am strong willed and not a doormate so if that is your goal please move on.? New friends are always a welcome but I am not into playing online games or phone fantasy role play and will not cam or send pics?for your thrills.? more to follow............
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So what I have noticed is that very few people read profiles even if they clearly spell out what someone is seeking and also that I know it? must be as hard for the males to start a conversation but something more than just "hello" really would be appreciated.? I will try to be polite and respectful to everyone but if you start to get defensive or snarky well then don't be surprise when you get a verbal "bitch slap"? I am not a grammer nazi but I refuse to have a conversation in text speak, it takes no more effort to add a few letters and when you fail to do so it speaks volumes to me about the kind of person you are.
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I don't see submission as a "gift" since a gift is something that can be taken back, my submission is willingly given to a man that will show me he has the strenght of character that brings it fully to bloom.? Service is a huge part of my submission and this service is shown in many ways including sexual but that is only a very small part of what I seek.? If you understand the phrase power exchange then you have an idea of what I seek.? I see lots of comments on profiles that say something to the effect of "this is not about sex"? and while I applaud the fact you believe there is more to this than sex, lets be honest and admit that sex IS a very big part of this, how do you flog someone nekkid and not think about sex?? How do I worship you, your body without sex coming to play?? Sex may not be ALL that BDSM is about but lets be honest and agree it is a huge damn part.

I am so glad to be home, made it back in time for the Eastside Munch and now looking forward to Taboo and the STL3 Open Munch on Sat.  Love having my kinky friends around.

Well Ga was lovely but will be back in St Louis in time for the munch this weekend.....YAY, so missed my kinky friends.

Heading back to Ga on Monday, hoping to find a friendly munch or group while I am there if time permits.

Home from Spanksgiving.....WOW what a great event, wonderful people, great presenters and I had a wonderful time and saw some amazing scenes..... :)
In Ga for the next 10 days, will have to see what is happening on the weekends. Heading home to enjoy Spanksgiving and Thanksgiving then back to Ga on the 26th........hope to meet folks at the next munch.

Very busy weekend, two parties and then flying out on Sunday to Ga, this is gonna be interesting as I will be back and forth from home to Ga for the next several months for work.............wonder if I can find some kinky folks to visit with while I am down there?  Hope to see some new faces at tonights party........

Wow a special added Taboo night Oct 25 and the annual Flog Halloween party this Saturday.......YAY, get to have fun before my trip out of town.

Had to take a break and give myself some thinking space but now back home and ready to enjoy the weekend, Taboo is tomarrow and the munch is Saturday....great excuses to dress up n sexy while the weather is still warm enough :)

Having spoken with many females I  would pass on this tiny bit of advice for those that want to call themselvs dom or master....................leave out the pic's of your cocks, this is a huge turn off for the majority of women and pretty  much tells us that it is what rules your dominance :)

Going to enjoy Flog tonight, great way to end my weekend.

Glad to be back home, its been a long week so looking forward to Taboo tonight to see friends and watch some fun scenes.

So far it has rainy and wet here in NC, the DNC has made everything crazy. Ready to go home and enjoy my kinky friends. :)
So folks if you ever need to put a face to the term "Twatwaffle", "asshat" or complete "trolling douchbag" check out CM member Jck124. For fun and amusement he can keep you laughing for hours but make no mistake this is not a man, not a top and in no way could ever be a Dom.

Getting things ready for my trip, sadly my hours that I will be working won't allow me to visit with the local kink community or attend any events but with the everything going on I hear the local's are going out of town for fun.............can't forget to pack the Hitachi at least that will be fun to play with :)

So calling me "your slut" online when we have never met is suppose to be thrilling and erotic???  Wow..........no wonder you are alone and so bitter about women.

Getting things ready for my trip out of town to Charlotte NC, sadly won't be there long enough to enjoy the kinky community but it still might be fun.

So I went as the sexy Cougar and got many compliments, had a great time at Flog, saw many of my friends and ended the night in the hot tub.................life is good :)

So pondering.......slutty school girl or sexy cougar?  Can't wait for the party tonight, new sexy heels to wear :)

Looking forward to this weekend, special Flog party and lots of friends to see :)

Heading to the Atomic Cowboy, good food with great friends, hope everyone else is having a great weekend.

Very nice compliment recieved lately

1. don't look my age

2. a very hot MILF

3. damn girl you rock that outfit

4. you are one sexy lady

 

very nice to know there are still gentlemen out in the world and some find me sexy and disirable.  LOL made my night :)

Taboo tonight.........looking forward to it :)

Looking forward to Taboo and the munch........work has just been crazy.

You kneel, in position and you can feel him standing behind you the coolness of his slacks against your naked back.  You kneel because it please's him and you crave that ritual and protocol he has brought into your life.  You kneel because he brings out of you that submission that must be buried during the day because you are a strong women, a woman with strenght enough to submit with pride and grace.  You knew at a glance he would dominate not domineer, control not abuse and you would find peace in your service to him.

Oh wow, its official.............I am to be a presenter at Spanksgiving 2012 :)

Yay, going to the Eastside Munch tonight to hangout with my kinky friends...............:)

toooo funny, you don't want a doormat, you want a strong independent woman, you want one secure in her desire and needs as a submissive but then you can't handle me in simple chat???

I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe

 

BINGO

"For of all sad words of tongue or pen..the saddest are these, "(what) might have been"." John Greenleaf Whittier

 

I found this quote on a profile here, thanks to MDNJ.............how truly sad it is to not seek what you truly want because you fear  _______ *fill it what is appropriate*

What a great night at FLOG, so many friends to see..............the only hard part was seeing the interaction at the scene's, that is something that is missed.

If you cannot be polite and reasonable why are you contacting me again?  Funny how many claim a title they have not earned or deserved.

Pondering if I should go to Flog or not this weekend, I feel the need for a kinky fix and seeing my friends will do that but will it be enough?

I wonder how many truly know the difference between a submissive and a slave, do you equate one with wanting pain, humiliation and abuse, do you even have a clue to what we seek?.................................I don't think so

interesting profile...........intriging and original.....peaking my interest.......and then I take a peak at the photos..........BAM....hit smack in the eye with a cock shot......interest now dead

Serioiusly we have some nut-bag shooting folks at a movie opening and people call me a freak because I enjoy a flogger??

I keep seeing statements that say I need to prove myself as "real" .........trying to figure out how that is done.  :D

Officially going to the hotest event in the MidWest "Spanksgiving" in Nov 12, hope to see many friends there.

sadly learning that men are being targeted for moneyn on this site is sad...nuff said

Seriously??? Cock shots??? that is suppose to impress a women that is seeking a Dom or Master, wtf does your cock have to do with a power exchange?? 

Tonight is the open munch, very much looking forward to seeing my friends.

Going to Taboo tonight at the Hustler Club then have the munch on Saturday to enjoy.........nice weekend ahead.   :)

Not trying to be rude but I find "cock shots" to be very childish and I am not a fan of them but I am sure some enjoy knowing how great your "package" is.  Also if I see that you are going to treat me as inhuman, less then worthy or as your own "fuck pig or pet"   These are the types of profiles I prefer not to see so I will for my own choice "block" them......T

for more info I am on as "simplyT"

this site has been interesting but if you really wanna know what I look like you will most probably need to come to an event as the statement of "No pic's" really is not a tease to start a conversation

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